My experience with this site has been very unpleasant so far!
Although my "Search Region" has been specified by me, and although my 'matches' are being sent to me seemingly complying with my "Search Region", it turns out that they do not - in reality - concur with my specified "Search Region" at all! I am getting responses from people all over the world... primarily Africa and other generally recognised 'dodgy' regions which, I'm led to believe, are actually automatically blocked by other 'major' dating sites!
Now, this site is for casual, intimate encounters... yes? Well, how can one have a casual intimate encounter with someone halfway round the world in a country generally seen to be full of people trying to find a way to get themselves into the Western world???
This site, in my own opinion and experience, is a con!
It's also a nightmare trying to get out of it and cancel the '3-month' rolling' membership! Yes... 3 months at a time! It's full of 'rules and regulations'.
Frankly, I seem to have paid money for nothing, and have had only ONE contact in my own region and ONE contact in a close (home country) region! ALL the other 'matches' have displayed dodgy communication and from far distant 3rd world countries!
Well, that's my experience.
Don't touch this site!
Pros None whatsoever!
Cons Contacts are dodgy, irrelevant and non-genuine!
Lack of communication when trying to contact the site administration.
Tied in for 3-months with difficulty in cancelling.
Many of the profiles are EXACTLY the same wording! Others are written in such a way as to make me think they're not native English speakers. Still other profiles list cities that don't exist by using "North" or "West" in front of the city name, when I know these areas and know they do not have that designation. I agree with the same things that Gary & Barry found. This site is a total SCAM!!!
Pros None
Cons Buyer Beware! This is a waste of your hard earned money, unless you like looking at pictures for $30.00 a month.
Nearly everyone on here is out to scam people. Men pretending they are soldiers in Afghanistan and contractors working in Ghana. Everyone says they are from the States but their english is broken. tTey write you lots of love peoms. Ladies they are all after money do not fall for their scams. Their photos are of very good looking men but its not them Please Please dont fall for them Skout needs to look into this.
i registered for the website free. i got lots of emails and decided to upgrade my membership. after upgrading membership, emails stopped. i met a girl who was saying she was near me. i gave her my email address because i was new. we decided to meet, then she said i have to have a verification id. i said i have state id, licence and university id. she said it is a different id and i have to send $150 to a person who lives in philippines to be able get this id. what the hell is this!!!!!another girl i met on the website asked for $300 to meet me and menaced me. she said she is gonna send me to jail if i don't pay the money.the management of the website did nothing. every girl i met on the website asked for either money or id. many member are also cam girls. after that i discovered many fake sites exist.i immediately canceled my membership before expiring.so, i couldn't meet a real girl. almost everybody i met was cam girl who wanted me to vote for them. three of them asked for verification id which does not exist but any way u have to pay for the id.and one asked for $300. just stay away from this website.
hi i have been using this site for 2 years now and i can honestly say muslima.com is good if uve got money and a life to waste .if ur not cearfull wil be used. most of the girls and men on this site are after an easy ride to eurpe so dont be a donkey.
Pros good if uve got nothing better to do
Cons the whole site is a big scam lot of fake intrests and mail
I will say as a black women i do think it is significantly more difficult to find a SD but when i first started using the site, i found a legit SD who was a millionaire within a month, but he was also black. I was 19 at the time we were together for about 6 months until i found him to be to controlling and had to leave. but since him i've found it extremely difficult to find another one. particularly since there are so few black men and the white men seem to have a preference for white, after all they are old and grew up in a different era lol. honestly it was nice getting all that money but meh if you don't really need it, i don't recommend going through all the trouble of searching through the trash to find one rare diamond
I received lots of messages before I paid then they became a trickle. No one answers a direct question all you get are short generic replys. Do they have a programme that pick out key words in messages and then generates a reply? No woman seems able to meet for one reason or another, I think this is a tactic to keep you hanging on and then paying more. A total scam!
u think your getting dating site but yet your paying money for other websites along with the cheekylovers and u have to be a member to get video chat and others so i recommend trying something else thanks
I used this site for 6 months and I was a paid member.
I found many real girls on this site. Exchanged phone numbers and skype and facebook with them. This is real site and I would recommend it. Mostly moroccan girls but many others too. This is real site and I liked it alot. There are few russian and ukrainian scammers too on this site but just don't send money to anyone.
Good luck!
This takes away from the effort one would put (paying a subscription) therefore overall reducing the quality of the site. I've recognized I get multiple flirts from any one member at a time, but no email. WHY? they are not paying members, and may really like my profile but if he cannot dish out $19.95 for the first date (cost for a one month subsciption) then what is the use? Those who take the time to initiate an email to me, I always out of courtesy, reply, whether I am interested or not.
Pros White guys truly seeking to meet females of a different race...not experimenting. And I am genuinely attracted to them.
Cons Non-members able to read an reply to emails...This should be changed...to READ but not able to REPLY...that would give more incentive to the recipient to become a paying member...after all that is revenue right? I've suspended my paid membership due to this flaw.
I found Christian Mingle to be a good tool. I would recommend it to anyone. First as we all know, nothing is completely free in this world. You do have to have a membership to email or chat with other members but at least you can create an account and get in to see who is out there and if you like the website before you pay for the membership. I found this to be a plus. Christian Mingle also has questions on the website to help you determine personality traits which is very important in dating. It also offers a questionnaire about your beliefs and how you feel about certain things to see how you match up to another member that you could be interested in and if the other member allows you then you can see their answers to the same question. This is a great tool. Ladies/Gentleman, dating is tough but we are the ones who have to be smart about it and take our time. Really get to know someone before we get involved. There are plenty of frogs out there before we meet out prince or princess. Good luck with your seach and may God bless you through the process as he did me.
Pros Has good tools to use to get to find out more about the person before you decide to meet outside the website.
Cons There is always going to be people out there that we wish were not on Christian Mingle but there are plenty of good people too. A great relationship is worth the wading and working for to find.
they take your money you never get to read your messages i get email telling me i have messages go on the site have nothing inbox i tried to contact these ppl at customer service you can forget about it no response back so i resent another message to customer service got my account suspended i want my money back i would never ever recommend this to anyone ever .
Pros non
Cons everything is a con from the fake messages you get cant open cant see and oh the money they charge you to see the same 10 profile all the time ,customer service you can forget it .
This site like most dating sites its a gamble,this woman came to my yahoo account,she claimed she met me on afrointroductions from nowhere a picture in my inbox yahoo,yuup she was from ghana,had a good story,i mean con,anyway im out 2.000.00 bucks,afro warns of scammers,the africans change their methods to keep their con a step a head,ill say this when i see those commercials of african kids needing food i send them a the ghanains scammers web address and phone number,i tell those save africa churches call this number 011 233 248 878 659 and ask them if they got any of allens money left,he want you to do good with his money.
Pros proceed with caution with woman from west africa,go to webcam asap.
Cons west africa con men and women use church,family members,and are habitual liers,they will lie to your mother they did to mine,flat out lied,that phrase is true dont believe it until you see it with your own eyes physically,she even lied to my kids on the phone.
I joined the site in 2011, I met a few guys who were paid members. I believe the way a person would behave in a relationship even without the help of the site is basically the same. However some guys who are paid members fill they have an edge and appear pompous. It's not easy to pay here in my country, ( well I think so).
I met a guy and he was so very interested and he told me he loved me, I was swept off, we met , we got engaged, things started going wrong, and then worse.
we are no longer in contact, I still have his ring. He met my family.
My point is we both contributed in the failure of the relationship. nothing to do with the site.
The same things that apply in relationships not through sites apply,
I believe we would have crashed if we had gotten married.
He never left the site, he had and I think still has the idea that there's someone perfect when he is not.
Pros it's an opportunity to meet,only if there are decent and honest men there.
Cons the men who are out to have 'fun'. what in God's name does that mean.
This site was given to me by a friend of mine said I could meet great guys here.. WRONG.. This site will not allow me to even have a profile for more than 6 hours.. Seriously I have tried to sign up 6 different times in a 2 week time period.. As a female, this site will not allow a real female to have an accounts at all!!!!!
Pros The only pro to this is it is online
Cons Everything, wont allow a Real Life Female to be on it.. and all the girls on there are fakes (bots)... I have 2 Male friends who said all their messages all read the same and it is for suckers who think with the wrong head.. Sorry but this site is only for the fools of the world!!
What a total SCAM SITE, Once you join for free your loaded with woman that are to live in your area, Ya well let me tell you. I live in a pretty small town where everyone knows everyone and not 1 of those smoken hot bitch's lives around here..lol.. You will get 2 or 3 maybe more messages from some hot chicks that don't exist. Which makes you want to join, And you do like me " Dumb Ass " and write back to the bitch's that don't exist. And there always the ones that live near you,, Ya right...One snake did write back and sent me to another freaken porn site to view her pic's... SHE WAS A MAN WITH NICE TIT'S.. Go figure. Don't join this site unless your into losing your hard earned money.. Good luck on your searches boys.. REVIEW EVERY SITE 1ST..
I'm a guy. Not rich, just reasonably well off. I've had mixed results with the site, but compared to other sites I find myself always coming back here. I'm sorry to hear about the girls that have had such bad experiences, but guys have some problems also. I've been in 3 good arrangements from the site over the years, with an arrangement that was good for both of us with regular meetings, an allowance, and so on. I've also been burned badly by so many girls on there that I have had to adopt a policy of never fronting money. Yes, ladies, the name of the game is sex. There are guys out there that will offer lots of money for dinner and a smile but they are few and far between. You come to the site because you are looking for money, guys come to the site because they are looking for sex. Many of us don't want the impersonal "escort" type of thing. If we were we could get that and get it a lot cheaper. We want something beyond that. A mutual understanding and respect can go a long way. Make sure everyone is on the same page, lay out the arrangement in detail, and then live up to the deal and things can go quite well.
Pros Nice selection
User-friendly layout
Cons Unable to do a refined search until you have signed up for a paid membership.
I joined Our Time for one month without researching anything about it, and I regretted it the following day. I joined at 9pm and I had porn emails in my email inbox by 9am the following morning! Somehow, my personal email address had been either sold to, or stolen by, porn spammers. I know this for a fact because I have had the same email address for nearly ten years and have never had any spam of any kind sent to it ever until the day after I joined Our Time. It's been two weeks since I joined now, and I get porn spam every other day, which horrifies me because I have a young son at home, and I would not want him to see one those emails by accident on my screen.
In addition to the spam, which by the way I reported to Our Time and received no response from them whatsoever, the site in general is loaded with a lot of dirty or ugly looking men of low-class. They send "flirt" messages constantly without writing any personal notes, and when they do write, it's meaningless one-liners. With that said, there are also a small number of average-type men who seem to seriously looking for relationships or dates, but the majority are not worth looking at on the site, so it's mostly a waste of time and energy.
Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.
It's free, the profiles are real, and the service is well run. Every paid site I have tried has been a scam - other members can't reply unless they pay, profiles are fake, they don't show you how long it's been since the person has been active (because they want to create the illusion of more active members than they have)
This site let's you search by how long it's been since someone was on or how new they are to the site. And you can "hide" profiles from your search so you don't have to keep wading through profiles you're not interested in.
As for all the negative reviews here, these people are whiners. If women aren't writing you back IT'S BECAUSE THEY AREN'T INTERESTED. If you meet someone who turns out to be a psycho IT'S NOT THE SITE'S FAULT, it's your fault for not being picky. And if the selection of people isn't as good as you think it should be, that's not the site's fault either!
This site does what it's supposed to do - features real profiles of currently active members you can easily contact. The first time you're on it can be a little time-consuming going through all the profiles of active members. But after that all you have to do is search for new members to stay updated.
Pros - profiles are real
- totally free
- shows you how long it's been since they were online so you're only contacting active members
- large number of members
- Allows you to hide profiles you're not interested in so you don't have to wade though them every time.
Dodgy and suspicious
Review about C-DateMy experience with this site has been very unpleasant so far!
Although my "Search Region" has been specified by me, and although my 'matches' are being sent to me seemingly complying with my "Search Region", it turns out that they do not - in reality - concur with my specified "Search Region" at all! I am getting responses from people all over the world... primarily Africa and other generally recognised 'dodgy' regions which, I'm led to believe, are actually automatically blocked by other 'major' dating sites!
Now, this site is for casual, intimate encounters... yes? Well, how can one have a casual intimate encounter with someone halfway round the world in a country generally seen to be full of people trying to find a way to get themselves into the Western world???
This site, in my own opinion and experience, is a con!
It's also a nightmare trying to get out of it and cancel the '3-month' rolling' membership! Yes... 3 months at a time! It's full of 'rules and regulations'.
Frankly, I seem to have paid money for nothing, and have had only ONE contact in my own region and ONE contact in a close (home country) region! ALL the other 'matches' have displayed dodgy communication and from far distant 3rd world countries!
Well, that's my experience.
Don't touch this site!
Pros
None whatsoever!
Cons
Contacts are dodgy, irrelevant and non-genuine!
Lack of communication when trying to contact the site administration.
Tied in for 3-months with difficulty in cancelling.
Fraudulant XMeeting
Review about XMeetingMany of the profiles are EXACTLY the same wording! Others are written in such a way as to make me think they're not native English speakers. Still other profiles list cities that don't exist by using "North" or "West" in front of the city name, when I know these areas and know they do not have that designation. I agree with the same things that Gary & Barry found. This site is a total SCAM!!!
Pros
None
Cons
Buyer Beware! This is a waste of your hard earned money, unless you like looking at pictures for $30.00 a month.
All scammers
Review about SkoutNearly everyone on here is out to scam people. Men pretending they are soldiers in Afghanistan and contractors working in Ghana. Everyone says they are from the States but their english is broken. tTey write you lots of love peoms. Ladies they are all after money do not fall for their scams. Their photos are of very good looking men but its not them Please Please dont fall for them Skout needs to look into this.
a waste of time and money
Review about UpForIti registered for the website free. i got lots of emails and decided to upgrade my membership. after upgrading membership, emails stopped. i met a girl who was saying she was near me. i gave her my email address because i was new. we decided to meet, then she said i have to have a verification id. i said i have state id, licence and university id. she said it is a different id and i have to send $150 to a person who lives in philippines to be able get this id. what the hell is this!!!!!another girl i met on the website asked for $300 to meet me and menaced me. she said she is gonna send me to jail if i don't pay the money.the management of the website did nothing. every girl i met on the website asked for either money or id. many member are also cam girls. after that i discovered many fake sites exist.i immediately canceled my membership before expiring.so, i couldn't meet a real girl. almost everybody i met was cam girl who wanted me to vote for them. three of them asked for verification id which does not exist but any way u have to pay for the id.and one asked for $300. just stay away from this website.
hallo
Review about Muslima.comhi i have been using this site for 2 years now and i can honestly say muslima.com is good if uve got money and a life to waste .if ur not cearfull wil be used. most of the girls and men on this site are after an easy ride to eurpe so dont be a donkey.
Pros
good if uve got nothing better to do
Cons
the whole site is a big scam lot of fake intrests and mail
meh not worth
Review about Seeking ArrangementI will say as a black women i do think it is significantly more difficult to find a SD but when i first started using the site, i found a legit SD who was a millionaire within a month, but he was also black. I was 19 at the time we were together for about 6 months until i found him to be to controlling and had to leave. but since him i've found it extremely difficult to find another one. particularly since there are so few black men and the white men seem to have a preference for white, after all they are old and grew up in a different era lol. honestly it was nice getting all that money but meh if you don't really need it, i don't recommend going through all the trouble of searching through the trash to find one rare diamond
Pros
if your lucky to find a real SD can be fun
Cons
hard for black women
have to deal with unfit old guys
a lot of guys looking to just get over
Xpress.com is fake
Review about XPress.comI received lots of messages before I paid then they became a trickle. No one answers a direct question all you get are short generic replys. Do they have a programme that pick out key words in messages and then generates a reply? No woman seems able to meet for one reason or another, I think this is a tactic to keep you hanging on and then paying more. A total scam!
Pros
None, just false hopes.
Cons
Just a cruel method of getting your money.
scam
Review about CheekyLoversu think your getting dating site but yet your paying money for other websites along with the cheekylovers and u have to be a member to get video chat and others so i recommend trying something else thanks
Good site
Review about Muslima.comI used this site for 6 months and I was a paid member.
I found many real girls on this site. Exchanged phone numbers and skype and facebook with them. This is real site and I would recommend it. Mostly moroccan girls but many others too. This is real site and I liked it alot. There are few russian and ukrainian scammers too on this site but just don't send money to anyone.
Good luck!
Pros
Many real profiles/girls
Cons
few scammers asking for money
rip off
Review about OurTime***
Pros
None
Cons
Too many to mention, stay away from this site.
Non-members can read and reply to emails?
Review about AfroRomanceThis takes away from the effort one would put (paying a subscription) therefore overall reducing the quality of the site. I've recognized I get multiple flirts from any one member at a time, but no email. WHY? they are not paying members, and may really like my profile but if he cannot dish out $19.95 for the first date (cost for a one month subsciption) then what is the use? Those who take the time to initiate an email to me, I always out of courtesy, reply, whether I am interested or not.
Pros
White guys truly seeking to meet females of a different race...not experimenting. And I am genuinely attracted to them.
Cons
Non-members able to read an reply to emails...This should be changed...to READ but not able to REPLY...that would give more incentive to the recipient to become a paying member...after all that is revenue right? I've suspended my paid membership due to this flaw.
Good tool for online dating
Review about ChristianMingleI found Christian Mingle to be a good tool. I would recommend it to anyone. First as we all know, nothing is completely free in this world. You do have to have a membership to email or chat with other members but at least you can create an account and get in to see who is out there and if you like the website before you pay for the membership. I found this to be a plus. Christian Mingle also has questions on the website to help you determine personality traits which is very important in dating. It also offers a questionnaire about your beliefs and how you feel about certain things to see how you match up to another member that you could be interested in and if the other member allows you then you can see their answers to the same question. This is a great tool. Ladies/Gentleman, dating is tough but we are the ones who have to be smart about it and take our time. Really get to know someone before we get involved. There are plenty of frogs out there before we meet out prince or princess. Good luck with your seach and may God bless you through the process as he did me.
Pros
Has good tools to use to get to find out more about the person before you decide to meet outside the website.
Cons
There is always going to be people out there that we wish were not on Christian Mingle but there are plenty of good people too. A great relationship is worth the wading and working for to find.
scam
Review about Arab Loungethey take your money you never get to read your messages i get email telling me i have messages go on the site have nothing inbox i tried to contact these ppl at customer service you can forget about it no response back so i resent another message to customer service got my account suspended i want my money back i would never ever recommend this to anyone ever .
Pros
non
Cons
everything is a con from the fake messages you get cant open cant see and oh the money they charge you to see the same 10 profile all the time ,customer service you can forget it .
a gamble
Review about AfroIntroductions.comThis site like most dating sites its a gamble,this woman came to my yahoo account,she claimed she met me on afrointroductions from nowhere a picture in my inbox yahoo,yuup she was from ghana,had a good story,i mean con,anyway im out 2.000.00 bucks,afro warns of scammers,the africans change their methods to keep their con a step a head,ill say this when i see those commercials of african kids needing food i send them a the ghanains scammers web address and phone number,i tell those save africa churches call this number 011 233 248 878 659 and ask them if they got any of allens money left,he want you to do good with his money.
Pros
proceed with caution with woman from west africa,go to webcam asap.
Cons
west africa con men and women use church,family members,and are habitual liers,they will lie to your mother they did to mine,flat out lied,that phrase is true dont believe it until you see it with your own eyes physically,she even lied to my kids on the phone.
COMPLETE BS
Review about MarryMeSugardaddyTHERE IS NOTHING TO SMILE AT IN THIS 1. if u fall for it, u WILL be sorry!!!
Pros
NONE
Cons
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!
can't say for sure .
Review about AfroIntroductions.comI joined the site in 2011, I met a few guys who were paid members. I believe the way a person would behave in a relationship even without the help of the site is basically the same. However some guys who are paid members fill they have an edge and appear pompous. It's not easy to pay here in my country, ( well I think so).
I met a guy and he was so very interested and he told me he loved me, I was swept off, we met , we got engaged, things started going wrong, and then worse.
we are no longer in contact, I still have his ring. He met my family.
My point is we both contributed in the failure of the relationship. nothing to do with the site.
The same things that apply in relationships not through sites apply,
I believe we would have crashed if we had gotten married.
He never left the site, he had and I think still has the idea that there's someone perfect when he is not.
Pros
it's an opportunity to meet,only if there are decent and honest men there.
Cons
the men who are out to have 'fun'. what in God's name does that mean.
Hates real life Females.
Review about XPress.comThis site was given to me by a friend of mine said I could meet great guys here.. WRONG.. This site will not allow me to even have a profile for more than 6 hours.. Seriously I have tried to sign up 6 different times in a 2 week time period.. As a female, this site will not allow a real female to have an accounts at all!!!!!
Pros
The only pro to this is it is online
Cons
Everything, wont allow a Real Life Female to be on it.. and all the girls on there are fakes (bots)... I have 2 Male friends who said all their messages all read the same and it is for suckers who think with the wrong head.. Sorry but this site is only for the fools of the world!!
scam
Review about AfroRomanceWhen I joined this site, i thought it was so cool... until I realized only 3 people were online. Never again
the worst customer service in the US
Review about Sugar Daddy For Methe worst customer service in the US
Pros
none
Cons
the worst customer service in the US
randy559820 is rude man.
Review about Seeking ArrangementThis guy wrote to me this:
apparentky you are very shallow individual that would rather chat about dogs then the real reason you are on this site..
GROW UP!!!
when i wrote this on 13 February, 2013 13:39pm
I am not feeling so easy about this.
I asked you about dogs but you completely ignored, only telling me about fun whatever.
I am not an escort.
bye.
He wrote this on 13 February, 2013 10:05am
if seriously interested in having fun being spoiled rotten then please send additional photos to [email protected] and call 248.417.9478
when i wrote this upon looking at his profile photo with dogs on 13 February, 2013 09:42am
Hi, so you have dogs?
I have a sliky terrier named Romeo and coton de tulier named Aria.
Cons
There are many rude losers in this site. It is as if they are here because they cannot have normal relationship in other situation.
xmeeting huge scam
Review about XMeetingWhat a total SCAM SITE, Once you join for free your loaded with woman that are to live in your area, Ya well let me tell you. I live in a pretty small town where everyone knows everyone and not 1 of those smoken hot bitch's lives around here..lol.. You will get 2 or 3 maybe more messages from some hot chicks that don't exist. Which makes you want to join, And you do like me " Dumb Ass " and write back to the bitch's that don't exist. And there always the ones that live near you,, Ya right...One snake did write back and sent me to another freaken porn site to view her pic's... SHE WAS A MAN WITH NICE TIT'S.. Go figure. Don't join this site unless your into losing your hard earned money.. Good luck on your searches boys.. REVIEW EVERY SITE 1ST..
Pros
Not a freaking thing
Cons
scam, scam scam
It's not that bad....is it??
Review about Seeking ArrangementI'm a guy. Not rich, just reasonably well off. I've had mixed results with the site, but compared to other sites I find myself always coming back here. I'm sorry to hear about the girls that have had such bad experiences, but guys have some problems also. I've been in 3 good arrangements from the site over the years, with an arrangement that was good for both of us with regular meetings, an allowance, and so on. I've also been burned badly by so many girls on there that I have had to adopt a policy of never fronting money. Yes, ladies, the name of the game is sex. There are guys out there that will offer lots of money for dinner and a smile but they are few and far between. You come to the site because you are looking for money, guys come to the site because they are looking for sex. Many of us don't want the impersonal "escort" type of thing. If we were we could get that and get it a lot cheaper. We want something beyond that. A mutual understanding and respect can go a long way. Make sure everyone is on the same page, lay out the arrangement in detail, and then live up to the deal and things can go quite well.
Pros
Nice selection
User-friendly layout
Cons
Unable to do a refined search until you have signed up for a paid membership.
complete fraud
Review about CharmingDate.comIm karoly from Hungary,everyone warn.
warning!!!!.cheating,cheating,cheating!
I lost tausend dollars.
Pros
nothings
I have experienced
than the others.
Cons
honey-string,these clever scammers!
Worst Site...Stay Away
Review about OurTimeI joined Our Time for one month without researching anything about it, and I regretted it the following day. I joined at 9pm and I had porn emails in my email inbox by 9am the following morning! Somehow, my personal email address had been either sold to, or stolen by, porn spammers. I know this for a fact because I have had the same email address for nearly ten years and have never had any spam of any kind sent to it ever until the day after I joined Our Time. It's been two weeks since I joined now, and I get porn spam every other day, which horrifies me because I have a young son at home, and I would not want him to see one those emails by accident on my screen.
In addition to the spam, which by the way I reported to Our Time and received no response from them whatsoever, the site in general is loaded with a lot of dirty or ugly looking men of low-class. They send "flirt" messages constantly without writing any personal notes, and when they do write, it's meaningless one-liners. With that said, there are also a small number of average-type men who seem to seriously looking for relationships or dates, but the majority are not worth looking at on the site, so it's mostly a waste of time and energy.
Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.
Pros
none
Cons
too many to mention
people need to stop blaming the website for their own bad luck
Review about OKCupidIt's free, the profiles are real, and the service is well run. Every paid site I have tried has been a scam - other members can't reply unless they pay, profiles are fake, they don't show you how long it's been since the person has been active (because they want to create the illusion of more active members than they have)
This site let's you search by how long it's been since someone was on or how new they are to the site. And you can "hide" profiles from your search so you don't have to keep wading through profiles you're not interested in.
As for all the negative reviews here, these people are whiners. If women aren't writing you back IT'S BECAUSE THEY AREN'T INTERESTED. If you meet someone who turns out to be a psycho IT'S NOT THE SITE'S FAULT, it's your fault for not being picky. And if the selection of people isn't as good as you think it should be, that's not the site's fault either!
This site does what it's supposed to do - features real profiles of currently active members you can easily contact. The first time you're on it can be a little time-consuming going through all the profiles of active members. But after that all you have to do is search for new members to stay updated.
Pros
- profiles are real
- totally free
- shows you how long it's been since they were online so you're only contacting active members
- large number of members
- Allows you to hide profiles you're not interested in so you don't have to wade though them every time.
Cons
None come to mind.