You have to pay for EVERYTHING!!! It's only free to search and create a profile. There are ads, so why does the public have to pay? That's what advertisements are for! So sick of companies catering to the rich, so many of us are living paycheck to paycheck, so why don't we deserve to find a good man? Someone compatible? Just make the site FREE!
Pros
You can filter your search parameter
Cons
You can't send messages , receive messages, see who's searching you, who favorites you, or anything without paying! What are the ads for then?