I'll be brief. Stella Singles isn't a "dating" website. It's a "community" website, that happens to be focused around the topic of dating, relationships, and love. What I personally love about the site so much is that it ISN'T all about dating and trying to find your "one true love." That is all well and good, and very important I should say, but there is soooo much more that you can get from Stella Singles. Seriously, I love that site. I highly recommend that you check it out today. Even if you're in a strong relationship right now, the site is still for you. You can provide your expertise to others - that's where the "community" concept comes into play. People helping people. It is really a great site.
Pros
Multi-dimensional, insightful, creative, funny - at times, great community feel.
Cons
They can never churn out articles fast enough :). I'm always interested to see what they'll write on next.