Good experience; lots of pervs

Good experience; lots of pervs

So yes, I did get A LOT of emails from nasty, old or rude men; it happens on these kinds of sites. So ladies (and you tasty young men), do not be surprised when you are propositioned for oral sex in the first email, offered a few hundred per date, told (in great detail) about the nasty things he wants do to you, and generally disrespected by sleaze-ball men who are looking to buy sexual favors. SA is littered with these kinds of members.
You also need to understand what a real SB is: classy, intelligent, attractive, polite, interesting and fun. A SD is a GENTLEMAN with financial means who is also generous, sophisticated, educated, chivalrous, and benevolent. These arrangements work best when both parties meet those standards. If you're a trashy bimbo looking for easy income then you're not going to meet quality men; you're going to meet Johns looking to purchase sex (or get away with sex for free). If you're an asshat looking to buy sex (or it appears as though that's what you seek), you're not going to meet classy, DDF women who actually enjoy your company. I'm sure there are a lot of lot of fake people on the site; I'm sure there are users both attractive and generous. Just be careful about who you choose to meet.
~Men, don't give money initially; buy gifts, clothes, and spa treatments. Don't be stupid and give money to begin with, some women will take it an run off to the next victim. And don't expect sex within the first few dates; that's disgusting, rude and makes women feel cheap and used. You don't want to date women like that anyway and are on the wrong site if you're simply looking to buy sex.
~Women, do NOT have sex on the first date! No! Ew! Wait until you know he's a man of means who is perfectly willing to spoil you. Ask for an allowance AFTER you've been on a few dates and know you can envision something long term with the person. I would suggest after you know you're sexually compatible, too (which should occur no sooner than the third date. I waited until the 5th and several expensive gifts and meals).
I feel like my profile was pretty popular because I can use punctuation properly and write using multisyllabic words. I don't think I'm especially attractive (many men would disagree) but I am articulate, educated, interesting and not a financial predator; men can tell, they'll treat you with respect if you command and deserve it.
I also made sure to properly vet any potential SDs. If he brought up sex within the first 5 emails: ignore. Incomplete grasp of grammar by a native english speaker: ignore. Doesn't mention meeting after 15 emails; ignore. Asks for pictures when I already have 5+ up on the site: ignore.
One man mentioned seeing a topless pic of me (he was crude about it); he offered to spoiled the hell out of me, but I wasn't interested in seeing someone who would be so disrespectful. I don't care how much money you make-- you don't get to treat me like a whore or stripper. He was miffed when I ignored him, but I'm glad I did.
Keep your standards up, ladies. Don't stand for the abuse, no matter how desperate you are. If you're that desperate, get a job. Any job you can, that way to you can look yourself in the mirror and not be ashamed of using some nasty old lecher for his money while being used in return.
There are a few nice men on the site from what I've seen; the icky creeps don't understand what it is to be a real SD. The gross, moronic women probably don't understand what a SB is supposed to be (um, hello, he's your rich boyfriend that you have sex with).
I only ever met one man from SA: my amazing, incredible SD. I liked him initially but things were awkward for the first two dates because I didn't have any experience dating men, just immature college boys. The age difference bothered me at first, but the perks of dating someone who is financially stable, confident and knows what he's doing in bed negate that trifling detail. I now won't even consider dating some one less than 8 years older than me (I wouldn't date someone who is more 13 years older than me, though).
I don't understand how so many of you complain that you can't find a SD. I have two other men from WhatsYourPrice (sister site of SA) that are practically chomping at the bit to see and spoil me, and another from the same site that doesn't make much who has gifts waiting for me to pick up (since I'm not a predator, I won't accept them. He's nice, but I'm not attracted and refuse to use anyone). It must be because you aren't proper sugar babies and you aren't adequately vetting your prospects. And to the men that are complaining about meeting predatory women, use you're brain! You didn't make your money by being a halfwit; if she needs money, pay it weekly!
Ideally, both parties should feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. I know that's how I feel.

Pros
~SDs take care of you financially and emotionally
~You get to try to new things and travel
~They can help you with your career by opening doors for you that would otherwise be closed
~(slightly) older men are more experienced in bed ;)
~you get to take care of a man who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated (if not better!). Believe me, it's rewarding

Cons
~creepy lechers
~picture collectors
~rude men