Frustrating, is "Big Brother" watching?

Frustrating, is "Big Brother" watching?

Speed date, like the majority of dating websites these days( in my opinion) will do almost anything to get the "dollar". Probably my imagination, but recent experiences lead me to strongly suspect conversations on this site are closely monitored. My advice, based on what I have experienced, is to be VERY careful. My own decision is that this site is too risky for me. Best wishes in what you seek, but be forewarned.

Pros
Supposedly is free?

Cons
I suspect, not really free and that what one says is closely monitored until payment is received, if then?