Illicitencounters.com is the UK's biggest and longest running dating site for wedded individuals. Secured in 2003, we have been giving a gathering spot to similar wedded and joined individuals in excess of 10 years. Our parts have one thing in common - they are all searching for a little sentiment outside their ebb and flow relationship. Whether that is the infrequent bit of coy talk, a consistent espresso date, or an out and out issue, that is dependent upon them. Illicitencounters.com practices itself in making non judgement, no-weight environment for our parts. It takes the security and obscurity of our parts genuinely, which is the reason we offer exceptional peculiarities, for example, secret word insurance on photos, to ensure their characters. We will additionally never impart any of your individual information or contact data with other dating locales - when you sign up to Illicitencounters.com, that is all you're joining to.
Other than trading letters, you can likewise utilize web-cam visit, which our dating webpage offers. This peculiarity is likewise completely free. This is a huge in addition, since you can hear AND additionally see an alternate client in the event that he/she isn't so apathetic it is not possible turn their Polaroid on. Keeping in mind the end goal to communicate in the talk rooms, you and your companion ought to be online in the meantime. On the off chance that you both live in diverse time zones, one of you will need to get ready enough espresso to continue going. With in excess of 900,000 parts over the UK, you're certain to discover your ideal match. To discover what our parts consider us, visit our testimonials page. Click on the room you might want to enter and afterward click the Join Selected Room catch. You can see other individuals in the visit room by clicking on their name in the room rundown. You can additionally make your own particular feature visit room by clicking on the My Public or Private Room catch. Our visit has a framework which permits you to have your own particular private room which is watchword secured. You won't be aggravated by different clients from the general population campaign as private rooms if you use Illicitencounters.com.
Big rip off
After paying ÃÂã129 to enable messaging , too females who never even read or replied to them , and after the subscription ran out they then charged me anotherÃÂã79 as a recurring payment , and when I complained they said I hadn't ticked a box to stop the payment and couldn't get a refund . There is also the fake messages from young women down south who supposedly were interested in a much older man from the highlands of Scotland !! There is some genuine women on the site but because they don't pay are in no rush to answer any messages .
Pros
User friendly web site .
Cons
Expensive , scammers , exploiting lonely men .
Regulation Required
This site appears to have a large number of fake profiles which contact you as soon as you register and then once you have joined disappear or have mundane conversations and never answer your questions if you pose any. They come back with a bland did you have a nice weekend mine was ok.
There maybe or probably are some real profiles but the 50:50 split is probably nearer 80:20 so you may get success but you have more chance in the pub and at least you will have had a good night out.
If you are under 40 you will stand a much better chance anyone over 50 I would suggest your chances of success are minimal.
There needs to be proper regulation of these sites. I have learnt my lesson and will not be rejoining!
Pros
None
Cons
Appears to be a large number of fake profiles
Very expensive
Wastes time you could be spending doing something productive.
Illicit Encounters.....Fakes
I have been on and off this site for a few years now. Initially it was good but the last two years I have to say there are so many fake profiles on it. You get mail from women and they let you see their photos and then as soon as you say lets meet they block you ! You cannot delete your profile and when it says it has over 800,000 'active' members, that is a complete lie. There are on average 600 members online at any one time and a lot of the ladies have been on there for years ! This site should be investigated as as per other complaints on here, best going to a bar and blowing the money on some champagne, at least you will meet a lady there
Pros
None
Cons
Too many fake profiles and women being on there for years !
Illicit
I have been a member on and off this site for a few years now. I have mixed feelings about it. It has got genuine females on it looking for something extra , but that can be more than you want, and I have met a few over the years. Some have their own agenda but that`s fine. On the negative side I agree with the courting period prior to your sub running out. Also if you haven`t been on, by that I mean paid, you will get emails from women who appear to have an interest in you. They aren`t interested they are fakes because if the site was smart they`d send you mail from women in your requested age bracket and in your own country! I`m in Scotland looking for 45 plus . I`ve had 29 year old s from deepest England mailing me! As if. Get real there is no need for that nonsense. There are enough genuine people on without resorting to this.
Pros
Good site well presented
Genuine people in the main.
Easy to use site
I`ve met genuine ladies in need!
Cons
It`s got an annoying habit of trying to fish you in useing false profiles
It`s far too expensive.
If it was much better and no fakes we might pay the money.
I won`t be back on it
waste of money and full of fake women
Bet this review is followed by a good one written by illicit Encounters.
Beware and do not waste your money on this site, I believe it is full of fake profiles and worse than that, there appears to be women happy to chat with you as your membership get to the end, but then they lead you on to try to get you to sign up for another month. Save your ã149 and spend it on a real woman you meet.
Pros
none
Cons
fake profile, expensive waste of money
Isn't it strange....
Isn't it strange how as soon as anypone writes a bad (hence accurate!) review of Illicit Encounters, a good review almost instantly then appears. It is safe to assume that all of the positive reviews of this over-priced and rip off site below have been posted by the company behind Illicit Encounters. They certainly have no qualms about creating fake female profiles and messages to sucker guys into paying their exorbitant fees. Of course all activitiy from these supposedly interested 'women' evaporates as soon as you've paid up. You only start getting attention again from 'women' on the site when your subscription lapses. There surely must be a law against this fakery?
Do not join this site under any circumstances. You'd have more chance of meeting a woman by walking into a bar and burning the ÃÂã149 it costs to join!
Pros
None whatsoever
Cons
Ridiculously expensive
Faked female profiles and messages
IE having a laugh at your expense
Please don't waste your time or money on this dodgy site, they make you feel there is some interest in you and once you paid the interest like totally evaporates. They depend on fake messages written by spambots probably to keep you engaged. No doubt some people have found fun and an affair but for my money all the women are not what they say they are and by all account some of the men are badly suspect.
AVOID this costly scammy site - it's for losers (not including me obviously!)
Pros
some real people looking for 'love'
Cons
Manipulative and expensive
They are the worst people I dealt with
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Pros
There are few nice people falling in the same trap, so you may end up finding another nice person there, worth the risk? NOOOOOOOOOOO
Cons
They say they are expensive because they are genuine, RUBBISH !!
After you register for free you may get messages, which are not messages! After I asked my profile to be deleted I still emails saying people saw my profile! what!? It was deleted, but I guess they forgot and sent me fake "Messages".
I quote one of the emails Illicit Encounters sent me when I asked why I had emails that were the same + line from someone's profile: (I was told I has Messages, not VK !!! )
" To clarify, you received 4 Virtual Kisses. Virtual Kisses are not messages ... The reason these messages look the same is because they are VKs, not full messages.
Girls, be very careful
Be careful who you get mixed up with. I met a real nut case. He bombarded
me with phone calls and text messages, morning noon and night.
He even hacked into my email account and accused me of seeing other people
The fact that he was married never entered his head. He was a reformed
alcoholic, be careful, be very careful. Some men you just can't get rid of.
They want sex straight away, a cheap hotel, not even a meal.
The site is not worth the stress.
so transparent
what a load of rubbish, if women are stupid enough to end up on this site as I was you are bombarded by men demanding unreasonable behaviour for the price of a dinner and a room. the site is run to tailor the men and their money and regularly you get abused. the reviews saying its easy to get laid on this site are rubbish. there are cheats players and losers, yes it does what it says on the tin-puts you in danger. the men are abusive. trot on by ladies
Pros
none
Cons
all
Fraud
Same experience as many others, lots of contact then once I paid, very little. Date with one lady but she was nothing like her photo.
To cover my tracks I got a credit card just for illicit things, used it to pay for Illicit Encounters then it was hit for ÃÂÃÂÃÂã2K+ of fraud, it was never used for anything else.
Overall its not worth the trouble,
Pros
None really
Cons
C Card scammed from the site,
another day being abused from members of illicit encounters
another day today and another abusive man from illicit encounters. I told him I wasnt interested after he contacted me from the site and I told him it was because I had had abuse false accusations and a month of rubbish from another man. he pretended to be supportive then said texting and e mailing was not satisfying for him and got nasty when I said I didnt want to meet because I was still shell shocked from the last loony who contacted me. surprise surprise same thing, twisted my words turned everything I said around on me told me I needed professional help because I wouldnt meet him. same old same old. The men actually have a list of demands on there. she must be this, she must do that. she must, she must. They think they are buying prostitutes because they have paid the site. I would think very carefully before you try this site as a woman. there are the battle worn women on there but if you are at all normal and expect a normal person to talk to run for your life
Pros
the odd man that is decent
Cons
you leave yourself open to nasty predators who think they can talk to you like dirt because they have paid a subscription fee to do so. watch out for the false allegations when you dont want to meet loonys
illicitencounters very scary
I joined and pretty soon realised there are only really a very small amount of men. But you are as a woman open to all kinds of abuse because they are paying and they think they can treat you any way they want. I was contacted by a man who asked me out and I genuinely couldnt make it. He said we could be friends then made a date with another woman. I was supportive, the more supportive I was the nastier he got saying I pushed women away. He then accused me of stalking him after he contacted me sent me three gifts and said the site was going to contact the police. I was actually seeing a police officer I met on there so I was really scared as thought how embarrassing this may be for him. The women may not have to pay but if you are genuine you have to take an awful lot of rubbish from the men. I was crying for weeks every time this man contacted me twisted what I said or lied about me. Is it worth it. NO. The administrators should have more sense than to go along with these loonys.
Pros
some nice men who you can talk to
Cons
open to abusive men who pay so get away with it
Scam
poor management & not enough man to woman ratio
wouldn't recommend to ANYONE
Cons
Expensive!
Danger - save your money
I read reviews of the site before so I knew there were fake profiles and I had also been told that women journalists use the site, but I had been a non - gold member for while and thought I had seen some genuine women's profiles. Wrong. Once I paid all the interest (like "virtual kisses" on my profile) stopped dead. Of those I wrote to most did not even reply, one asked for money nearly straight away and one other - who I was quite keen on - eventually admitted to be in it for the flirting but did not want to meet. Then a day before my subscription was due to run out the "virtual kisses" started again. I would feel better in myself if I had given the money to charity. Complete waste of time and money. The site is a scam, as simple as that.
Pros
None
Cons
Few, if any, real women.
Of those that are "real" some are sex workers
Site might be used by journalists looking for stories. Beware!
female scammers on the site
I would urge everyone who is thinking of joining this site not to do so. Men are charged and women are not, which results in women scammers joining and they then give you a number to call that looks like a normal mobile number but gues what - its not. I complained to IE and their answer was they have fulfuilled their side of the deal so nothing they can do. They are purely interested in just getting your cash and could not care less what happens after that. What they say about numbers is not factual either - any women I have spoken to on there has said its totally disjointed. A huge number of their lady members are inactive which of course they choose not to advertise.
I URGE ALL NOT TO WASTE THEIR MONEY ON HERE.
Pros
there are none - its a rubbish site and the chat system is practically non existant
Cons
Its a total scam and the owners are not interested in correcting this.
Fake members and messages....
I've been a member of Illicit Encounters twice now. The first time, early last year, I did meet a lovely lady with whom I had a several months long affair. When this affair finished I rejoined and was disappointed to discover that IE now engage in the dodgy marketing tactics of other sites. Having previously learnt the cautious behaviour of a typical female member, it was transparently obvious when I rejoined that IE, that the company had changed tactics in an attempt to extract more cash from me. I was suddenly bombarded with messages from ladies apparently lusting after me (even though I had not posted any publicly viewable pictures). My advice to prospective cheaters is save money and go to married dating site UndercoverLovers.com, which is much cheaper and where there appear to be far more genuine ladies looking for affairs.
Pros
One of the first married dating sites
Cons
Fake members and messages
Ridiculously expensive
Very few genuine women
Waste of time and money
I think I should need my head testing for paying over 100 pounds for 1 month membership of a dating site. I had 1 month membership last year (2010) and met one nice lady - it could have gone somewhere if I had more opportunities for meeting but I think she was just a flash in the pan. But the amount of time spent writing witty messages etc and the cost don't really justify it. Nearly all the profiles are genuine I would say - the sheer ordinariness of the ladies is proof of that and most keep their picture hidden. But as it is free for ladies there are too many just doing it for a laugh and be prepared to waste a lot of precious time. I did notice one thing - while not a gold member you get a trickle of messages from different ladies - but you cannot read them without membership - then when you join and go back over the messages you find they are all one liners - like, "just got back been away a while" - and none of those who sent messages in replied to me after I joined. If you have masses of free time to invest and think 134 quid a month is good value then this might be for you. But I implore you not to give these blood suckers any of your money - like I did, fool that I am. Get out and try the odd chat up with someone you really fancy as most of the women on here are just old frumps.
Pros
- lot of genuine profiles
Cons
- too many plain janes and old frumps
- scandalously costly
- fake messages
- timewasters
Waste of time not forgeting money
Having been on and off IE for the past 18-24 months in both capacities(gold and non gold) one thing stands out and its not that the site is value for money but it appears some female members have a tendency to linger on and linger on and linger on for sometime i could easily name a few but my advice... chat up your nieghbours wife you will at least be talking to a woman and a real person!
Too many fake female profiles/escorts plying trade
It's quite re-assuring to read some of the males having a similar experience on here.
I have to say the first time I joined I did have a couple of meets and successes (in 08) but subsequently upon re-joining it seems that it's now become a commercial exercise to extract one-off member with the extortionate joining fee. I set up two very different profiles (non Gold member) and each was contacted (in the first instance) by exactly the same women, with similar generic names and very similar profile content. It seems they are just enticing you to join one off, it doesn't matter if you don't come back due to the high fee you paid.
This is a shame as there are a few genuine women on there but it does seem quite an effort to find those. Another issue is that because the females don't have to pay it seems that a few just use it an ego massaging exercise rather than seriously for who it is trying to match up (you can tell as they are still there after a few years!). So you have a huge mismatch of guys thinking they will message everything and anything just because of the outlay. In this case I think there should be a nominal fee for women to weed out time wasters ... but I guess it's all about supply and demand then? eh?!
Pros
Not a huge amount of men (probably due to price!)
Cons
Illicit Encounters using fake profiles and messaging to entice men to upgrade membership.
A fair few non-serious women using it as a validation tool (but then which dating site doesn't?!) and a number of escorts looking to hook up a guy who will spend on something like this.
Racist Website and will delete you for no apparent reason
When i first joined it was going very well, had one rude guy post me a message, of which i put in his place.
I am not sure if he complained or if it was when i was amending my profile. I got told i was not suitable for the site.
God only knows what suitable was supposed to be as i had a large response from guys in fact in my first few hours of joining i had 22 messages.
When i emailed the support email address, they did not give any reason for freezing my details, i had 16 messages i was not able to respond to.
When i asked why am i still being emailed updates from men who are interested and i am not being able to respond, still no response from the support dept.
I can clearly boil this down to racism as i am a good looking black woman who was very popular on this site.
There are hardly any black women on this site and my friend who is white persuaded me to join in the beginning. By the way she is still on the site.
I would not recommend this site as it seems if you are of colour looking for a stress free bit of fun, it does not apply to you.
Pros
Lots of guys for women
Cons
The support is crap and also if you are of colour then you clearly do not meet the criteria.
Doesn't work. Don't waste your time
Sorry, this site really does NOT work. I thought the high price would justify the quality. Having made a lot of effort to write a genuine and thoughtful profile, it's come to no avail. I never actually got a response from any of the women I liked. Occasionally I do, to say no thanks. But that's it.
Now some of these profiles are definitely fake. And there is sadly a high ratio of men, so women have the pick. Plus a lot of them want their ideal. They're way too fussy it seems. And to be honest, to big yourself up in a profile like this is not something most people can do, or would do. Even if they're extremely confident.
So, likely that they'll leave out people that they would have been very happy with
I wish it wasn't the case, but this was so very much a waste of £129.
Cons
- Too expensive
- How long do you have?!