Beware of the guys that are looking for prostitutes

Beware of the guys that are looking for prostitutes

It's always nice to see an offer come in from a sweet and attractive gentleman. Winks are a waste of time because most of the guys that wink don't have money to even accept an offer.

Look at profiles that have " premium member" which makes sure that you're accepting an offer from someone that has taken the time to purchase credits. If you get offers from someone that hasn't, be prepared for your acceptance to sit there indefinitely.

There are many creeps on this site primarily ones with fake pictures 20 years old that are just looking to pay for sex. Try to avoid any men pushing 50 because they all offer great first date amounts (usually) but they tend to try and ask you to "come over" for the date. They waste credits because once they realize you're a normal girl and not one that is open to getting paid for sex, they stop responding to your messages for the date.

Stick with the younger guys, not only will you have more in common with them but they are not pushy like the older men are. Plus they have some great plans for dates that are so much fun!

Pros
Guys 43 and below are happy to take you out on a nice date and enjoy your company.

Cons
Guys 48 and over are there for prostitutes so don't accept offers from them.

Don't give out email because they use you as their pen pal and don't want to go out on a date or want you to forget it's a paid dating site. These types also push for sex or may ditch you on paying for the date because they can't get sex. You may even here " i'll pay you after you do **** with me". So it's wasted time with someone that you barely have anything in common with and you may view as a walking pedophile. Avoid at all costs.

I feel bad lumping all older men into this bunch but apparently before this site existed older men generally had to see hookers if they wanted to date someone out of their age range. Sadly they don't view this as an opportunity to show younger normal women their respectful decent sides.

1.Don't into cars with strangers
2.Let someone know where you will be at all times
3.Have 911 on speed dial if you feel you've met someone dangerous.
Don't let him walk you to your car, you may never make it to your driver's seat alive.
4.Don't believe the ages and pictures on the site, many guys that are older lie by about 10-20 years to get you to accept a lower offer and meet them.
5.Be wary of anyone that wants you to email off the site or call them. It's smart to provide a contact number but unnecessary discussions can prove to waste your time talking to someone that has no plans to take you out on a date.

Agree. I just had another guy do the same thing today. Wanted to meet then keeps dragging out the conversation on the site and asking 3 times over for me to call him. He even wrote something sexual about the first date so I will not be meeting him. Claims he's divorced but who really travels to the other side of the state with a child at home? Yes he's probably married looking to cheat away from home. Looks like I have to block this guy now.

I think you transposed your topic header by mistake. Actually being a guy on that site, it should read like this:

"Beware of the prostitutes that are looking for guys "

At least half of the "women" that have asked me to offer them have had suspended profiles (WYP does its homework) or some awfully risque looking pics on their profiles or just flat out are disgusting looking, which in and of itself isn't a sign, but you'd have to look the profile over before it clicks.

I get it, though. The gal I went to lunch with some time back evidently is getting asked for sexy time (so says her profile) and guys are telling her they are not paying without such, but that good ol' gender equality goes both ways, doesn't it? Yup. Give women the opportunity to act like men and it isn't so pretty after all...

Anyway, not to get sidetracked. Be careful out there. I hope the site doesn't turn out as another POF.com, but who knows. If there were not escorts on that site trolling through, well, you get the idea.

Bree, I'm sure your comments are based on real experience. But there are men who are my age and older who are nice, and believe it or not, there are young women who like them too.

But I am really directing my comments here to the men. If you (men) want to pay for sex, why are you wasting your time in the United States. In the USA, prostitution is cheap and tawdry and the women are either drug addicts or expensive escorts. Don't use WYP as a place to find prostitution. You are just ruining the site for those who want a real date.