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This website is no different than all kind of scam on the net. A true manipulation of members and their information. I've been a gold member on this site for 6 months maybe, they got a bit of my money that's true, but I feel I should warn people who think a website like that can be anyhow helpful. Almost all the other members I could manage to meet were a scam, soon I was asked for money for some emergency, it sounded as if it all goes with a pattern. I remember reporting one of those scam incidents to the Muslima.com management, I found another annonymous member calling me names, I thought what if he was running the show? :)
Another incidenct where i used to notice a duplication of profiles, phony pictures.

I hope someone out there listens.
thanks.
Ahmed.

Muslima website is a brothel
there are a few good people there
i think some of the muslima managament are in on the scams themselves - they should have a more stringent process of analysing who they allow in. only the muslima people would know my primary email and i received odd mails from people soliciting money or asking for money. i need the site should ask for passport details. otherwise it will remain a brothel for men and women to jerk off - let me assure you not all people are scams but 80 percent are - and then it parades as a "muslim" site - the drinking louts and sexual perverts is shocking

Salam,
I am currently a member of this site and yesterday I notice that one woman's profile suddenly got to the most popular on that day! I suspected into the thing, at first she was a standard member and now she is a permium member. I sent my suspecion to the management, no answer yet. Today I decided to dig about her and few keyword searches of her profile words I found some Russian girls on very suspecious sites using the same words. Now I wrote to the management again, and if I don't get a proper answer, and I really don't expect to get one, I will delete my profile. Luckily I'm still a standard user and was thinking to upgrade to gold membership. And BTW, that woman has the following info:
cat, Age: 31, Lives: Pays de la Loire, France. Maybe someone find this information useful or can confirm my suspecions.
I feel worried and sad if someone has been or will be a victim of fraud.
I agree with you Laila, it is so crazy that somone woman who claims to be a muslim states in her profile that she drinks and/or have improper clothes on.

the site has lotta fake profiles & im sure the muslima.com management encourage that, hence they get lots of new member'$$$$ interested in the fake beautiful girls/boys. This site should be reported to OFTEL or watchdog or fraudsquad! im disgusted by this!

the site has lotta fake profiles & im sure the muslima.com management encourage that, hence they get lots of new member'$$$$ interested in the fake beautiful girls/boys. This site should be reported to OFTEL or watchdog or fraudsquad! im disgusted by this!

the site has lotta fake profiles & im sure the muslima.com management encourage that, hence they get lots of new member'$$$$ interested in the fake beautiful girls/boys. This site should be reported to OFTEL or watchdog or fraudsquad! im disgusted by this!

I believe muslima is a 100%scam run by professional criminals,pimps to rip of honest people who realy looking for a wife,i am a gold member but sofar i only got crap girls who's not even a girl only man behind girls profile.i have reported many incidents but no answer from muslima.I want to warn all my muslim brothers and sisters stay away from muslima.com,they should jailed as criminals

I met a girl from singapore and have met all her family and relatives,still I have found out she was lesbien and part of the Asian underworld criminal organisation and related to the Australian biki-gang underworld.Not all muslims are muslims who pause to be muslim,shame on this sister she is a waste of human kind,stay away from muslima at all cost,they all just a rip of nothing else not even 1% is real.

I believe this muslima.com run by a international criminal. First free to join, then they ask you to upgrade the membership in order to meet the person you are interested, then all the scammers are starting to contact you. We all should report this to FBI and around the world about this website because they took our money and used innocent people photos and their family.

Im a female members here since 2004 & until today I never meet any REAL person. Not only at muslima.com have fake ID but goes the same to paid or non paid website. Overall are the same. The website cant help much to tell us if the profile is fake or not. Is up to us to be carefull and smart to find out if the profile or person behind the picture is real or not. Good things never come easy and read between the lines. For sure there are true peope,sincere and honest person only that the numbers of fake and criminal are bigger and more, so just be extra careful and smart in handling friendship via the net. We cant blame the website 100 %. We can use many ways to find out the person is real or not. For a start e.g. read the IP location, voice mail, cam (cam could be fake too). and time will tell, so be patient. May Allah guide us and show us to the right path, amen.

i met a girl from brazil and she said she was going to benin west africa to meet her mother. We have been chatting for months now. She isasking me to send her moneyso she can come here to meet me...i am suspicious as her spelling is off point. She looks very beautiful and sent me pics of her. I am confused and need help . Please can somebody help? assalam alaykum

I'm glad I'm not the only one who notice the scam profiles on the site. I've been on/off the site for about 2 years. First off there are some 'real' people on the site.

So this isn't for the 'real' people on there but there are a number of fraud and fake profiles it's unbelievable. Most of them are prob from Nigeria mostly. They make a profile nice picture and say they reside in XYZ, USA. Then come to find out after a email or chat they are from Nigeria etc.

And yes, the dangerous ones can be the ones that will lead you on to some 'emergency' that leads you to lending them money. It's sad who really knows who's really behind all of this. When I notice a fake profile I try to report it. I just think of that potential victim man/female I don't want anyone to be duped.

I guess it just takes some experience looking for key words, or simply read their profile. You can get a sense of a real profile by just writing a complete profile.

What I learn on there if it's too good to be true it's probably not.

I met a guy online from Louisiana and he is from Syria and he promised marriage and to get my wedding gold from Syria and he was rebuilding a Katrina flood house and building a greek restaurant. I loaned him $33,000 and he conned me. I found a girl's fingernail on bathroom floor and started looking around and I found he had his girlfriend from American Muslim. Then years later I met a man on Muslima this past January who tried to get me to be his 5th wife. He said he was divorced on Muslima and it turns out he has 3 wives here and a wife in Jordan and 12 children. He said it was between me and a doctor from Missouri and she was willing to pay him $10000 a month to take care of his kids. He is a muslim from Houston and orginally from Irbid, Jordan. He is in Jordan right now with his 17 yo wife. I just closed my account and cut my hair and wanted to go back to being a christian due to the men I have met on this site.

I joined many Muslim marriage sites during the past 2 years ..maybe more than 8 sites !!! there are too many bad ppl and scammers but only few good and decent men there ..In fact , I have met good men who sent money for girls cause they needed it badly ..then those girls disappeared !! I have always been very careful .Never Never trust anyone fully before meeting him in person and asking about him in his city , at his work , his friends neighbors etc. And NEVER send anyone money .A decent person wont ask a stranger for money !!
I met many men with emotional problems ( most of them are like that sadly ! )
Regarding muslima.com , I tried to join the site many times but they kept on terminating my profile !!! After many trials,I could have a profile there . Then after few weeks they terminated it without sending any note to me ..I wrote to them many times but I got no answer !! Then my friend from the USA created a new one for me , but once I signed in it was terminated again !!! Crazy website !!! I got really upset cause of their ways . And yes there are many fake profiles there ..Be careful !

Aoa Sawud,
This girl in brazil is 99.99% scammer. Never ever send money. There are many nice people out there but almost same amount of people are bad and fraud. I been through many times and have lost thousands of dollars because I been too soft hearten person.

Be honest, Its difficult to find ppl with true profile. Mostly I found they have fake profile. Every I met someone from this site, I check always his ip address, his pics (real or with modification) and everything. They all have fake profile. Even I found also same pictures with different names. Some of them also like to use +447 and this number not from UK even starting with +44. I really hopeless with this website. I think they should try their best to check every picture submitted. Because I check always the pics of ppl who contact me... And I found same pics with different name. So...if I can, of course muslima.com can do that also... That's not difficult.

HI THIS MAN CLAIM HE IS [email protected] A WIDOWER AND HAS 2 KIDS, FROM UK MANCHASTER. HE PROMISE WILL MARRIED ME ON THIS 15 SEPT 2011, HIS TECTIC WAS BUYING ME A WEDDING GIVE A HOUSE AND HE ASK ME TO GO AND VIEW FEW HOUSES AND SEND HIM PICTURES. WHEN I SAID ITS EXPENSIVE HE CLAIM THAT HE IS THE PAY MASTER. MANY TIMES I REFUSE HE EVEN SAID THAT I KNOW ABOUT MY POCKET. THE BEST PART HE ACT MUSLIMS AND MAKE HIS MOTHER TO CALL ME AND ALSO SPEAK TO MY MOTHER. SO AFTER WE SETTLE WHICH HOUSE TO BUY HE PROMISE WILL BANK IN THE MONEY TO MY ACCOUNT SO I GIVE HIM MY PERSONAL DETAILS AND PASPORT DETAIL, THANK GOD I DID NOT GIVE HIM MY IDENTITY CARD. THE NEXT DAY HE CALLED ME AND SAID THAT THE CHARGES ARE VERY HIGH AND THE BANK MANAGER GIVE HIM IDEA TO SEND THE MONEY THROU COURIER SERVICE "UNITED NATION COMPANY" HAHA I JUST WONDER AND DID TOLD HIM IF ANYTHING LIKE I NEED TO PAY IN MALAYSIA I AM NOT INVOLVED, BUT YET AFTER TWO DAYS LATER A GIRL FROM MALAYSIA CALL ME AN SAID THAT SHE IS AGENT OF UN FROM MALAYSIA, THERE IS A PARCEL FOR ME TO BE COLLECTED FROM JAMAL MUSTAFAR FORGOT TO PAID LOCAL CHARGES SO I NEED TO PAY FOR RECEIVED THE PARCELL. HI GUYS DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH MONEY IN THE PARCELL THAT JAMAL TOLD ME HEMMM 3.5 MILLION. HE TOUGHT THAT I AM A MONEY CRAZY PERSON, ITS NOT TEMPTING FOR ME ANYWAY ALHAMDULLILAH I DID NOT PAID THEM BUT HE CALL AND FORCED ME AND HE SAID THAT I HAVE TO BANK IN TO THE GIRL ACC I SAID IT S PERSONAL NOT A COMPANY SO I DONT BELEIVE , THIS GIRL NAME IS AZLINDA HUSSAIN AND CIMB BANK ACC NO 12150007537205... I THINK THIS IS NIGERIA PEOPLE AND MALAYSIANS ALSO INVOLVED SO BE ALERT ANYTHING SOUND TO BE BANK IN TO ACC PLEASE MALAYSIAN WOMEN OR INNOSENCE MAN PLEASE AVOID THIS KIND OF SCAM AND DO NOT ENCOURAGE THEM...

i've been in this site since jan 2011,within that time i received lots of messages frm men trying to be friends.at 1st everything was ok but after few months they started to ask money frm me. One case claimed to be UK citizens,using name of Ibrahim Madoff,age 36,nvr married,father died few yrs ago n mother originally frm france.said he was in a real estate business,then one day said he's coming to malaysia(my country) to visit me+business trip according to his late father business company,even give me the copy of his flight ticket,but when he arrived in klia he said he need to fly directly to sarawak(another state in malaysia) for his business trip without seeing me 1st.after that here come all the troubles,said the business deal required a lot of money,and his bank frm uk can only wired up to $50,000.need another $10,000 US Dollar to close the deal.ask me to lend him the money,when i told him to ask frm his business partner said no one knew about his trip to malaysia,so he cant ask them to lend their money.felt suspicious,he did mention he stayed at one of famous hotel in sarawak,so i did call the hotel to check on him,but obviously no one name Ibrahim Madoff ever checked in. when i asked about this he refuse to answer,n to prove his innocent he even bought a malaysia prepaid mobile number so that i'll believe that he was already in malaysia,but i knew u can easily buy malaysia prepaid mobile number in ebay or other online website with a cheaper price.using love as a weapon to lure somebody money,i told him to feel ashamed for asking money frm a woman bcoz decent man wont ask money frm a woman.ignored all of his call n msg,so he disappeared.few weeks later,i received msg frm other guys using same story in emails,just different name about the same age (rashid ibrahim,hasan mustaffa,kamal mohamad etc) i can even memorize all the story lines,so for women out there,just be careful.n of course i cant report their profile bcoz few weeks bfore,they will offering to delete their profile in muslima bcoz they had found their soulmate,in fact they r trying to cover their tracks.n pls do check their IP(lots of free software available in internet,just enter their emails),u can find their location r not the same as they said where they r reside.ask about their city,then cant even name the famous place in their hometown,n when u ask/argue about that,they wont answer,just give another excuse to make u believe their point.n what a shame,pretending to be a muslim.another one,claimed to be a master degree holder,but u will notice in chat/emails they made lots of wrong spelling.how come a master degree holder cant use their english correctly?even 2ndary school students r better =)

Hello everyone;
thought this site, I met this lady who recently converted to Islam, I was really happy about the fact that she became muslim.
we met and first meeting went okay, later we started seeing each other every other day, I took her to the best restaurants in town, I drove her around the city and everything ..
few weeks later, my brother told me that he saw that she has updated her profile on muslima! I was honestly shocked! because I thought everything was working out! as we met dozen times already.
When I confronted her about it, she didn't say anything but "I want to explore other options"!
I don't know, I felt it was like a stab in the back! if she wasn't happy about something should should have been told me about it in person and end it, I'm just not happy about the fact that she was seeking to meet other people while we are seeing each other!
that is actually scary! and it sucks!
it gave me the impression that most of the people who converts to Islam suffer from ideological and psychological issues, most of which gets reflected on their self-esteem and you usually find them unsuccessful in their professional life.

Oh my goodness. I thought it was just ME. I am Muslima, and I am trying earnestly to find a husband. Not a boyfriend, not a sponsor, not a date! I met men who reported to be Muslim and when they suggested we "talk" about things any Muslim man with half a brain and even half a Quran, that are absolutely haram, well, I was too through. I joined the site in 2007, I met a man located in my city. We chatted via the internet for weeks, (nearly 2 months), then we continued to converse via the telephone (another couple of months) and finally, we met in a heavily populated, public place. It wasn't long before I learned he had only been out of prison for 18 months after being IN prison for 10 years. I didn't hold that against him, he seemed to be solid in his Deen's practice, that is until I asked him if he planned for a mahr, he told me he "was NOT going to provide a mahr (dowery). Wow! is what I said. Then he asked me to meet this sister, and I did, she was nice, and the minute she was out of the room he wanted to kiss me. What? I excused myself, declined the dinner invitation, and left. He called me and apologized and I thought perhaps he was truly sincere. He told me he wanted to marry me, but first, he reported, "I will not marry a woman if I don't have sex with her before we marry, you know just to see if we are compatible." Well, I drove my own car to the meeting, and my own car home, even before the entree arrived. In 2008, I met another man from that site, he appeared to be solid in his Deen's practice, well, chatted, he proposed, I accepted, I moved 2,084 miles to be his bride/wife and 3 weeks after the Nikkah and Walima, he asked me to leave, ugh! Said he didn't love me anymore. I HAD DONE NOTHING TO OFFEND HIM and I asked over and over again if I had. He said, "no, I made a mistake - I want you out!"

Then, I met 2 men on the site, both claiming Islam is their way of life. One brother was using antipsychotic medication, I discovered this when he told me he was at the doc's officer earlier that day and he was prescribed a new medication, but he was having a difficult time reading the name of the drug. I asked him to spell it and perhaps I help him out. He did, it was an antipsychotic medication, but I was calm, I didn't freak out. That is untill the next day, he cussed me out like I was some street walker and he was a drunken sailor. When I asked why was he talking to me in this manner, he reported, "I just wanted to see your reaction, see, I go off like that often, and I wanted to know if you could take it." I blocked his profile and him phone number.

Finally, I began conversing with a man from this site who reported to be near by, but soon, I learned he was in Khartoum, Sudan. We conversed easily, about Islam, and our families and what what we wanted in a potential spouse. Then, suddenly in the same conversation, he started telling me about this genitalia. I was SHOCKED! And ever e-mail, text message, or any kind of contact was haram in the worse what. When I inquired if he used that filthy mouth to pray with and/or kiss his mother, HE was offended, ugh! Then I learned he was in Sudan, and he wanted me to help him come to the states, and he asked me to apply for this and that kind of visa for him, etc.... Finally, I told him to leave me alone and I blocked him too.

I have met some interesting and very nice men, but no one that I would marry because either they are just too far away, unemployed, poor Islamic character and/or adab or much too young, 18 - 30 years old.

Oh, yeah, just recently a man I told I was not interested in marriage with insisted we continue to converse eventhough I told him long distance romance holds no interest of mine. He insisted we simply continue to keep in touch and talk. He learned some things about me, nothing I'm ashamed of (I am unemployed, and I need a car), then he took upon himself to "help me out" his terms, with no intention of buying my affections, again his terms. I refused and told him I so much appreciate it, but Allah (SWT) will provide. Again, he insisted, and send met $400 for a computer (I was sharing one with my daughter or going to the library); then $1,800 for a new but used car to get a job and drive to Maryland (12hours away) to visit/marry him. I used a portion of the monies for groceries and bills, then he sent me another $500 and insisted on sending me yet another $200. While fasting, he called everyday, and I too tried to call him to say, "hello, what's up?" But I am looking for work, caring for my grandchildren and it was during a heat wave here in Chicago, I was feeling very overwhelmed by this "courtship" his term, not mine. Finally, I just said, brother, I don't wanna move to your city (that is the real reason he bought me the car); and I have never met you and marriage via telephone sounds absolutely crazy to me, yet he tried to convince me it was perfectly legal in Islam. One thing led to another and he discovered I was not interested in marriage with him (or anyone else outside of my city), and he became so angry and now he threatens to sue me for the monies he gave me as gifts. I never asked him for a dime, and he told it was not in lieu of marriage all was given to "help me out." I have told him repeatedly thank you - thank you - thank you. But he is too angry to hear that, again, UGH!

It is a shameful thing that large percentage of people on this site are there just to scam the other person. Wish the site is capable to check the authenticity of the identity of memembwrs joining the site. Serious and honest members would not mind pay higher fees to have trust and confidence in using this Muslim sit for marriage.. All the stories mentioned here sound so familier to me.. I have lot more interesting stories and exposures to all kinds of scam and bunch of liars, fake identity regarding thier age , income. Occupation, location and marital status.. You almost have to be an investigator because we become so suspicious of everyone you contact and/ or if you get approached by anyone .. Something needs to be done by the people incharge of approving memebers. THE BOTTOM LINE IS ... WE DON'T TRUST THIS SITE ANY MORE...

I've just been done in today. Been talking to this guy from Ghanna for a few weeks and wanted to come to U.k. to marry. Today he's asking me for 80 pounds for his trip. I've just been waiting for this as I suspected after seein lots of inconsistantcies in his mails and refusing to send me a photo and much more. Those sisters who want to know who this guy is email me and I'll tell you incase you encounter the same person

I've just been done in today. Been talking to this guy from Ghanna for a few weeks and wanted to come to U.k. to marry. Today he's asking me for 80 pounds for his trip. I've just been waiting for this as I suspected after seein lots of inconsistantcies in his mails and refusing to send me a photo and much more. Those sisters who want to know who this guy is email me and I'll tell you incase you encounter the same person

It appears that the majority of Muslim brothers on this site are just looking and looking. Thier goal is to find the best catch to trick. They start with sweet talks and try to get your heart quickly, then we find real surprises or hear strange stories about thier real background and other details.. When we think we found the honest and honorable person and you expect it is time to move on they indicate that we don't know each other well enough, I agree.. But we can still communicate and get to know lot more about each person's real intentions. Then they either state that they do not want to get married and they want only date or suggest to live together first, that is shocking to hear that from Muslim brothers who are registered on the site for the purpose of marriage . Is very discouraging to start looking on this kind of sites because you always find surprises . We honest people on this site get victimized by lies, tricks, false stories and scammed by brothers who claim to be religious then they trick you to get money out of you.. "BATE & SWITCH"
Reading all the scam stories here makes me feel really sick a feel we are wasting our money for being a member. The site is sucking our money and not doing anything about how to improve and have better screening of memberes. I have a very good suggestion . Why don't we have a special Muslim site for every state .. This way providing a a driver license will verify the real location of each members. In addition it will minimize and keep the circle of search small and effective . It is the member choice to go out of his state to reach someone out side the state he is residing . That also eliminate deceptive people/ scammers living out of USA to play their ugly games and unable them to invade the honest people site.
I am a well educated professional lady above 50 yrs of age, seeking marriage from a respectable, honest and compatible man. I share the same concern with people here reporting thier disappointing stories, men or women. Please feel free to contact me via email provided to this site.. Like to hear from you confidentially.. May be we can come up with suggestions and recommendations to clean up the mess on this kind of a site.. Trust me the same is happening on other sites. Qiran. Arab Lounge. Single Muslim.com. I have friends who are on those sites and suffering the same. Good luck. be careful my dear friends with honest heart. Best regards.

On behalf of Muslima.com, we would like to apologise to all of you whose interaction on our site has not met your expectations. Our dedicated fraud prevention team is always doing its best to get hold of any dubious individuals using the site, however being an online forum getting rid of all them is sometimes extremely hard.

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i like to comment on muslima i am existing customer and i value my faith above all due to my personnel circumstances i was encouraged to apply.I find it depressing their are not one person i found sincerer and they are all after money in my case i reside in UK visa it is so depressing now i feel embarrassed visiting the site i can not wait for my membership to expire.one example i can give you i spoke to someone in S.Africa her age was only 24 and i am 42 i repeatedly told her that you and i are not comparable however she kept informing me that she did not have a problem.and i kept insisting this is not ideal situation but she persists and within two days i had an email demanding £2000.00 to include visa costs ticket and all.
i am surprised that this site claims to be muslima in truth it no diffident to any other and the lies deceit and lack of sincerity is evident it comes through via its members.
Second point i like to make is the level of educated individuals on site is case in point.