can't say for sure .

can't say for sure .

I joined the site in 2011, I met a few guys who were paid members. I believe the way a person would behave in a relationship even without the help of the site is basically the same. However some guys who are paid members fill they have an edge and appear pompous. It's not easy to pay here in my country, ( well I think so).
I met a guy and he was so very interested and he told me he loved me, I was swept off, we met , we got engaged, things started going wrong, and then worse.
we are no longer in contact, I still have his ring. He met my family.
My point is we both contributed in the failure of the relationship. nothing to do with the site.
The same things that apply in relationships not through sites apply,
I believe we would have crashed if we had gotten married.
He never left the site, he had and I think still has the idea that there's someone perfect when he is not.

Pros
it's an opportunity to meet,only if there are decent and honest men there.

Cons
the men who are out to have 'fun'. what in God's name does that mean.

Dear Mabel,

Thank you for your continued use of our dating site and we are grateful for sharing your experience. It is unfortunate that your relationship did not turn out as you hoped it would. You are right that is not easy to tell at first what members on the site exactly want. The best way to go about it is to always be honest about what you are looking for. If you want a serious relationship let the people you interact with know that that is what you want and not just a casual date. This way you will be able to avoid interacting further with people who are only willing to offer you less than you desire. Also try and find out as much as possible about the person you are communicating with before you meet them in person. Communicate extensively using email, instant messaging or chat prior to calling the other person. For more dating tips kindly visit our AfroIntroductions.com Dating Safety page.

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