So I joined the site a year ago, as a free member found a lot of the hip hop girls who wanted a black trophy boyfriend, and ignored them. They seemed to not read I don't want that type. Also a lot of single mothers way above the age I wanted, again, probably didn't/can't read my into that I don't want that. Met a girl with no picture, assumed she wasn't a looker, she added me to Facebook, turns out she is a model. We go on a few dates, and decided to get serious, then she admits she has a kid after I asked her 3 times, plus she is still legally married, just separated. AKA husband is just a salary bot taking care of her and her daughter. I decide to stick with it, because I fell in love with the lie, and it was hard to back out. 8 months later, I got tired of always having no time because of her work and mom hours (why I didn't want to date a single mother in the FIRST place!!!) and broke up with her 4 months ago. She still mails and calls and just won't leave me alone.
Besides this failed match, I have made a few good real friends from this site, so I can't say it is fake at all...
Pros
Real girls on the site.
Easy if you live in or near a big city. Many friends joined after they saw my "catch".
Cons
Quality of the girls. Not the site's fault, but liars shouldn't be on the internet...
If you live in smaller cities, the girls tend to want to live in Tokyo, or already live here. Not an issue for me though.
I am sure I am missing some other things, but for me, these 2 are my cons.
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