Not worth the trouble

Not worth the trouble

I been on this site for less than a few months and I can already say, this isn't for me.
Ran into a few men on the site. As everyone can already tell its a good amount of real decent men and ALOT of cheap scumbags.
I been on a few dates but didn't really have a connection with them and if I did, they were looking for something else such as a quickie in a car or hotel room sessions. But I can honestly say one of the worst experiences I had was with a guy I met who lived in the DC area. Who seemed legit and nice at first so we exchanged a few emails and talked on the phone. Long story short after talking for a month or so we decided to finally meet up and he wanted me to stay at his place for one weekend. After I do he takes me out shows me a good time and later that night we sleep together. On the last day of me staying at his place he wanted to fool around. Me always being safe I asked did he have protection. Later to find out he doesn't. I tell him since I barely know him we can't go unprotected. With me saying that he seemed to be in a bad mood and started moping around the house. Before he was going to take me home he was going to take me shopping like he promised (I never asked him for this he insisted) but because he was in a bad mood he said he wanted to take me home. I felt a certain way but respected his wishes. He later went to the bank to give me the money that we agreed on and took me home. Later that week I get a text from him BEGGING me can we not use protection. Now even with people my own age or someone I'm being serious with I'm ALWAYS safe. No excuses. (And quick side note the money that he gave me once I counted it was short of what we agreed upon) so I mentioned to him, " listen if we don't use protection we have to get std test and such to both be safe" before I could finish he was VERY ecstatic and excited to seeing me even so far as to picking me up after work and getting birth control. I mention to him before he got to carried away that I wanted the amount that we both promised and upfront. With that...a whole different person emerged. He was claiming I was being greedy and selfish and that we shouldn't have to take a std test. Along with saying that he doesn't want to pay me that amount anymore. I respectfully say "ok" and that if this is so we "need to wear protection still until we get more comfortable with each other"........lets just say this. Once I mentioned the condom again...he didn't like it. He later went on to say he wasn't desperate and that I'm selfish and greedy and that he's not interested anymore. All I could do was sit in shock....did I say something wrong?? (I'm being sarcastic -__-) so because I wanted to be safe and this would only be our second time sleeping together, I'm selfish?. I responded with a "dont have time for this and goodbye"It was very backwards to me and I never texted him again.

I apologize for the long review but I just wanted to tell my story. Not all men are as rude like this but there are a good handful. I've finally decided this site isn't for me and that I'd rather work long hours than constantly dealing with bullshit. Not trying to down the site or people but again...isn't for everyone.
Best advice I can give: stand your ground and know your worth. A lot of these men will only treat you a certain way only if you LET them.

Pros
Few good guys hard to come by though

Cons
Con artist
Fakes