Seeking Arrangement

Be realistic, every one

First of all, I would say I'm sorry to all because my English sucks, I don't live in a English speaking country.
I'm 22, female, single, have a bachelor degree and a stable job. I come from a good family. I consider myself as pretty, hot (long legged, C-cup, super long long hair and I know how to dress). Everyday I have many guys try to pick me up, and a lot of them are older men. The reason I joined SA is simply that I'm extremely curious. I also have a freelance job as a writer for a cosmo magazine, so I decided to create a profile on SA to "investigate" a bit and have materials for my writing, and most of the info is real, except my eye colors and my height, in case someone recognize me in real life. I posted some pics of myself with not very clear face, just show my body (full clothes, of course). The 1st day, tons of mess came into my mailbox. Most of them claimed to be millionaires, some are married, some are divorced, and most of them are aboard. Some guys are dreamers who thought this site is a 18+ forum, they asked me to exchange nude pics. Lol, it was ridiculous. Some guys are business men, CEO in financial institutions. They are coming to my countries for business, then they inbox me to have some "dates" and always asked "what do you expect/ what is your financial expectation?". Well, I didn't come here for a real SD-SB relationship, so why not pretend? I told them I'm need 200$ for a date and after meeting up, I will decide if we could intimate. Few guys refused immediately, and a few accepted as they described me as gorgous. Then I decided to meet only one guy who seemed very nice and older than my dad (OMG, dad, I'm sorry, I know it's super weird to meet a stranger from the internet). He is a business man from LA. After having dinner together in a 5 star hotel, he gave me an envelop. I took it with a smile and said thank you. Then we left to go out for a walk because it was only 8pm. He hold my hand in public and we acted like a real couple. PPL stared at us, it was awkward. Then he said "You r really pretty and I like you alot. Do you want to spend the night with me?". Sorry all the SB who are reading, but at that moment, I felt I was very cheap. I don't judge you for what you did. But from my own feelings, I felt hurt, I felt it was simply a transaction. So I told him I never had sex on 1st date but I really enjoyed the meal, I also liked him and "if you feel it's such a waste of time, i will give you the envelop back". But he said I did not need to do that, we could meet tomorrow, then I went home. Yes, it was 500 USD for real. But he was like a rare diamond. You know, he's probably one of the few guys in SA who is that generous and nice. However, i didn't meet him again because I had to spend time with other guys for more material for my writing.
Second time, I met a local guy who is only 35. It was kind of risky, he did not send any photo, he claimed to be mega rich, he didn't say anything about himself except his name. Anyways, i felt he was an educated guy based on our conversation and then, we met in a luxury restaurant. He ordered a private room and when I came, the staff took me to the room. And when I came in, I was like what the fuck. He was on many magazines I had read. Yes and sure I knew him, he absolutely super rich and he was married, everyone know that. He is a decent looking guy, not handsome but he know how to dress. I pretend to not know him and we introduced ourselves. He was an arrogant guy and although he did not speak out, I knew he regarded me as a product. I was not mad, who could blame him, right? I just wanted him to express all of his rude, his real feelings for my material. There was no flirting, no emotion at all. We talked about our jobs, and as an educated woman, I was able to hold the conversation even when he talked about his business. He was kind of impressed and gradually showed more respect. I asked him about his experience on SA. And he told me, he had mistresses aboard who$ he met on SA, and some other girls flew from other countries to see him. Lol that was crazy, u know, some ppl were rich, they just did whatever they wanted while his wife never knew. I left the dinner after 2 hours talking. I told him I had something to do at home. He said he wanted to see me again, maybe this weekend. He never mentioned the finance because after talking to me and looking at me, he knew I was not depressed for money, i can make it by myself. He said "I know you want some adventure and I am absolutely good at it". The thing he never knew is that I had recorded the whole conversation and next month, we will have a shocking article about cheating from the internet and dating sites. Of course ppl will never know it was him. I just recorded the whole things in case they said i made up the story.
So hey girls, sugar daddies do exist. It is just your task to seek for the real sugar, not the salt. If you are truly beautiful, elegant, smart and upfront about your expectation, it would be possible. But the thing is short term, long term or just casual sex, you have to find the right guys who want to sponsor and mentor you, or just fooling around with sex.

Pros
Easy sign up, user friendly, many millionaires for real, free for female

Cons
Scammers every where and some only looking for one night stand

Good for What It Is

Seeking Arrangement is a sugardaddy dating site. That means that girls are looking to make money for hanging out with guys who have some money. If you understand and accept that, the site is not that bad. I found that, as a reasonably attractive male, I could go on there, set the allowance amounts to something reasonable, and find a huge array of women.

The trick of being successful as a guy on this site is to have rules and be upfront about them. There are a lot of women who get on the site and want to be paid hundreds of dollars just so you can buy them dinner. If you are like me, you do not need to pay for friends. You may, on the other hand, be willing to use money as a social lubricant to make dating faster and weed out competition, right? So, my rule, which I had to explain far less often than you might expect, was that I would be happy to meet and buy dinner and what not, but if she wanted cash and stuff, then we had to be on an intimate/sexual level.

Now, some girls will immediately start calling you cheap and act insulted like you called them a prostitute. In reality, these girls would have milked you for every penny they could squeeze out of you and offered nothing in return. My response to all that is to ask her if she thinks I am anything more than an ATM. If she is not willing to invest something of herself in you, why would you do the same for her? So, even if she's the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, do not cave in and agree to pay her just to hang out with you. There are lots of other women who will understand how it works and will be much more worth your time.

Of course, this brings up the opposite problem you will encounter: the actual prostitutes. They may not even realize that they are doing it, but you will find girls who are willing to trade sex for money with little or no getting to know each other before it happens. If that does not make you feel weird, then the minute they start talking about all of the other guys they are doing that with probably will. You cannot always tell who is going to be this way, and a few obviously snuck by me, but I recommend as soon as you find out you should cut ties. She could easily end up getting arrested and you could get dragged down with her (yes, police have been known to run stings on SA), and you also should probably be worried about things like diseases and raising other guys' babies, etc.

With all of these caveats out of the way, I will say that I have had marvelous success on that site. I've used it off and on for over 10 years now. If I am getting out of a long relationship, I find it is a great way to kickstart the process of getting back out in the dating world. I sign up for a month, easily meet 3 to 6 different girls, and can probably count on getting intimate with about 8 out of 10 of them. It might just start out as a fun fling, but a few have actually turned into longer term relationships, and many required no payment or allowance of any kind. Of course, most of the people willing to put themselves out there to date guys for money probably have a few scars and they invariably pop up at some point and can kill a budding relationship.

For example, met a girl, hit it off, things were great and we were using the scary "L" word with each other. Then it all went wrong because of issues with her parents that made it difficult for her to trust love. So she told me that although she loved me she was going to go back on SA to find a guy to hook up with for money for a new apartment. When I offered to give it to her myself, her logic was that owing people you love messes things up, so it was better to have sex with a stranger. Needless to say, I disagreed and that was the end of it.

Now, ladies, having met quite a few women from the site, I can say that you will likely encounter emails from a few creeps. Just as anywhere else in the world, there are people who will want to hide behind the Internet to indulge all of their fantasies and feelings of inadequacy. There will be picture collectors, there will be guys with strange desires, there will be guys the age of your father or grandfather, there will be married guys, and there will be the guys who look nothing like their photos. It is just like any dating site, though perhaps a bit grittier because of the connotation of the site. But, if you do not let that bug you, the site can be rewarding for you, as well. You can meet someone (like me) who just wants to spark up a little romance without the headaches of regular dating sites and doesn't mind helping you in the process. Really, sugar daddy dating is (at least to my mind) what regular dating should be: two people who like and care for each other and provide for one another's needs. Nice, right?

So, to sum up: have realistic expectations, and the site can be amazing. But, it requires that you be smart about your interactions and ready to move on to the next person if things are wrong.

Pros
-Easy to meet large numbers of women
-Helps you avoid the headaches of normal dating
-Money acts as a "social lubricant" to facilitate intimacy

Cons
-Have to be smart to avoid being scammed
-Most people will be a little damaged, making true relationships harder (though not impossible)

It's not that bad....is it??

I'm a guy. Not rich, just reasonably well off. I've had mixed results with the site, but compared to other sites I find myself always coming back here. I'm sorry to hear about the girls that have had such bad experiences, but guys have some problems also. I've been in 3 good arrangements from the site over the years, with an arrangement that was good for both of us with regular meetings, an allowance, and so on. I've also been burned badly by so many girls on there that I have had to adopt a policy of never fronting money. Yes, ladies, the name of the game is sex. There are guys out there that will offer lots of money for dinner and a smile but they are few and far between. You come to the site because you are looking for money, guys come to the site because they are looking for sex. Many of us don't want the impersonal "escort" type of thing. If we were we could get that and get it a lot cheaper. We want something beyond that. A mutual understanding and respect can go a long way. Make sure everyone is on the same page, lay out the arrangement in detail, and then live up to the deal and things can go quite well.

Pros
Nice selection
User-friendly layout

Cons
Unable to do a refined search until you have signed up for a paid membership.

It\\\\\\\'s not terrible but it\\\\\\\'s also not great.

I've always loved older men. The confidence, the look, the experience. I've always loved it all. In real life it can be tricky to meet older men. They're either married or are with friends/colleagues and feel a certain way about approaching a younger woman because they don't want to be THAT guy. One day I happened to see SA featured on a show and I decided to sign up. I was surprised by how many attractive men the site featured, very smart, personable, interesting characters(but of course mixed in with the lot that can't form a coherent sentence). I was excited and ready for an adventure; wow it's been difficult.
I will say I'm beautiful, smart, personable, funny, driven and BLACK. That seems to the the problem(the black part). About 8/10 profiles I come across either say something like "I only date White, Asian, and maybe Hispanic women" or they just come out and say "I absolutely do not date Black/African-American women". I can't say that I'm shocked but it is disappointing.

It's a strange but not terrible place but I would be cautious, a lot of the men are truly sleazy and some are nice. We are on the internet after all.

I've yet to meet someone because of the being black bit(lol), or distance is an issue, but mostly because I'm selective and I'm not in a rush. I'd much rather take my time and wait for someone that will change my life in a positive way rather than giving me $1,000/month. It is what you make it so my only advise would be for both the men and women to be safe and SMART.

Pros
Good selection of men who understand what SA is about
Members can now be verified
Easy navigation
Well made website

Cons
Some men equate SA with the woman on the corner
Girls with no values(they cheapen all of us)
A weird anti-black women scene

well you win some and lose some

I've only been on this website for a month and I've already gone on a few dates, some went well... and others not so much! I do have a potential Sugar daddy already though! You quickly learn not to be shocked about the kinds of things you read. I've gotten some very dirty emails straight up asking for sex, but very crude! I'm not on this site to use anybody, so if I'm not interested I won't reply. I just got an email being called an "arrogant cunt" because I simply didn't write him back! LOL it makes me laugh, some guys on this site are assholes.
But that is real life for ya, I guess! If you can last to weed out the jerk offs, you will probably find a great guy for yourself!

Pros
Some guys are very sweet and real!

Cons
A lot of guys want sex and don't take rejection well haha
Takes awhile

My experience with seeking arrangement.

I started seeing women when I was about 19 years old, at the time of this post, i'm 23. At first, I was seeking predominately sex. So I frequented escorts. When I received my inheritance from my grandfather, I began seeing high end escorts and spending thousands per week. It was a lot of fun and all, the women were extremely beautiful and willing to do just about anything. It wasn't until one of the women asked why I sought out a high end escort. She said the sex I was into was very vanilla, oral sex followed by intercourse. I'm not into weird or creepy fetishes. But I do enjoy companionship. So she recommended that I try the site.

So I went into seeking arrangement specifically looking for fun and dessert. My first couple of meetings didn't go very well. There were women seeking an arrangement immediately on the first date. The downside to the site is that there are very few extremely attractive women(super model like). I was very picky on who I responded to and who I contacted. Several of the women weren't who was in the picture. Not to my surprise, this is an old con. Then there were several women who asked for some form of payment after the first date. The money isn't necessarily the issue. My idea of a first date is to simply gauge compatibility. I don't necessarily expect sex on the first date and it is a bit of a turn off because then, I will feel obligated to pay and well, if the sex isn't good, I won't call back.

I recommend girls simply attend a first date with the understanding that it will be casual, usually dinner and maybe drinks. Be open minded about being seen in public with a sugar daddy. Don't be afraid to hold hands with a pot when in public. And do your research, ask for photos of toys. If the guy doesn't drive a late model mercedes, bentley, or ferrari, or similar car, you're most likely wasting your time. I say this because most women seem to run into guys looking for free sex. Granted there are guys who can pay less like $1000/month. But what's the point? Find a guy willing to pay $10k a month. But when you play in that league(10k/month), be expected to have sex and see the pot frequently.

Pros
Lots of women interested in the sugar baby lifestyle.

Cons
Not very many super model types.

Does work for booty calls

There are pros on here, and they usually don't fool around asking for money, and lots of it. There are romantics who visualize a relationship. There are also young, relatively attractive, non-pro women interested in both money and sex.

I don't mess around asking for what I want, inexpensive NSA booty calls. If you are an attractive older man and honest about your intentions you can line up 100 dollar booty calls with nice looking, even sweet young women, and do so regularly. I have repeat action with several women from SA. It is uncomplicated, fun and a win-win situation. If it wasn't win-win for one or both party either can and do walk away. It's that simple.

Good experience; lots of pervs

So yes, I did get A LOT of emails from nasty, old or rude men; it happens on these kinds of sites. So ladies (and you tasty young men), do not be surprised when you are propositioned for oral sex in the first email, offered a few hundred per date, told (in great detail) about the nasty things he wants do to you, and generally disrespected by sleaze-ball men who are looking to buy sexual favors. SA is littered with these kinds of members.
You also need to understand what a real SB is: classy, intelligent, attractive, polite, interesting and fun. A SD is a GENTLEMAN with financial means who is also generous, sophisticated, educated, chivalrous, and benevolent. These arrangements work best when both parties meet those standards. If you're a trashy bimbo looking for easy income then you're not going to meet quality men; you're going to meet Johns looking to purchase sex (or get away with sex for free). If you're an asshat looking to buy sex (or it appears as though that's what you seek), you're not going to meet classy, DDF women who actually enjoy your company. I'm sure there are a lot of lot of fake people on the site; I'm sure there are users both attractive and generous. Just be careful about who you choose to meet.
~Men, don't give money initially; buy gifts, clothes, and spa treatments. Don't be stupid and give money to begin with, some women will take it an run off to the next victim. And don't expect sex within the first few dates; that's disgusting, rude and makes women feel cheap and used. You don't want to date women like that anyway and are on the wrong site if you're simply looking to buy sex.
~Women, do NOT have sex on the first date! No! Ew! Wait until you know he's a man of means who is perfectly willing to spoil you. Ask for an allowance AFTER you've been on a few dates and know you can envision something long term with the person. I would suggest after you know you're sexually compatible, too (which should occur no sooner than the third date. I waited until the 5th and several expensive gifts and meals).
I feel like my profile was pretty popular because I can use punctuation properly and write using multisyllabic words. I don't think I'm especially attractive (many men would disagree) but I am articulate, educated, interesting and not a financial predator; men can tell, they'll treat you with respect if you command and deserve it.
I also made sure to properly vet any potential SDs. If he brought up sex within the first 5 emails: ignore. Incomplete grasp of grammar by a native english speaker: ignore. Doesn't mention meeting after 15 emails; ignore. Asks for pictures when I already have 5+ up on the site: ignore.
One man mentioned seeing a topless pic of me (he was crude about it); he offered to spoiled the hell out of me, but I wasn't interested in seeing someone who would be so disrespectful. I don't care how much money you make-- you don't get to treat me like a whore or stripper. He was miffed when I ignored him, but I'm glad I did.
Keep your standards up, ladies. Don't stand for the abuse, no matter how desperate you are. If you're that desperate, get a job. Any job you can, that way to you can look yourself in the mirror and not be ashamed of using some nasty old lecher for his money while being used in return.
There are a few nice men on the site from what I've seen; the icky creeps don't understand what it is to be a real SD. The gross, moronic women probably don't understand what a SB is supposed to be (um, hello, he's your rich boyfriend that you have sex with).
I only ever met one man from SA: my amazing, incredible SD. I liked him initially but things were awkward for the first two dates because I didn't have any experience dating men, just immature college boys. The age difference bothered me at first, but the perks of dating someone who is financially stable, confident and knows what he's doing in bed negate that trifling detail. I now won't even consider dating some one less than 8 years older than me (I wouldn't date someone who is more 13 years older than me, though).
I don't understand how so many of you complain that you can't find a SD. I have two other men from WhatsYourPrice (sister site of SA) that are practically chomping at the bit to see and spoil me, and another from the same site that doesn't make much who has gifts waiting for me to pick up (since I'm not a predator, I won't accept them. He's nice, but I'm not attracted and refuse to use anyone). It must be because you aren't proper sugar babies and you aren't adequately vetting your prospects. And to the men that are complaining about meeting predatory women, use you're brain! You didn't make your money by being a halfwit; if she needs money, pay it weekly!
Ideally, both parties should feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. I know that's how I feel.

Pros
~SDs take care of you financially and emotionally
~You get to try to new things and travel
~They can help you with your career by opening doors for you that would otherwise be closed
~(slightly) older men are more experienced in bed ;)
~you get to take care of a man who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated (if not better!). Believe me, it's rewarding

Cons
~creepy lechers
~picture collectors
~rude men

This Site absolutely works

I meet a few decent and fun Sugar babies on here.
Highly recommended. Just take time and weed out the flakes.
My first Sugar Baby was 22yrs old (I am 55yrs) and we had a blast.
The chats, dates and sex was fantastic.
Dating another 22yr old College Babe that is highly money motivated BUT she does deliver. This will be most likely short term but its fun so far.

Remember you may have to screen some flakes to get to decent ones.

Pros
Nice Pool of young ladies.
Easy Search engine
Cuts out a lot of time and BS since both parties understand what its all about

Cons
Despite some unrealistic expectations from some young ladies, Its a good site that gets results. Just keep your guard up with these young whipper snappers

Best site ever

For what the site is, it works. But obviously it's not for everyone. If you want a sugar relationship though this is the website to use.

Pros
Real, verified and generous men.
Free for girls.
Super easy to use.

Cons
None.

Seeking Arrangement -- Worthwhile if you know how to use it

As an older guy (63) this site has been very useful. Thus far I have dated two college girls from the site and am in the process of meeting two others. I have heard from these girls that there are a lot of flaky guys, confirming what some other female reviewers have mentioned. The key to doing this right is to be very respectful in your profile and also when you are communicating with the girls. I never mention any sort of sexual act and when money is mentioned it is only with respect to paying for her time with me. I am also very specific in my profile as to what sort of relationship I am looking for and what I am offering which is minimal and not intended to be full time support, as I have had a long term sugar daddy relationship in the past and just looking to replace it once I find the right girl. I do get a lot of messages from girls who live far away, some even in foreign countries. I ignore them, as it is just impractical to have a long distance relationship this way -- there are plenty of girls in my vicinity to choose from, I do not need to look elsewhere. Also, any contact from a foreign country will likely be a scam so just know to not get caught up in that. I have been on the site for a few months. One thing you need to know is that when your paid subscription is about to expire and immediately thereafter, you will get a ton of messages from girls whose pics are very nice and you will want to reply to those messages. It is just a ploy to get you to renew, since you can't reply unless you are a paid subscriber. After you renew and respond to those messages the girls disappear and you never hear back. I checked a couple of them a few weeks later and the profiles had either been removed or the last login date was when they sent me the original message, so I figure those are all fake. There are some girls who are looking for outrageous sums of money (such as more than 10k/mo) and others who say they are not willing to get intimate and just looking for a "mentor". Memo to these girls: you are wasting your time. Most of the girls I have contacted or who have contacted me at other times are real (I generally get their phone numbers and real e-mail address as soon as possible). All in all I believe it is good value -- if an old guy like me can get dates with 19 to 24 year old college girls from this site, then anybody can, just write a good profile -- "if you build it, they will come (and so will you)".
**Update** Just made a major mistake: had the girl come to my door without meeting her first at a restaurant. I barely recognized her from her photo -- she must have put on about 50 pounds since her photos were uploaded. Will just chalk that up to a lesson learned. This is the first of four I've met so far from this site that didn't resemble her photo. She was nice but I am not into BBWs and would never have agreed to see her if I had known the truth.

Pros
Most girls are attractive and real.
Easy to hook up.
Search engine is pretty good (when searching, don't waste time contacting girls who haven't logged in within the last month).

Cons
None

Love this site

I can honestly say I don't trust any of the reviews here. Because if you are really beautiful and you maintain a high standard, you will have no problems meeting a sugar daddy on there. I met my sugar daddy via this website and I am loving it.

Pros
- A lot of real and generous men (as long as you set your standards high)

Cons
- Won't work if you aren't attractive. Sorry girls, I hate to say this, but I am just being honest.

seeking arrangement is awesome

i have been on seeking a for three years now and love it. i have got a ton of ass on here.
most the girls are young and beautiful. girls that have given bad reviews on here are probably old and not so pretty.
i have great success and would recommend this site to any guy that has money and wants to have great fun.

Pros
girls are beatiful

Cons
ugly girls on here too. have to watch out

Lots of real and beautiful girls on this website

I honestly don't understand all the negative reviews from some of these girls ... my experience with this website has been amazing. I've dated so many beautiful girls from SA, I can't say more. And for the right girls I have dated, I have paid their rent, taken them on trips, shopping, etc. I paid for a nose job for one of them, and bought another a car.

There are many more girls than sugar daddies, so like most men, I only write to the beautiful girls. I guess if you are an older lady and not too attractive, don't expect to get much out of this website....

But if you belong to that special group of very wealthy men or very beautiful women .... this website will work for you. I'm almost 100% sure of it.

Pros
More beautiful women per male member.

Cons
May not be a good site if you are just a below average looking girl, or a guy who doesn't have the financial means to be generous.

Be Smart

Let me start off by saying that I am a nice, attractive, smart college student. I first heard of "sugar dating" through the media and figured it'd be an interesting experience so I decided to give it a shot. I should also mention that I have a "premium membership" because I registered with my .edu email. I've been on SA for about a year now and have had both positive and negative experiences. I am also a member of a competitor site with a much worse web layout but I've surprisingly found more success there than on SA. I've met real millionaires, been flown across the country, have had cars sent for me, and have even ridden around in a lamborghini.

On the flip side I've also met locals who are not millionaires but are rather quite well off, I find that those men are often the kindest and most generous. Through all of my experiences I have only had one steady SD , we're approaching a year of knowing one another and he's an attractive, great, younger guy. That being said, there are some things that concern me about SA and how it's run.. I was contacted by an "SD" who had multiple attractive photos and a very well written profile which said he was "worth" 10-50 million...

We exchanged a few messages and seemingly hit it off. Being a photography student I asked him why all of his photos were taken in a studio and if he would mind sending some casual shots before meeting. He immediately got defensive saying that those were the only photos he had and that they should suffice. Weary of his response, I saved his profile photos to my computer and uploaded them to a site that does a reverse photo search of billions of images already on the web, (just google tineye).

Turns out he had stolen every photo from a modeling site which I was also a part of! I confronted him in a blunt message and immediately blocked him. I then politely emailed SA to report him, handing over all of his information on a silver platter, even the link to the model's portfolio, only to see them do nothing about it. That was about 3 months ago and his profile still works to this day. It bothers me that he is out there scamming other girls who may not be smart enough to figure it out. His profile is 877352.

I also had another man contact me claiming to be some big photographer blah blah blah, he put his contact info in the message so naturally I googled him. ALWAYS do a short google search of names and numbers! Turns out he had sent the same exact message to many other girls and was running an escort service, go figure. I again blocked and reported him to SA. I still have yet to receive any response. His profile is 752271. The contact info he gave me was

[email protected]
(416) 951-6856 (Cell)

Just google his cell and you'll find tons of references to escort services.

In the end it all boils down to doing your research and knowing who you're talking to. ALWAYS meet in a safe, public place and never do anything you're uncomfortable with. If he is a true SD he will have no problem accommodating to your requests.

One last little gripe about SA... I have a feeling they mess with my messages. I often write to SDs first and on rare occasions I notice that my message was never read although I see them online. At first I thought they just must not interested but recently I messaged a guy and a day went by with the little red X by my message meaning he never opened it or had just deleted it. I thought nothing of it until he later favorited me and messaged me with no reference to my original message. After reading his message, I went and checked my outbox and the red X was still there next to my original message meaning he hadn't read it, meaning he had never received it... I am curious to know why SA won't send some messages and if anyone has had a similar experience?

All in all SA has brought me to some amazing people and experiences so I can't complain too much.. I would recommend SA to those who are patient and have their wits about them.. As long as you're not ignorant and desperate you should come out on top! Hope my review helps! :)

Pros
real SDs
decent website
entertaining blog

Cons
fakes
creepers
sketchy message system
poor customer service

SA eventually worked for me

I started three arrangements through SA.

The first failed after the first date due to difficulty arranging any follow-on dates with the sugar baby.

The second failed after the third date. It became obvious that she was uncomfortable with the sugar baby lifestyte. She cut off the arrangement quite poorly immediately after I had prepaid the 2nd month's installment. She kept the money.

After this second failure I became very frustrated with my results but I decided to try one more time -- and only one more time. Luckily, this third time worked like a charm. Presently I am into the fourth month of an arrangement with this third sugar baby. She is gorgeous, intelligent, and much fun to hang with. We are quite compatible and the arrangement supports both of our special needs.

As a reasonably successful 50+ year old guy, I now have a beautiful mistress. I can thank SA for bringing us together.

Pros
The number of really stunning young women on the site is remarkable. All the women I contacted (about a dozen) were real women. I have tried other dating sites (not suger daddy sites) and these other sites create fake accounts for females to entice male subscribers. This is not the case with SA.

Furthermore, if you are a legitimate sugar daddy, expect that the vast majority of women will respond to your emails.

Cons
Expect to spend significant money and time to find a compatible sugar baby.

What a WONDERFUL site!!

If you weed out the Normal people, from the scammers, liars, and wack WEIRDOS.. Than you'd enjoy this site very much! I know there is a lot of fake posers on here but there are just as much real AMAZING people as well. Going thru a rough spot in my life, I met an awesome man on here who really helped me deal with things! Now back for round 2, I will give it another shot & hopefully land another cool person.. Overall this site is nice, and very well laid out. I suggest this to anybody who is looking for this type of stuff!!

Hit or Miss

I created a profile on SA in February and once I got approved I received a lot of new messages. Some guys are the real deal [Millionaires] and some are just the average middle class man looking for a date. I advise "average" Non-millionaire men to not join this site.
I met only one sugar daddy from SA so far and I really couldn't believe. I thought some men where fake but he wasn't, I have no car or way to met him so he sent a driver to my apartment to pick me up and bring me to his place,which was very nice by the way. I felt like Beyonce or something getting into a really nice car with a chauffeur escorting me to the car and to my SD mansion.
The other men that sent messages wanted a "adult" arrangement , which I don't want because I'm not a prostitute and only would have sex with someone I truly love. So ladies/sugar babies beware of those men it's ALOT of them on that site and they are also very cheap to.

Pros
-Very generous men
-Real millionaires, If your attractive

Cons
-a lot of men looking for a prostitute
-non rich guys join that site also so it's kinda hard to know what's real

Be Leery

Trust no one from this site. Be careful, that's my advice. I have had one experience to date, which sexually was very good yet I haven't seen a red cent of money that was supposed to come to me 'next time'. I'm not holding out yet that I won't see my SD again and he will hold up his end of things but I'm pretty sure I got burned. My own fault as I should have asked for money as soon as my panties hit the floor.

Nearly all the men are married are are lying about something, their age, their smoking habits, their wives...whatever. Take everything with a grain of salt, this is the internet, lying is far too easy. Be careful!!! If a man CAN take advantage, you let him, he most likely WILL. There are a few decent men on there I'm sure but you have to search and that's a job in itself.

Good luck ladies!

Cons
Sleezeball douchebags.

It's the best

Not sure where all these bad reviews are coming from. I've met 2 sugar daddies on SeekingArrangement in the two times I have been using the website. It works, and most of the guys are real. I actually met one of the riches man in the world on there, it was actually pretty cool.

I think for those of you who have not had much success, it is likely because (a) you don't know what you are looking for, or (b) you aren't gorgeous enough to be a sugar baby.

And for all those reviews that point to another dating website, I kind of think that is a blatant attempt at promoting your own website. I'd suggest those scheming marketing people to get a life and to try to get actual real coverage for their website by respectable media.

I came across SeekingArrangement while watching 20/20, and I've not regretted that since then. I guess if you have any questions, you can reach out to the founder of the website on Facebook, and he'll probably answer your question personally.

Good luck you sugar seekers.

Pros
I found 2 arrangements from the website.

Cons
I wish there was a private chat or calling feature on the site.

Other side of the coin

As previous poster said:

"Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart."

As one financially well off, I think that marriage and abuse of divorce laws produce the biggest gold diggers in the world. There is no bigger gold digger than a married woman. Better for the rich to avoid monogamy or marriage at all costs. I would rather go for a sugar babe with known costs than give a lien on my wealth to a wife with unknown costs and potentially wealth damaging divorce actions.

Also marriage these days don't last long anyway with huge penalties for the man to leave it, so better to go in for arrangements.