As an older guy (63) this site has been very useful. Thus far I have dated two college girls from the site and am in the process of meeting two others. I have heard from these girls that there are a lot of flaky guys, confirming what some other female reviewers have mentioned. The key to doing this right is to be very respectful in your profile and also when you are communicating with the girls. I never mention any sort of sexual act and when money is mentioned it is only with respect to paying for her time with me. I am also very specific in my profile as to what sort of relationship I am looking for and what I am offering which is minimal and not intended to be full time support, as I have had a long term sugar daddy relationship in the past and just looking to replace it once I find the right girl. I do get a lot of messages from girls who live far away, some even in foreign countries. I ignore them, as it is just impractical to have a long distance relationship this way -- there are plenty of girls in my vicinity to choose from, I do not need to look elsewhere. Also, any contact from a foreign country will likely be a scam so just know to not get caught up in that. I have been on the site for a few months. One thing you need to know is that when your paid subscription is about to expire and immediately thereafter, you will get a ton of messages from girls whose pics are very nice and you will want to reply to those messages. It is just a ploy to get you to renew, since you can't reply unless you are a paid subscriber. After you renew and respond to those messages the girls disappear and you never hear back. I checked a couple of them a few weeks later and the profiles had either been removed or the last login date was when they sent me the original message, so I figure those are all fake. There are some girls who are looking for outrageous sums of money (such as more than 10k/mo) and others who say they are not willing to get intimate and just looking for a "mentor". Memo to these girls: you are wasting your time. Most of the girls I have contacted or who have contacted me at other times are real (I generally get their phone numbers and real e-mail address as soon as possible). All in all I believe it is good value -- if an old guy like me can get dates with 19 to 24 year old college girls from this site, then anybody can, just write a good profile -- "if you build it, they will come (and so will you)".
**Update** Just made a major mistake: had the girl come to my door without meeting her first at a restaurant. I barely recognized her from her photo -- she must have put on about 50 pounds since her photos were uploaded. Will just chalk that up to a lesson learned. This is the first of four I've met so far from this site that didn't resemble her photo. She was nice but I am not into BBWs and would never have agreed to see her if I had known the truth.
Pros
Most girls are attractive and real.
Easy to hook up.
Search engine is pretty good (when searching, don't waste time contacting girls who haven't logged in within the last month).
Cons
None
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