A SCAM THEY ARE THIEVES
Review about OurTimeLike others I see here reviewing, I agree with almost all the same issues.
Customer assistance is NON EXISTANT regardless of their claim, no phone numbers and only e mail contact which they block if you do complain.
Thankfully I only signed up for one month however the first sign of a problem should have been their denying my VALID credit card (after repeated attempts and no assistance from from the afore mentioned Customer Assistance). I am also concerned now that they have my credit card number.
This required me to get a postal money order to send them (BIG MISTAKE, BE FORWARNED).
THEY CASHED MY MONEY ORDER!
Then my photos (that met with their criteria)were still not posted after over a week of waiting (in spite of their stated maximum wait time of 72 hours).
I had the nerve to complain about it (to the non existant customer service you can only reach by e mail/no phone numbers) they then sent me an e mail simply telling me that they cancelled my profile and when I try to e mail a response back I got the mailer daemon response that their address did not exist!
Of course they had already cashed my check.
Don't waste your money, they stole mine.
After reading ALL the reviews posted I believe only two were positive out of about 50 or more (kicking myself, wish I checked this site first) and I have to wonder who sent the positive ones.
I also wanted to follow up on another common complaint from most of the reviews (I believe mostly from women) and I really can't believe I'm almost defending these SCUMBAG THIEVES.
I AM in my mid 50s, I am in shape, I do have all my hair and teeth, have a college education and am retired from a career in law enforcement. While I do shop at Walmart, when it's convienent, I don't look like the stereotypical "Wmart shopper".
No I am not married, I am divorced (years ago) and I lost my girlfriend to cancer over a year ago. I'm not Brad Pitt but I am certainly not Quasimoto!
The reason I joined this group was to find available women in my age range (not younger) not an easy thing to do, so it seemed like a good idea.
I could just as easily pick apart the women on the site, calling themselves average body types when they were obese (hey. I prefer a FEW extra pounds, but seriously...), missing teeth, interested in camping/fishing, etc.
It's a dating site, it's to be expected and not everyone lives in a metro area.
Out of the hundreds of profiles I looked at I was only interested in 5 or 10. Of course I never got to contact any of them...
Lastly, let's not get tunnel vision.
OURTIME.COM is just a subsidiary of PEOPLE MEDIA.
They have MANY other sites such as ITALIANPEOPLEMEET.COM and they are all connected.
THEY ARE THIEVES, THEY STOLE MY MONEY AND THEY ARE A SCAM
Make sure you check who owns the site before you commit any money!
Perhaps the Attorney Generals Office could investigate PEOPLEMEDIA (in Nevada), that's where I would start if my credit card was being repeatedly billed against my wishes?
I can't say for sure who owns it, but, when I used Match over a decade ago, I did not have any of these issues, also POF and Craig list are free (just use common sense and caution).
Pros
IT WILL TEACH YOU A VALUABLE LESSON, DON'T GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THIEVES
Cons
YOU WILL LOSE YOUR MONEY, THEY ARE THIEVES