hold on a minute..

hold on a minute..

Ok so I am a guy on one of the sugar daddy websites.. I have a good job, drive a good car, motorcycle and rent my own apt.. I am not a millionaire but make enough to treat a girl out for dinners, movies, bars etc.. What I want in exchange? - that she hangs out with me and we have some good time together! A serious relationship, sex or anything else would not cross my mind the very first time I meet her! .. I am 25 .. tall and good looking .. However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen ... some "millionaires" could afford to do that but it's unlikely that you find a REAL millionaire on these sites coz i guess they have their own network to get real girls to hang out with them.. I agree that if men are just using women for a one night stand in exchange of dinner, that's not right but the girl has to be smart enough to figure whose right and whose wrong ... the main reason I am on the SD website is coz my work place does not have too many women and since I am a professional working in a male dominant industry, it's hard for me to get access to nice girls ... Guys like me really look forward to meeting genuine girls but also girls who're nice and not just gold diggers!

Perhaps you have the wrong context of what an arrangement is about. Money, Monsieur, is the reason a woman subscribes to an arrangement website. The woman is looking for a man to support her with something. She makes it clear what she wants. You, the man , make it clear what you want and can provide. If both of you accept what each other wants, then you have a written or a verbal understanding of what your new relationship is about.
Basically, what you are explaining to me is that you are looking for a girl to hang out. Sure you have money, a great job, but you're not fulfilling the purpose of the site. You're misleading these women. Reevaluate your intention because you sure will get a lot of women upset.
Good luck.

Maybe you should consider Match.com

"However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen "

Lol then you're not a Sugar Daddy . The very thing you said you don't want to pay for is the only real reason the girls are there. You really need to go to Plenty of fish or match but not a sugar daddy site. You don't have the financial means to take care of someone else which is what the women on this site want.

LOL....you are not a sugar daddy. You're just a guy that dates. You don't have the finances for a Sugar Baby.