This site is what you make of it. Have met great guys, had a lot of fun. Filtering and making smart choices is part of the process...be patient, scan photos through Google images to make sure you're chatting w/a real person, and you're good to go.
Pros
Endless selection
Cons
really dreadful texting system, could use an upgrade. Switching to email/phone as quickly as possible takes some of the frustration out of the situation
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