An SD-SB arrangement is very risky for the Sugar Daddy.

An SD-SB arrangement is very risky for the Sugar Daddy.

I was involved with two arrangements through this site. In both arrangements the monthly allowance was $2000 per month. In both arrangements the women became unavailable immediately after being paid allowances. In one case immediately after receiving the first month's allowance and in the other case immediately after receiving the second month's allowance (which I paid two weeks in advance to help her rent a new apartment - she claimed she was to be evicted from her present apartment).

I don't think I am going to try a third time. To those contemplating being a Sugar Daddy, and are not very wealthy, these arrangements are very risky. After attempting this twice I now feel that pursuing a SD-SB arrangement is not worth any more of my effort and I have wasted my wealth and my time. It is too easy to be scammed.

Looking back on my errors I can note three characteristics that may be a clue that a Sugar Baby is a scammer who has no intention of meeting the terms of the arrangement:

1. Each sugar baby scammer contacted me first. )They could be trolling for potential victims.)

2. Each sugar baby scammer lived in an area different than mine. Nonetheless, their residential area was easy to reach, either a $70 air ticket or a one hour drive, but the distance may have given them comfort, that after the scam, there would not be an embarrassing encounter.

3. Each sugar baby scammer told me that she had a prior arrangement which was "a year long" and just ended. (I suspect this is a partial admission of a prior scam but with, possibly, the lie that it lasted a year)

I suggest for any man contemplating a SD-SB arrangement that he pay allowances twice a month or in the rears. Furthermore, until there are a few months of trust-building, there not be any accelerated pre-payments. If the sugar baby claims there is an emergency in her life and she needs accelerated payments shortly after the beginning of the arrangement -- this is a strong clue she is a scammer.

Pros
The website itself seems honest unlike most other adult dating sites. There are no fake profiles and there is no recurrent charges on your credit card. It is a pity that many of its members are scam artists.

Cons
Many women say they are looking to enter an arrangement but they are actually trying just to make a fast buck then run.

i just read this and it made me very sad. sorry you had to go through this! i am just reading reviews because i was thinking about joining. thank you for the advice!

Hi, this is the original poster of this review. I actually started a 3rd arrangement through seekingarrangement, and this one is working quite well for me. My experiences show me that this website can be valuable but may require significant emotional and financial resources to get to "where you want to be" - unless you are lucky. People may find that they are compatible or not, but a sugar daddy must realize it will take effort, time, and $$$ to find a compatible sugar baby. Of course, this should be expected given the differences in the human race. Nonetheless, after my success I am glad I found and used Seekingarrangement.com.

As I mentioned in my original write-up, seekingarrangement is a honest website: there are no fake profiles and contact between members is between real people who signed-up because they have some interest in SD/SB arrangements. That interest may be an honest interest or it may be a nefarious interest.

Was going through looking at reviews before I joined & wasn't going to because theres not that many good reviews on here but after seeing yours I think I might give it go. I just hope I can find a real serious SD on here like u. But thanks for the insight .