I couldn't agree more with the previous review. I have witnessed the exact same things while I was on this site for a few months. Many profiles have been there for years and are way past their self life! Some men seem to have taken permanent residence on this site! Ironically the age stays the same and the pics don't change either! This shows that either this site can't really match people or that many people on it use it for reasons other than a genuine relationship, such as kill time, entertainment and window shopping, ego stroke, trolling, hookup or in the worst case scenario grift and con.
What struck me the most is the number of men on this site that have a likely mental disorder. I saw lots of narcissistic tendencies and aggressive trends. You see lots of intense love bombing that suggests borderline traits. Yeah, my field is psychology and human behavior. Be careful! These relationships are usually toxic and inevitably end badly. The bottom line is that most members on this site are undatable and it would be extremely unlikely to find your life partner on this site!
Pros
I couldn't find any!
Cons
Lots of crazies hanging loose on this site!
I write this review as a mature professional woman. My views are based on my experience with this site on three occasions spread over an 11 year period. This site has just gotten worse over the years. Predators, cons and sick men are running amok on this site and prey on their victims with impunity. The administration takes no moral or legal responsibility to protect the members especially the females. You don't believe me, read their terms of service! This site is openly biased against women. My advice to women on this site is to leave ot at least be very vigilant. I first tried this site 11 years ago and soon gave up as I saw no genuine outcome. I temporarily returned in 2014. To my surprise many active profiles remained exactly the same as 7 years prior. The same antiquated system remained. I am sure this site does not even use a real algorithm to match members much less a real quality control system. I tried it again in 2017. I saw an even worse deterioration in the quality of members. Again the same software exactly as more than a decade ago. Again many old profiles woth the same pictures that remained active. Ironically the owners of these profiles were younger than a decade ago! Up till recently they could easily and as often as wanted change their age. My most recent experience has proven that there are lots of men who use this site as a hookup place. However their profile claim their search for a long-term committed relationships. I understand that the romantic idea of finding a life partner who shares one's original culture and language is very appealing. That's the reason I have given this site a few tries over the years. But every time it has turned out to be an unpleasant, demoralizing and sobering experience. Do yourselves a favor and stay out of this cesspool! I know that I will.
Pros
None
Cons
. Antiquated algorithm
. Poor matching system
. Unsafe site especially for women
. Administration takes no steps or accepts any responsibility to protect its members. You'd be on your own.
. Mostly fake, old profiles: most profiles bear wrong age, height, education and income.
. Many use it for hookups