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Review: Miss Craig
Thank you Jennifer, who wrote the previous paragraph about her experience with SA. I was so hopeful when I joined (less than two weeks ago). I am a single mother of two young children, with an ex who has made it his life's mission to make me suffer. I am an attractive, educated, intelligent, articulate female. My biggest downfall in life is that I am waaayyy too trusting of people. This has bitten me in the ass before, and apparently it's happening to me via SA! Can someone guide through this process? I get these guys with some GREAT profiles...so eager and willing to help. They appear to be 'all that'. But instead of meeting (granted many of them were not conveniently local to me), they insisited on sharing pics...then more pics...then explicit ones. I've had a few invite me for an IM/Video sexcapade. I have (embarrassed to admit this) taken them to the other side of the moon with phone sex. Of course, they call back and want more. My question is....Where's the goods?!! They ALL want wayyyy too much before they even entertain the other part of the equation. I feel like a complete fool!
Are there any profiles of men that you ladies know of that should be flagged? Or are there just waaaay too many of them? I have about 6 of them that I think should be booted. I'm ready to call them out. I'm not on these sites because I'm a nymph...I'm on here because I need a good man to 'adopt' me and my two kids, so to speak. It just so happens I enjoy sex with the right person too.
So..ladies (and even men, if you're reading this). There's got to be a way to make both parties comfortable without either one giving too much up front.
Btw....any guys who want a 'trial run' to "see if we're compatible/chemistry"....these websites are not for you. Don't taint the pool any further. Just stay at the bars/clubs where you belong.