Seeking Arrangement

seeking arrangements sucks

was on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.

Pros
lots of beautiful people

Cons
99.9% are fake scammers

Not best reviews yet..

I've been on the website for a about 2 weeks now and have received quite a few a messages but they are definate issues I'm having. First, the majority of the guys pay for a premium membership so their messages won't be screened but don't get paid to get verified. Maybe one out of 10 guys will even have a picture and some aren't willing to even send you one because "the internet is forever and they need to be discreet". Obviously I'm not going to go meet with a stranger that I don't even know what he looks like.
Others are very arrogant and basically just want you to come sleep with them on the 1st date and if you say your not a prostitute and not willing to come have sex right away they want to get an attitude.
Some are just into some weird 50 shades of grey stuff and worse and I wont even get into that.
The benefits of the site may be that everyone can be upfront about what they want, but personally I am not a prostitute, I am just looking for a non-commited relationship where theres benefits. But I cant agree to these guys that have no respect and have an expectation for me to come sleep with them at their houses when i don't know them, we've messaged only a few times, or in some cases, they wont even show you a pic, bcuz besides of moral issues, most of them think they're 30x sexier than what they are just because they have money and girls tell them what they want. So, I am yet to find someone that has tried to get to know me or doesn't just want to say what they want from sex...

Pros
Openness about what each other expects.
Not totally commited relationships.

Cons
Creepy old arrogent men.
Shady men.
Mostly married men.

@Flakey Girls Reviewer, SA Burn Ou

What do you expect from 18 and 20 somethings, maturity??? LOLOLOL. Try dating someone around your own age or a little older. You get seduced by younger women's looks, you get burned. Pretty simple, isn't it??? Grow up already.

Pros
I don't know

Cons
I really don't know

Unsure

I've only been seeking an arrangement for a week now, and I am just as new to the site itself.

I am a male sugar baby seeking a Sugar Momma; so far on the site I don't see a great deal of women who don't seem to qualify as such (Sorry if you're broke, you're just a cougar, not a Sugar Momma... Second, I'm being contacted by lot of extremely attractive women, but they are "Female Sugar Babies" not Sugar Momma's... are they thinking I indicated "Sugar Baby seeking Sugar Momma" on accident?

Anyways, I guess I'm really hesitant to purchase the upgrade for enhanced communications as I'm not sure that there are legitimate Sugar Mommas on the site.

Pros
Cleanest Site, Friendliest User Interface, Overall Most professional/secure feeling site.

Site assists in making it very clear what both parties are expecting.

Cons
Seems to be a few attractive/legitimate Sugar Mommas, but then too, it seems it's literally always the same 2 or 3 that have logged in on the site in the last several days.

average and below average women

ive been using this site for about 2 weeks but i think i just give up. met 3 women from the site and had video chat with a few but seriously they dont worth the money. totally average, nothing special, would maybe date with a few

probably it would work way better if you would shell out 10k $+ a month but for that money you can have perfect body hookers whenever you want them.

better girls are in the US so if you are there, maybe worths a try. or in london.

Creepers

Eager to obtain fast cash, I signed up and met up with a sugar daddy. We met up in a little coffee shop and talked about our interests, occupations, etc. Long story short, he invited me back to his house where he almost immediately began touching me and attempting to kiss me. I don't know about you but I certainly don't want to engage in activities like that on my first encounter with someone (sugar daddy or not.) He asked me flash him, and I did. He tried to go further but I'm pretty sure my discomfort was apparent, and he backed off. Since I didn't completely 'deliver' I asked for half of what I would normally get. Walked out of the man's house with $100. Is it worth it? Maybe. Certainly choose someone who has a lot more money than mine did. Also, choose someone who isn't a sex-crazed psycho.

Pros
-Financial benefits
-NSA relations

Cons
-Creepy..and I mean really creepy men
-Guys looking for cheap sex

Be realistic with what you expect

A lot of average looking or cute younger girls on the site who ask for playboy/magazine model allowances. If you are willing to pay a higher monthly allowance and want the very attractive women then there are better options than the SA site. A lot of fake profile/scam SB's on the site (which is to be expected), but they are not hard to weed out. You will have to be cold hearted in dealing with a SB when you meet and she is not as advertised if you want to avoid getting scammed.

A lot of SB's on the site will try to draw out the amount of time before meeting, or take very long periods of time between sending emails. This leads me to suspect that they are working for the SA site to keep you hooked so you renew your membership every month.

I did find one very attractive woman who is actually worth the allowance appearance wise and who has many common professional/personal interests with me. There is a chance to go forward with an arrangement.

One women found for one month of effort. If this is good for you then give the site a try. Of course others may have better results.

Pros
Much better than a dating site in terms of responses.

Both sides can be upfront about what they want.

Cons
Unrealistic expectations from many SB's considering their looks/talent/background.

Better options if you have the ability to give the higher allowances.

broke ass old men

this site is a total waste of human time, the broke old men that think that they are gonna have sex for free actually discuss me and turn me off to an arrangement that could be made ever.

Pros
disappointed

Cons
nothing positive still disappointed

Any REAL SD's

Can't seem to find a gentleman let alone Sugardaddy, I get 'free meals' on dates I am seeking more, more than I can give myself, I like to take care of my man so one off deals are a no no. There needs to be some NEW men on this site, not stingy perves looking for free pussy.rnrnReal sugardaddies can email victoriasecret257 at gmail.comrnrnLondon UK x

Pros
Free for women

Cons
Same men

my experience

so like OMG!!! this guy said he would only fuck me for like $2,000! PA-LEASE cheap ass! this golden ticket is one of a kind! I dont douche and bleach my asshole for nothing less than $10,000!

Pros
money :)

Cons
Cheap asses with CHODES!

I have no idea whats a title lol.

Ok, Im a gay male I lived in not the best neighborhood in the bx. I joined seekingarrangements about a month ago. I recieved a wink from a guy. At first I was really really sketchy because I thought this site was a scam, lol. But anywho the guy had some really amazing pictures. He had a picture of him and his Bugatti!!! lol. I didnt believe it at first but he picked me up in his Bugatti. We went to go see the lion king "the play" and omfg My life had been so excitig now hes an executive producer. Its soo crazy because hes so down to earth. I felt like a celebrity being picked up in that sports car lol. Im a totally different person because of him. I was a reguarl 19 guy I worked at Zaras planned on going to college. And now I know it sounds crazy and soo ignorant how things are going now. I might not go. LOL. Im paying all of my mother bills. It feels like a dream every day, I wake up in a pent house on the 57th floor. Its amazing. I really want to thank seekingarrangements because you guys changed my life =)

minneapolis is the worst

i have tried over and over again and have been ripped off everytime by the ladies of Minnesota on that site. the second they get the money they fly the coup leaving me sad and rejected and out lots of money.

Overall successful

I started using the site in mid 2008. After a couple of false starts meeting up with a couple of women, I had a four month arrangement. Sexually fun, but she was as dumb as a bag of rocks, so I ended it. After a few months off I went back and eventually hooked up with a wonderful girl who put up with me for 17 months. The best sex I ever had with anyone, including my wife, and I grew very fond of her. Unfortunately she got too busy with work and school and I ended it after too many cancellations. I went back a month later and within two weeks met up with about 8 girls, all fantastic.

This site is the real deal if YOU'RE the real deal. Otherwise it's a waste of time. I agree that most of the people on the site are phonies.

Pros
Lots of girls to choose from. Billing is on a 30-day basis (no automatic rebilling!)

Cons
Too many phonies. Not an online chat tool.

hold on a minute..

Ok so I am a guy on one of the sugar daddy websites.. I have a good job, drive a good car, motorcycle and rent my own apt.. I am not a millionaire but make enough to treat a girl out for dinners, movies, bars etc.. What I want in exchange? - that she hangs out with me and we have some good time together! A serious relationship, sex or anything else would not cross my mind the very first time I meet her! .. I am 25 .. tall and good looking .. However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen ... some "millionaires" could afford to do that but it's unlikely that you find a REAL millionaire on these sites coz i guess they have their own network to get real girls to hang out with them.. I agree that if men are just using women for a one night stand in exchange of dinner, that's not right but the girl has to be smart enough to figure whose right and whose wrong ... the main reason I am on the SD website is coz my work place does not have too many women and since I am a professional working in a male dominant industry, it's hard for me to get access to nice girls ... Guys like me really look forward to meeting genuine girls but also girls who're nice and not just gold diggers!

Meet The Real Sugar Daddies and Mommies

I had a friend who joined SA and she cancelled her membership after the first three months. She met a guy who was a drug lord, who had connections in her country and threatened here to visit him or else. Now with kind of blackmail going on how can you be safe after allowing yourself to trust some of these men letting them in to know you and then they intern use the information to blackmail you. Well she had inspired me and i started a millionaires club with a different twist, both sugar daddies/mommies and babies get to meet each other in person at a private party every month so they can get to know each other all millionaires are verified as well as their networth. So if you need to find the real deal visit www dot meetelites dot com

lovely lady

I have actually been on this site a total of two years. I have had some great experiences. Once I found I guy that paid me well to be happy I stuck with him. I made an arrangement with one guy on the site. He was 30 years older then myself however, he was really goos in the bed and he paid for everything and I mean everything including my tuition. I received money from him everytime I went to see him and a generous amount of funds also went into my account every week. I was pulling in over $5,ooo.00 from him every 3 weeks. He also took me with him into his jet where I became apart of the mile high club. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO exciting. I ended up moving and we lost touch with each other and I have not been able to find him since then.

Pros
some guys are who they say they are
the guys that are real actually don't mind helping out
the site is easy to navigate

Cons
None just yet

A breeding ground for loosers

This site is a scam, and I can't believe they haven't been closed down.
The site at one time may have been the real thing, but now the site is
crawling with con artist.

You will not find a real SD on this site. The guys are there for only one reason
to get laid by women stupid enough to believe what they say.

Pros
Not a darn thing

Cons
Fake profiles

Loaded with broke men

Site used as a virtual club to get laid FREE

Miss Craig

As with anything else in life where variables are involved, in other words, good vs bad, this site is no exception. I have been on it for a year. Apparently, I had experienced "beginner's luck," as the first man I met within two weeks of signing up was actually what he porported to be; wealthy and truly interested in forging a SB/SD relationship. This involved no more than every other weekend to various locals involving wonderful resorts across the globe. Everything was first class; the transportation, accomodations, wining-dining, etc. He was an older man, not bad looking (Clint Eastwood type) didn't have any weird predelections, was a decent height- had hair, wasn't fat, had a pleasant personality, was intelligent and polite-all good. He alloted me generous sums of cash upon my arrival at the various locations in addition to the monthly stipend he wired to my account. (We're talking annually over 6 figures, btw.) Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart. Anyhow, I resumed my membership on SA and proceeded to meet a series of less than stunning individuals. All were frauds, fakes and pretenders. Some were the worst; obnoxious on every level pretending they really had something to offer when they were doing little more than creating the opportunity to have access to beautiful women which would never happen in real life beyond their computer access. Others, were interested in immediate cash "meet-ups"-the sort of exchange that can be otherwise derived from the yellow pages. Then there are those who must have had an abundance of time on their hands, who wish to feed/entertain their particular brand of narcissism. These are the ones who demand volumnous, endless email and photo exchanges-a sort of free supply of attention coming their way, that you eventually recognize is not going to result in any actual meeting, (much less SB/SD exchange.) But, the absolutely worst reprehensible ones are those (again) who waste your time in actually arranging a date. Within minutes of arriving, (Gals, be suspicious of "coffee dates"-not too impressive at the onset, you know?) it's abundantly clear, the guy is so gross he couldn't date his way out of a paper bag and so "not of means" he wouldn't pay a dime to witness Christ ride a bicycle! He certainlyisn't really going to shed cash on a woman and he, in so many words, will indicate this soon enough. While sipping your coffee, you will soon actually perceive his latent anger that he really cannot have you as nothing else has worked out in his life and he may become slightly obnoxious. Again, an example of this site creating another opportunity for "looky-loos" and posers to have their moment in the sun, being graced by a value beyond their reach. Therefore, I caution the women on SA to be judicious in utilizing such a forum and understand that just as with anything else in life where the strata of humanity is involved, there is a possibililty (admittedly, odds are not favorable) to find the "real deal" on SA.

Pros
Possible to find the real deal.

Cons
You can potentially meet;
-Men who do not really have means.
-Men who are not attractive on any level.
-Men who will waste your time.

Seeking arrangement is a hoax

It does seem odd that these men who self reportedly are worth 10-15 million dollars will squabble over a couple of thousand dollars to have sex with you. Seriously, I had one guy offer to fuck me in my ass in a starbucks bathroom. These guys are vile, disgusting, and will advantage of the naive, so beware. If someone really wants an arrangement with you and make $1 mil a year, they can afford to pay you more than 250 dollars for sex. Or even 500 dollars. I am disappointed by them and how manipulative and horny and ungenuine they are. Someone should work on shutting this site down. It is just a way for men to access beautiful young girls through lies and deceit. I am glad to say that I have not let any dirty mother fucker off the site even kiss me. Make these guys show you the money even before letting them touch you.

Cons
total time waster
guys will lie over and over to you
no one seems really serious about an arrangment

The Other side of the story

This site is laid out very well and is ridiculously easy to navigate. The absurd number of people who mislabel themselves with the baby, daddy, mommy thing is somewhat disturbing and shows the intelligence level of the users. ... I mostly noticed the mislabeled sugar babies in the sugar mommies or daddies section so I suppose a low IQ of the sugar babies is to be somewhat expected but really. ... They explain very clearly what each is before you sign up.
Other than that... lot's of guys not really looking for a real SD/SB relationship. More like casual fuck friends or "personal secretaries". Not so much what I was there for.

I did however have dinner with a guy with a very nice vehicle which may have been a rental but I'm pretty sure was his. He was a gentleman and very intelligent and I didn't detect a hint of aggressive or pushy behavior.

Pros
Easy to use
Lot's of profiles
Active users

Cons
Dumb users
lots of profiles that are inactive
not a lot of nice guys on the site
not enough local to my location

Really Really Appalled

I have been on this site for a while now and I must say most of the guys on this site dont seem to know what an arrangement is or supposed to be. They seem to think that endless emails, and dinner pretty much sums it up.

Take note men, your on this site for a reason, live up to it or get off the site. I am a beautiful, intelligent, kind and interesting women. I live up to my end of the deal, now live up to yours.

I do not wish to meet for dinner and have you paw at me. I do not wish for you to invite me out for the night and I clear my scedule for you to be a creep. Pay for dinner, my time and my cab home. Thats why I am on this site. Why are you?

Pros
Im sure there are some if you find a legit guy ...but I at this point am very doubtful.

Cons
The men are misleading,

Their intentions are misleading.

and it never really developes into a reall SD type relationship.

BEAUTIFUL GIRLS! SAVE YOUR SELF AGRIVATION DON'T DO IT

BEAUTIFUL GIRLS BEWARE OF THIS SITE & ONES LIKE IT!!!!!!! If you are a nice, pretty, educated and young woman and want a wealthy older man - take a yachting course or wine tasting class, or work at a bar where rich people frequent, or ANNNNNNYTHING ELSE. PLEASE READ BELOW:

SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE AS MUCH CHANCE MEETING A RICH MAN WILLING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ON THIS SITE - OR IT'S COMPETITORS - AS YOU WOULD WORKING AT MACDONALDS AND WAITING FOR SOME RICH GUY WHO FANCIES A BURGER TO COME IN BY CHANCE AND NOTICE YOU (actually I would wager at MacD's you have more due to laws of supply and demand)

Young women are completely exploited on these sites. I spent several months and a lot of time and energy on this site and 2 of the other reported best ones. The men (mostly grotesque and and not actually wealthy at all in fact) are all inundated with hundreds of offers from beautiful desperate girls every week. They do not have to prove their wealth. The ones I met were clearly just using it as a cheep way to get easy, endless attention from young ladies they would never be able to even talk to under normal circumstances. Even the ones who are wealthy have no intention of actually forming a true sugardaddy relationship. They are just hoping to get free NSA sex in exchange for dinner.

Why spend your time making such an effort with a man who you will most likely be embarrassed to be seen with who does not care about what you think or say and has no interest apart from parading you around for a night and trying to get sex off of you - in exchange for dinner (as in one of my dates you might not even get cab fare and spend most of the night guarding your mouth with your fork for for fear he puts his tongue in it every time you speak GROSS!!!). You can get dinner from a hot guy on a normal dating site or social network.

I spent loads of time writing endless e-mails (a lot of older guys just join for titillation of writing back and forth)with guys that promised help that never materialised. I also spent time away from work and money travelling on dates, got stood up and I even got jipped £20 cab fair from one who wouldn't let me take public transportation home - he gallantly put me in a cab - but then didn't have any cash to pay and didn't give it back to me the next day. I got pawed up by a disgusting guy who was supposedly a pillar of society and told by this hideously unattractive and badly dressed man (think grand dad golfing) that he liked me better than the "exceptionally beautiful" girl he dated from the site earlier that morning - at least my "wonderful personality" made up for the fact that I was "only just pretty and not beautiful" like the other girl. - He actually said that - he who was disgusting. For 1 the beautiful girl was probably not as polite as I was. And 2nd I've dated stunningly gorgeous guys and none of them have ever told me I was "just pretty"; and they have been more appreciative and a million times more polite interesting generous and intelligent - oh and some of them have actually been rich not pretending like this guy who I found out did not actually have any money ( he reported on his profile $50 million).. etc. etc. etc. Their forums are full of girls complaining about the same thing and much worse. PLEASE PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T waste your time and let these vile con artists take you for a ride.

***If on the other hand if you are aged, over-unattractive, overweight, over-sexed, balding and with not much conversational skills, but you want many gorgeous lovely young women to go out with every night (whom you can lie to about your supposed nonexistent wealth) these are the sites for you.

Pros
NONE
(SERIOUSLY, YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!)

Cons
TIME WASTER! LOTS OF EFFORT & STILL LEFT WITH BILLS & ZERO FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.

IN RETURN FOR YOUR BEAUTY, POISE & KINDNESS YOU GET: AGGRAVATION, EMBARRASSMENT, SEXUAL HARASSMENT (AND YES, DINNER) FROM GROSS, UNATTRACTIVE, MEAT-HEAD WANNABES WHO HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT THIS SORT OF AN ARRANGEMENT IS AND/OR NO INTENTION, OR ABILITY OF ACTUALLY BEING IN SUCH AN ARRANGEMENT.