Great Site
Review about Date Who You WantI signed up on datewhoyouwant.com once I finished the sign up process I was automatically logged out and asked to log back in with my username and password. I did, and was immediately redirected to Afroromance.com
I was quite surprised but figured they must be co-sites. Come to find that you had to be a paying member if you wanted to be the first to message anyone you liked. Otherwise you could only send winks/flirts/flowers or say you were interested. I don't remember the precise options.
Anyway I sent a few of those and if they were paying members they could message you and only then you could message back. Which was nice because many other sites won't allow you to message back if you don't pay.
The long and short of it is I was on the site for just a little over a week when I met the most awesome man! #loveofmylife :)
One year and a half later we got married. We're happy and going strong. Jan. 2016 to Jan 2018!
Thanks to datewhoyouwant.com and afroromance.com
I highly, highly recommend both sites