Site full of catfish, clownfish, and whales!

Site full of catfish, clownfish, and whales!

I was recommended this site by a friend. Thank God I did not spend my hard-earned cash on this site! This is the worst site on earth. The first thing that upset me was that, I am a non-Asian woman and non-Asian men are flirting with me! These men obviously have to be joking or are just dumb because I specifically stated what age range I wanted and I wanted an ASIAN MAN! I can meet white, black, and hispanic men in real life. Why are you on Japancupid if you are not interested in Japanese women!!? Stop wasting my time!

Second complaint, most of the men interested in me are super old and gross. Old enough to be my grandfather. Not all of us what a mack/big daddy or whatever that crazy crap is called. I don't have daddy issues, not desperate, or insecure. JC needs to get more strict features! Thankfully, I have met and married a Japanese man in real life. If you are not a old white man, then your chances of finding love on this site are slim. You will become highly discouraged and disgusted with your matches, in which they are NO WHERE NEAR what you want! I never wanted a 75-year-old grandpa simpson liking me! When these age group of men added me to their favorite group, I logged off for good. That was the last nail in the coffin. Waste of time and would have been a waste of money too because the men who contacted me, in which I had to pay to see their message, where obviously either fake, married, or hiding something since they lacked a picture. A lot of profiles lacked a picture, so it is a fake site! This site is a magnet for catfish, clownfish, and whales (old, gross, balding, and over-weight white dirty men). What a jooookkkke!!!

Pros
None

Cons
-The whole site in general. Save up to go to Japan!
-It's very suspicious if you have to pay to see messages. It's a cry for desperation and getting ripped off. Don't pay for this site when you can get a Japanese date for free!

Hi Amber,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you are disappointed with our services. In response to your review, I would like to clarify two points for you:

One, JapanCupid is a leading international Japanesse dating site which means that the site is not only limited to Japanese singles but is open to any singles looking both Japanesse and non Japanese living in, and outside of Japan. For example, you will find caucasian or hispanic singles living in Japan who are also looking for fellow non Japanese singles living in Japan.

Two, to help you find your perfect match, we recommend that you complete the match criteria form on the site. This allows you to set the criteria and specify exactly what kind of match you are looking for. Setting a match criteria also has an extra advantage as it allows you to receive alerts when members who fit your criteria join the site. You can easily do this by clicking ‘Edit My Matches’ under the ‘My Profile’ tab on your homepage.

Please be advised that our system works in a way that any member can show Interest to another member regardless of their match preferences. That means that those members who have shown you their Interest have initially used our search option, selecting as their perfect partner someone matching your personal characteristics. This is the same way you show Interest to members matching your personal preferences. The match preference option is a separate feature that allows you to choose members that you would like us to contact you about.

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Japan Cupid is unquestionably a legit site. Additionally, they are very quick to deal with any seemingly fake user.

It is not suspicious to have to pay for something (anything).

Online dating can be frustrating, Japan Cupid is no exception, but like so many of the reviewers on here you don't seem to know the difference between something being a scam and something not living up to your expectations.

Females users of dating sites inevitably have to wade through a lot of messages from men who chose to ignore the preferences expressed on the profile. Use the search and attempt to contact the kind of men you actually want to meet, "suffer" through the mails you don't want to get to the ones you do.

Male users of dating sites inevitably have to have most of their messages go ignored. Be realistic and don't take it personally.

Good luck, unless you suck ^o^