I joined Our Time for one month without researching anything about it, and I regretted it the following day. I joined at 9pm and I had porn emails in my email inbox by 9am the following morning! Somehow, my personal email address had been either sold to, or stolen by, porn spammers. I know this for a fact because I have had the same email address for nearly ten years and have never had any spam of any kind sent to it ever until the day after I joined Our Time. It's been two weeks since I joined now, and I get porn spam every other day, which horrifies me because I have a young son at home, and I would not want him to see one those emails by accident on my screen.
In addition to the spam, which by the way I reported to Our Time and received no response from them whatsoever, the site in general is loaded with a lot of dirty or ugly looking men of low-class. They send "flirt" messages constantly without writing any personal notes, and when they do write, it's meaningless one-liners. With that said, there are also a small number of average-type men who seem to seriously looking for relationships or dates, but the majority are not worth looking at on the site, so it's mostly a waste of time and energy.
Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.
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