Gaydating.com is a scam. I let my membership lapse 2-3 times due to not ever getting much interest from other members, and each time it did, I suddenly began receiving notifications - daily - that members were sending me mail... all I had to do was re-subscribe to read them. When I finally did get hooked in and would pay to subscribe again, none of these members ever wrote back... and strangely enough, I was far and away very different from what they said they were looking for in their profiles. It became more and more obvious these were computer generated, especially when I received three in one day and I logged on to find my profile had been deleted! I wrote to the site and told them my suspicions, but despite their claim they would reply to me within 24 hours, they never wrote back. This is an example of a site that seriously needs to be investigated... they'll do whatever they can to get your money.
Pros
Supposedly a lot of members.
Cons
Notifications and emails once your subscription lapses are clearly computer generated.
Site is not "free," despite their claims.
Yet another example of gay men exploiting each other to make a profit.