If you want to do nothing but look at pictures, go to a art gallery. That is, however, all that anybody does on this site - look at pictures and do little else. Everybody on this site is marked "answers very selectively" which in plain English means it is a site of voyeurs thinking that someday a millionaire model movie star is going to appear that likes nondescript plain people who use dating sites.
Chris Coyne the co-founder and self professed comedian, who isn't, is a data cruncher who somehow came to the belief that this ability also made him a psychiatrist and relationship expert. The only thing that comes through is that this guy is a total nerd who is posing as a cool guy and outhouse expert.
This is the only dating site I ever used where nobody answered emails. The site is also made up of 90% of people who haven't even looked at the site in 3 months or more. Add in a plethora of scammers and this site is the zero of zero sites.
Considering the high number of bisexual cougars, maybe that is who this site is really best suited.
Pros
None whatsoever.
Cons
Site is a shrine to nerds
Too many bisexuals and cougars.
Too many meaningless pointless questions
90% of the active members clearly show they do not reply to emails
This is a site for long term serial daters on over 5 years
It is trying to be a dating site, social media site and Cracked magazine all at the same time and failing at everything
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Yet another guy trying to blame a dating site for his bad luck with women. OF COURSE most women reply selectively, it's because they get a ton of emails from every guy aged 18 to 65. But I have never had a problem getting a response when I have sent a respectful email that made it clear I had read their profile and we had things in common. Even when I have written to women well out of my age range they almost always reply if it's an honest email regarding a common interest (i.e. I might see someone is into a certain type of music and I just want to recommend a few similar artists)
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