Isn't it strange how as soon as anypone writes a bad (hence accurate!) review of Illicit Encounters, a good review almost instantly then appears. It is safe to assume that all of the positive reviews of this over-priced and rip off site below have been posted by the company behind Illicit Encounters. They certainly have no qualms about creating fake female profiles and messages to sucker guys into paying their exorbitant fees. Of course all activitiy from these supposedly interested 'women' evaporates as soon as you've paid up. You only start getting attention again from 'women' on the site when your subscription lapses. There surely must be a law against this fakery?
Do not join this site under any circumstances. You'd have more chance of meeting a woman by walking into a bar and burning the ÃÂã149 it costs to join!
Pros None whatsoever
Cons Ridiculously expensive
Faked female profiles and messages
As a single father of a 2 year old I had no time and little hope of a social life that would expose me to eligible women. I found Afroromance online and was pleased with the selection of intelligent, serious lookers.
I fell in love with Crystal's photo of her and her three children. We chatted for a couple weeks and met.
That was 4 years ago.
We got married in August 27th. I never would have found her without this site.
Pros The selection of serious potential mates is just amazing!!!
Illicit Encounters is the best all-round married dating site, I have been on a few others but the only one I have had any success on is Illicit Encounters. It is quite expensive but that cuts down the competition in my opinion. If you can't afford to pay you can't afford to play!
I just fucked my 10th woman from AM. It has taken about 3 years and about 4 credit updates ($280). There are a lot of fake profiles on the site and you just have to blow them off. But there are plenty of women wanting to fuck like bunnies. I was surprised at how many ladies are looking for cock on the side. Of course, the real spending comes when you have to get hotel rooms. And there are a lot of women looking for sugar daddies. Just avoid them, be patient, and don't post naked pics. Women seem to hate that. Be aggressive but nor overly aggressive. I fucked up a chance at a hot number 11 because I thought I needed to get her attention quickly before other guys beat me to it. Just be cool. If one woman doesn't work, there are plenty of others. Also, be wary of profiles with no photos and no feedback.
I've been on AM for almost a year now. I've gotten a few messages, but no actual dates.
Not all the members are out to cheat. There are a few single women, but most of them are looking for sugar daddy's.
The first woman who contacted me trying to cheat on her husband seem pretty bitter after he cheated on her first. If that's you're thing great.
If adultry is your thing, go for it.
Pros Very few fake looking profiles. The messages I do get do not appear robotically generated. The women all seem very real.
Cons For us guys, it takes lots of time and patience before you will meet anyone.
True there are fake profiles on A4A but I usually run into the real ones. Many people on there are very rude. Especially the white guys and Asian guys (and I am referring the to twinks, I'm a masculine that likes twinks)
I met my twinky Dominican BF on there 2 &1/2 yrs ago. I had no idea back then that he would turn out to be the stereo-typical feminine twink SLUT. He "liked" me a lot. Came from NYC to CT to stay with me several times. Wrote me on FB telling me how much fun he had with me and that he'd hate to think he was just someone I was f*cking for the moment. So I got a little heartfelt emotional and caught feelings for him. After a month of seeing each other I asked him to be my BF. He was excited! He was 19 at the time. Well... 2 & 1/2 yrs later, all he brought my life was head-ache and heart-ache. Thru the yrs I discovered he STILL had his profile running on A4A. He claimed it was just to meet "new friends". Bullshit! You don't make friends on A4A, you make hook ups. He didn't just have 1 profile, I discovered 3 profiles of his. All saying something different and all stating he lived in different parts of NYC.
Bottom line: even the people who actually are real and meet up with you are nothing but skanky sluts. These people are addicted to sex and attention. Altho my ex is beautiful (he really is) he is a sociopath with a complex of wanting to make sure that men find him attractive. He's all about his looks. But instead of taking a compliment and moving along, he takes it to the next level and sleeps with all the men who want to screw him. He cheated on me several times and didn't even make the guys use protection. Luckily, I am clean as of 3 weeks ago.
If you're looking for a RELATIONSHIP , A4A is NOT the place. The ONLY good thing about it is that it's 100% free to use. No membership fees to send or receive emails. So that's where all the sluts go - to the FREE sites.
I've been on this site for almost a year now and I've actually had one date out of it. She didn't want to get involved with a married guy unless my wife was cool with it, so the two of them met first. Too bad things never worked out, she would have been fun. (Well, even more fun).
Most of the profiles are real. They're a few fake ones, but they're easy to spot. If they look too good to be true and have only been on there for a day, they're probably fake.
Like all casual dating sites, there are a lot more men on there than women. But most of the men just have penis pictures and want to fuck, so that weeds most of them out. Regardless, it takes patience.
Pros I'm only recommending this because it simply doesn't suck as bad as the others.
Cons If you really want just NSA sex, hire an escort.
I get quite a few messages on here from very hot and very horny women, but let's face it guys, unless we slipped into an alternate reality where porn is real, women aren't really like that.
The replies I get seem kind of odd. It's like they don't quite read what I say before responding. They seem pretty much computer generated.
The sad think is. Even if I did get a real message, it would be buried in all the fake crap.
Half a year ago I discover behappy2day dating site and thought it was just like many others. I am a member of a few dating sites and all of them are really similar. But what surprised me about behappy is the customer support they provide. The number of ladies in the catalogue is great. I was a bit surprised to get so many responses from so many ladies. I have never felt so popular. It was hard to make a choice. But mmy heart helped me to do it. Now I am corresponding with my Natalia. I have met her twice already in Russia and we are in a process of making a fiance visa. I do not know if i am one of those few guys who succeed in online dating. But I am happy I found this site.
Pros good customer care
big range of services
Cons too big catalogue which complicates the choice
Please don't waste your time or money on this dodgy site, they make you feel there is some interest in you and once you paid the interest like totally evaporates. They depend on fake messages written by spambots probably to keep you engaged. No doubt some people have found fun and an affair but for my money all the women are not what they say they are and by all account some of the men are badly suspect.
AVOID this costly scammy site - it's for losers (not including me obviously!)
for all wondering to join or not, just create an account wait for some girl to email you (always the first are from your region). create a second account with a different region and search those girls. you will see that the same girls are living now in another region.
Pros They arrange actual in-person dates with people who will actually show up, and as everyone is somewhat screened, the people you meet will likely be nice folks and not major creeps. Given the limitations we all face with schedules/time, etc. this is actually a very much appreciated feature. If they would simply admit that this is the extent of their services, I would have felt a lot better about the experience.
Cons There is a lack of personal "match making"--how could they really know you when they have 1500 people in the database and the screening consists of a 1 hour interview? Foolish me for believing them.
The matches they made for me, while pleasant enough gentlemen, were in no way, shape, or form people with whom I had any romantic spark. And, rather than try to address the mis-matches occurring, the staff acted as if I was the problem. Perhaps I am, but if they are going to oversell their service and then underperform, don't be shocked if a customer is disappointed.
For me, this was an unpleasant (and quite expensive) learning experience.
Endless emails and assholes. I'd do a better job out looking for a sugar daddy at the mall then on this site.
1. They favorite you BUT when you email them to say hi they never email back let alone acknowledge you. Does that make sense???
2. The profiles with no pictures always ask for several pictures of you BUT when you ask for at least one in return you either get a defensive remark OR never hear from them again.
3. SOOOOOOOO many fake millionaires it's just SAD. One mans profile was $500000 BUT when wanting to meet me was willing to pay $80 then sex!
4. Endless...AND I MEAN ENDLESS emails of replying to men BUT never hearing from them back.
5. Horny men wanting to collect your pictures. Along with them just wanting sex and NO discussion of arrangement.
One man was kissing my ass saying how pretty I was and he wanted me to come down to NYC for the weekend, when trying to get to know him, his attitude changed and his replys to my emails were short and rude. All he wanted to talk about was sex. When trying to get off the topic I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN.
6. These men try to whisper sweet nothing's into your ear saying they'll give you money, shopping, car ect. So far I'll believe it when I see it. And I don't see a PENNY.
7. Some men just try to get off by JUST taking you out to eat. Ok nice and all but DINNER will not help me pay for my phone bill. No discussion of an allowance...NOTHING. Oh! But when it comes to SEX the men are very quick to comment.
My list goes on but seeing this site on tv and glamorizing it, it's BS. Obviously the women representing this site were payed good money to advertise. And a lot of the women that were on tv talking about they never had sex with the men...IS BULLLLLSHIT. No way in hell a man is gonna pay for a beautiful apartment a new car, traveling, shopping and you guys aren't having sex.
Point is this site is NO sugar daddy site. It's a common escort site and the man who invented the site is a first class PIMP.
I rest my case. This is a waste of time and energy.
Again...better finding a SD at a rich charity event or such.
Pros Are you serious???
Cons Waste of time
Sore fingers from writing ENDLESS emails
Agitation
Short tolerance for BS
fake profiles
Flakes and fakes
Cheap con artist
Ect ect ect
There are numerous sites that are illegitimate, but this site has to be among the top of the list. Me, being a complete fool, decided to stick with it for the long haul! Granted it was my first experience with a dating site. I wasted well over a year for my membership. As these previous reviews mentioned prior, there are site administrators posing as female, and possibly male, members. Their purpose is to bombard you with emails from the opposite sex to rope you into paying for their site, but once you do, you become significantly less popular. Big surprise! They eventually offer half-off monthly discounts when you attempt to cancel your membership. There are also profiles set up by con artists from other countries, for ex, the Philippines, that offer their email, and ask you for money when you decide to contact them. Majorly, they reside on Yahoo messenger. That's an obvious red flag, if the request for money wasn't enough. There are several sites with the exact same set up as XXX Match, they're all the same, and all connected. Save yourself a lot of time and money, and look elsewhere.
Pros None, unless you wanna pay your hard earned money to get mind-f**ked!
Cons Ha! The key word being "CON"! Keep away from this site at all costs, please protect your wallets from these scam artists!
i am currenltly on blackfling i was checking it out at first this means i wasnt a paid member but i notice getting all these hot messages i ignored alot of them, then there was this one girl i seen really caught my eye and the site told me she wanted to see my picture and know more about me so i ran to get my debit card and paid the gold member price then i checked my messages she wasn't there as a matter of fact the last time she was on the website was 2 months before then i noticed they have lots of memebers are suppose to be new members that had been members 5 months before i got on and what happened to all those steamy messages ever since i gave them my money i recieved nothing. I been scamed !!!
Pros plenty of black wemen on there and very attractive too.
Cons most of the wemen well the most sexier ones havn't even been active on the site for months you wont knw this unless you are a paid member. Seems like mostly everyone on there is looking for love according to the profiles i read, its called blackfling but people are acting like its e-hormony. they will try to fool you with pictures of sexy females and say they are interested until they get ya money then you will find out they were not.
I used this site for 1 year and payed for Gold membership. And met several girls through the site. It works like this; if you pay you can contact anyone, and any member can read your messages and write you, because standard members can contact paying members. That is good unlike other dating sites where you pay, but if the ones you are interested in they can't read your mail or write you back unless they pay first. With Japan Cupid this problem doesn't occur.
I met my wife through this site and before that several other girls that I met and dated. Two in Europe and 4 during one of my trips to Japan. Some of them are still friends. As most girls live in Japan at this site, it is almost necessary to vist Japan to meet most of them. There are some fake profiles, but that is perhaps 1 percent. Remember that Japanese need a delicate approach in order to get a reply!
Pros - When you pay, your messages can be read and replied by none paying members. For a year it costs 10, - a month for, not to expensive for a good site and you can unlimited contact other members.
When I noticed a few odd things about this site, like how none of the girls smoke cigs, or how "last activity" was 24 hours in all my search results before paying, but now none of the same girls have been online for 6+ months, or the biggest red flag of all - 90% of the women are gorgeous.... I finally decided to do some research.
Prior to joining this site, I've had some success on PlentyOfFish, which is truly free. Met 4 women so far in person, even had sex with one of those. But the truth about that site is that since it's real, most of the women aren't all that attractive. You have to wade through tons of profiles to find ones that you like. So you know it's real.
I'm kinda kicking myself for letting this site suck me in and get my money, now that I've read the other reviews here.
Well for starters please don't take this as me bashing men, this is from my personal experience on this site.
I came across this site when I saw it on the show 20/20. I couldn't believe that this type of thing even exsisted. Let alone out in public. So I thought why not? I just lost my job, it was the beginning of summer (students just took all of work) I recently bought a new phone and I been trying to go back to school along with saving for a car...and you only live once.
So I signed up, uploaded a picture, and wrote a profile. Simple enough.
I won't lie, I was pretty excited about the whole experience. From what you see on tv beautiful young women being spoiled rotten to the core by rich attractive men. *rolls eyes* wel..let's just say this, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
On one of my dates, an Indian man was worth $10 million from owning gas company's. He seemed nice at FIRST. We went to a casino near my area that was just new. We didn't do much except walk around since I never gambled before. We talked laughed and he asked me what I was looking for in this arrangement and what allowance I want. I was taken aback because I was still new to this site...and because of that, he found an advantage. After telling him my financial problems he asked if we can be somewhere more quiet( here I'm thinking he wants to sit somewhere) ummmmm no. Not at all.
So after agreeing, we drive to a hotel area. With a look of confusion I ask him what's going on and I thought he was going to take me home. He takes out a camera, condoms, and handcuffs! All I could do was look at him. I explained to him I'm not that type of girl. He became angry and said he already paid for the room and he believed that with this relationship...and I quote, "it's a give or take relationship, and I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE". Well that went out the door and I ordered him to take me home. For my trouble he gave me $400. Later that week he texted me asking can he spend time with me. I refused and never heard from him again.
Even after that sucky experience, I didn't want to put all men in one pool. So I decided to go on another date.
Another bad experience was with a man who was CEO of ICloud. He was from Nigeria and was well off.
So we went on a late dinner date, talked a little. When I asked him has he ran into any false pretense of women lying about what they look like he agreed. Me being funny I asked did I disappoint him?
And I quote he said, "no...not really." -___-
Now, I'm not saying I'm the baddest bitch on the planet, but I can say I'm a very very attractive black/Filipino girl. And I NEVER edeited my pictures. And from what men told me, I actually look BETTER in person than online. Meanwhile this man looked like donkey from shrek -___-.
So to my surprise I was taken back not knowing what to say. Trying to change the subject I said I wanted to go back to school to be a mortician. When he heard this, he was trully turned off saying things such as, "something was wrong with me" and " I must of had a bad childhood" orrrrrr maybe Im just interested. Anyway I mention to him I couldn't afford school and student loans and such would be suicide. He was constantly cutting me off saying I was,"lazy" and that when he came to America he didn't have a problem with looking for work. By this point I was ready to go home. When we were done eating I asked did he have a good time? He shrugged and said kinda.
This man was a rude asshole, but to top it off, he was trying to grab my ass after JUST insulting me! Long story short I never contacted him again.
ANOTHER, bad experience is when an asian man asked me out to dinner.
At this point I felt like I had nothing to lose. In between looking for work and trying to make ends meet, I thought why not?
I forgot what this man did for a living but his profile said he was worth $3 million. We finally head out to dinner and all seemed fine. He barley spoke English and he was the size of snookie from jersey shore. Couldn't help but feel bad......BUT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!!!
So after talking for a bit we talk about payment and what were looking for in an arrangement. I mention to him what I want allowance wise and respect wise. AND THAT I NEVER SLEEP WITH PEOPLE THE FIRST NIGHT I MEET THEM. PERIOD. he seemed ok with it and offered to take me home. We jump in the car...and without warning, he jumps me trying to take off my dress!!! Thankfully I was a bit stronger than him and was able to push him off. He looked surprised that I pushed him off and was asking why I didn't wanna have sex! Are you serious man?! Did you not just hear what I said?! I swear with no exaggerations after I said no several times, he insisted he came home with me and sneak in my room! At this point I was done and was willing to take a cab home. He felt bad (or so I thought) and said hell drive me home. On the way home he said he was willing to give me $500 that night and tomorrow before all the drama started in the car. When he drops me off he said he had money. When he hands it over...he gave me $40.
That was the last time I been out on a date for the past 2 months. Again I had some good dates but there was no chemistry ORRRRR the men were just horny cheap assholes who wanted sex that night.
Sorry for the long review but I wanted girls to know to PLEASE be careful. A lot of the men are fake or just crude and nasty. About 85% of them are. The rest you'll find should be decent but I'd rather be broke not going shopping or enjoying a new car than feeling like a common prostitute.
I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only young female that has had terrible experiences. Trust me I have several more stories, but I'm surprised that you even came to the end of this. Lol. But really to get to the bottom of this:
This site is bullshit. The men on here are either fake, greedy, nasty, or just down right mean because they think they have money.
And what I mean by fake is: fake pictures, profiles, names ect.
I even had a man ask to give me $100 and a hotel room for 6 hours of sex! Cringe alert!!! He even said if we go out to eat, it can't be to expensive because...and I quote! "I been outta work for the past 2 years so if we eat it's either at McDonald's or taco bell"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.....I'm done. But this site is a waste of time. Endless emails and empty promises.
If you continue on the site always do background checks and ask for proof. If they get defensive to even showing a picture...there fake.
Thank you for reading my LONG REVIEW. Be safe ladies.
Pros I don't really have any except atleast I'm not paying to be on the site. *shrug*
Cons -empty promises
-horny old men
-fake millionaires
-waste of time
PERIOD
So the deal with AFF is you have three choices. You can avoid it entirely, which might save you some frustration but it is free to sign up so why not take the chance. Worst case is you never find someone but at least you tried. Second is to sign up and be PATIENT! The key is patience (and blogging, blogging earns points, points lets you email) without patience a free account will get you nowhere. The third option is to pay to upgrade, and you still have to be PATIENT! Just because now you can email people doesn't mean you should start copy pasting "Fuk me?" emails to every woman in your city. Women don't appreciate being treated like dirt, and they also want someone who wants to give them more attention that just a mindless penis. They already have those if you didn't know guys it's called a dildo.
When you pay to upgrade think very carefully about whether you really want to fork over the extra cash for the gold membership. Besides seeing the newly created profiles 3 days early, and being able to customize your searches better, it gets you nothing else really other than a little gold ball instead of a silver one on your profile name.
Paying for Silver or Gold, you'd be a fool to pay month to month expecting to hook up in the first month. Their guarantee is to meet someone in three months, they don't guarantee how you will meet them or whether that person will have sex with you or not. Meet can be as simply defined as a woman responded to your email. Be prepared to be searching for months before meeting someone for sex. I recommend getting the year package and turning off autorenew immediately so if by the end of your 12 months you aren't satisfied then you don't get roped in to a second year.
I joined for only a month as a silver when I lived in LA the fuck capitol of the world with millions of potential FBs. I was so mad and disappointed when I never got a single response that I decided not to renew. When I moved to Northern Cali, I decided to give it another shot and went for the year subscription plus the porn package (hey free unlimited downloads and I'm bored playing with myself as soon as I get home at least would like to see some DVD quality entertainment rather than flash videos all the time) within a month I met someone, we had a playdate that didn't go so well. A week later I arranged another meet with someone in central cali, we hit it off and screwed for 36 hours before I had to drive back. A week after I got back I met another lady in my city we hit it off and were FWB for a few weeks until things got a little too friendly for the level of benefits and I don't deny women would prefer a friend but this was her end going a little too far over the limit of friends. It was entering slavedom. I've also made many online only friends for emailing and chatting, but I haven't had a partner in 4 months now. So it's not ideal but it is realistic to expect to find someone to have sex with at some point.
I should mention when I joined I was 200 pounds overweight and the girls I was with were not supermodels but the FWB was deffinately cute and I wish we could have stayed together longer. I'm now down another 100 pounds and building a potential relationship with a very good looking woman my age who's slightly overweight but has an amazing figure and I hope we get together.
Keep hope, and realize were wanted for more than our schlongs (because if you think yours is so special get a dose of reality, AFF is a sausage fest at least 10-100 men to every woman in major cities, 100-1000 men / 1 woman in smaller rural areas. If you were a gay guy you would find a ton of action. I have 5-6 gay guys watch me on cam every night.
People who are against AFF usually feel like they got cheated and the reality is they probably weren't patient (both in time and the way they treated the women)
Pros Lots of members, lots of real people, very likely chance of meeting someone if you live in a major city
Cons Lots of fake profiles, annoying restrictions, site is constantly trying to get you to upgrade even from silver to gold, there are plenty of scammers but you will figure out how to spot them really quickly.
Had my CC hijacked and used to sign up for a membership. There was a phone number on the billing line online, called it and they do not accept calls.
Went to the web site and found NO way to contact these people to tell them of the fraud.
Luckily the cc company jumped in and cancelled the card and these charges.
hubby and i joined up on here and stupid us paid for it , was the only one we could find that said we are a couple not male or female and seen a few good reviews on it well obviously the people who have good things to say about this site are from this site , we havent received any replys from any messages or anything , we are both 29 fit and not bad looking either so it wasnt our looks that made them not reply we are having more luck now with the free sites now then the paid ones its because this site is a complete rip off , awesome forums??? we doubt that no one replys to your posts this is the biggest waste of money ever we are just glad we only paid for the one month !!!
Pros lmao there are none ..maybe the pretty pictures?
Cons everything about be naughty is a con dont do it anyone
I was first hesitant about paying for membership having read some of the reviews on this site. But after taking the plunge I have met 4 women for drinks and have ended up sleeping with 2 of them.
I will defiantly be renewing my membership at the end of the month as it's worth the money.
Pros Nice safe environment with lots of friendly women
The site has many stock photos of fake people that will try to IM you to start a chat. I paid the $3 to try it out for three days, and after 10 minutes the 88 people that viewed my profile were all online and not a single one would respond to an IM. All these previous profiles had plenty to say on IM when I was not a subscriber. When I contacted Wealthymatch.com after ten minutes for a refund, they admitted that the site had fake profiles and to read section ten of the legal document that this is for entertainment purposes only. They said I tried it out and that was what I was paying for, and in the legal terms they do not guarantee any responses. Someone also went into my account (management) and rewrote my profile to say "nice guy looking for friends". I am a girl.
Cons These are fake profiles set up to lure you in and pay $20/30 per month.
Isn't it strange....
Review about Illicit EncountersIsn't it strange how as soon as anypone writes a bad (hence accurate!) review of Illicit Encounters, a good review almost instantly then appears. It is safe to assume that all of the positive reviews of this over-priced and rip off site below have been posted by the company behind Illicit Encounters. They certainly have no qualms about creating fake female profiles and messages to sucker guys into paying their exorbitant fees. Of course all activitiy from these supposedly interested 'women' evaporates as soon as you've paid up. You only start getting attention again from 'women' on the site when your subscription lapses. There surely must be a law against this fakery?
Do not join this site under any circumstances. You'd have more chance of meeting a woman by walking into a bar and burning the ÃÂã149 it costs to join!
Pros
None whatsoever
Cons
Ridiculously expensive
Faked female profiles and messages
We got married!!!
Review about AfroRomanceAs a single father of a 2 year old I had no time and little hope of a social life that would expose me to eligible women. I found Afroromance online and was pleased with the selection of intelligent, serious lookers.
I fell in love with Crystal's photo of her and her three children. We chatted for a couple weeks and met.
That was 4 years ago.
We got married in August 27th. I never would have found her without this site.
Pros
The selection of serious potential mates is just amazing!!!
Illicit Encounters are everywhere?
Review about Illicit EncountersIllicit Encounters is the best all-round married dating site, I have been on a few others but the only one I have had any success on is Illicit Encounters. It is quite expensive but that cuts down the competition in my opinion. If you can't afford to pay you can't afford to play!
Pros
Lots of women and men are priced out.
Cons
Expensive
WealthyMen.com is a Scam
Review about WealthyMen.comI set up the profile, paid and went throught the verifications yesterday. Today they say my account is disable and will not let me sighn in
Pros
None, never got to use the site
Cons
Paid to use the site and yet my account was somehow disabled
AM Sucks
Review about Ashley MadisonThe same profiles always there for months.
Very few replies
they seem to be looking for basketball players or sugar daddies
Pros
Sounds like a nice idea
Cons
Just another way to extract money
Guess I'm lucky
Review about Ashley MadisonI just fucked my 10th woman from AM. It has taken about 3 years and about 4 credit updates ($280). There are a lot of fake profiles on the site and you just have to blow them off. But there are plenty of women wanting to fuck like bunnies. I was surprised at how many ladies are looking for cock on the side. Of course, the real spending comes when you have to get hotel rooms. And there are a lot of women looking for sugar daddies. Just avoid them, be patient, and don't post naked pics. Women seem to hate that. Be aggressive but nor overly aggressive. I fucked up a chance at a hot number 11 because I thought I needed to get her attention quickly before other guys beat me to it. Just be cool. If one woman doesn't work, there are plenty of others. Also, be wary of profiles with no photos and no feedback.
Pros
Some women really want to get laid!
Cons
Lots of fake profiles.
Definitely Maybe
Review about Ashley MadisonI've been on AM for almost a year now. I've gotten a few messages, but no actual dates.
Not all the members are out to cheat. There are a few single women, but most of them are looking for sugar daddy's.
The first woman who contacted me trying to cheat on her husband seem pretty bitter after he cheated on her first. If that's you're thing great.
If adultry is your thing, go for it.
Pros
Very few fake looking profiles. The messages I do get do not appear robotically generated. The women all seem very real.
Cons
For us guys, it takes lots of time and patience before you will meet anyone.
Met my BF on A4A but not a happy ending
Review about Adam4AdamTrue there are fake profiles on A4A but I usually run into the real ones. Many people on there are very rude. Especially the white guys and Asian guys (and I am referring the to twinks, I'm a masculine that likes twinks)
I met my twinky Dominican BF on there 2 &1/2 yrs ago. I had no idea back then that he would turn out to be the stereo-typical feminine twink SLUT. He "liked" me a lot. Came from NYC to CT to stay with me several times. Wrote me on FB telling me how much fun he had with me and that he'd hate to think he was just someone I was f*cking for the moment. So I got a little heartfelt emotional and caught feelings for him. After a month of seeing each other I asked him to be my BF. He was excited! He was 19 at the time. Well... 2 & 1/2 yrs later, all he brought my life was head-ache and heart-ache. Thru the yrs I discovered he STILL had his profile running on A4A. He claimed it was just to meet "new friends". Bullshit! You don't make friends on A4A, you make hook ups. He didn't just have 1 profile, I discovered 3 profiles of his. All saying something different and all stating he lived in different parts of NYC.
Bottom line: even the people who actually are real and meet up with you are nothing but skanky sluts. These people are addicted to sex and attention. Altho my ex is beautiful (he really is) he is a sociopath with a complex of wanting to make sure that men find him attractive. He's all about his looks. But instead of taking a compliment and moving along, he takes it to the next level and sleeps with all the men who want to screw him. He cheated on me several times and didn't even make the guys use protection. Luckily, I am clean as of 3 weeks ago.
If you're looking for a RELATIONSHIP , A4A is NOT the place. The ONLY good thing about it is that it's 100% free to use. No membership fees to send or receive emails. So that's where all the sluts go - to the FREE sites.
Pros
FREE
Cons
SLUTS
Maybe...
Review about Adult FriendfinderI've been on this site for almost a year now and I've actually had one date out of it. She didn't want to get involved with a married guy unless my wife was cool with it, so the two of them met first. Too bad things never worked out, she would have been fun. (Well, even more fun).
Most of the profiles are real. They're a few fake ones, but they're easy to spot. If they look too good to be true and have only been on there for a day, they're probably fake.
Like all casual dating sites, there are a lot more men on there than women. But most of the men just have penis pictures and want to fuck, so that weeds most of them out. Regardless, it takes patience.
Pros
I'm only recommending this because it simply doesn't suck as bad as the others.
Cons
If you really want just NSA sex, hire an escort.
Mostly fake (99%)
Review about XPress.comI get quite a few messages on here from very hot and very horny women, but let's face it guys, unless we slipped into an alternate reality where porn is real, women aren't really like that.
The replies I get seem kind of odd. It's like they don't quite read what I say before responding. They seem pretty much computer generated.
The sad think is. Even if I did get a real message, it would be buried in all the fake crap.
Pros
None.
Cons
Fake, fake, fake
BeHappy2Day service
Review about BeHappy2DayHalf a year ago I discover behappy2day dating site and thought it was just like many others. I am a member of a few dating sites and all of them are really similar. But what surprised me about behappy is the customer support they provide. The number of ladies in the catalogue is great. I was a bit surprised to get so many responses from so many ladies. I have never felt so popular. It was hard to make a choice. But mmy heart helped me to do it. Now I am corresponding with my Natalia. I have met her twice already in Russia and we are in a process of making a fiance visa. I do not know if i am one of those few guys who succeed in online dating. But I am happy I found this site.
Pros
good customer care
big range of services
Cons
too big catalogue which complicates the choice
IE having a laugh at your expense
Review about Illicit EncountersPlease don't waste your time or money on this dodgy site, they make you feel there is some interest in you and once you paid the interest like totally evaporates. They depend on fake messages written by spambots probably to keep you engaged. No doubt some people have found fun and an affair but for my money all the women are not what they say they are and by all account some of the men are badly suspect.
AVOID this costly scammy site - it's for losers (not including me obviously!)
Pros
some real people looking for 'love'
Cons
Manipulative and expensive
scam
Review about BeNaughtyfor all wondering to join or not, just create an account wait for some girl to email you (always the first are from your region). create a second account with a different region and search those girls. you will see that the same girls are living now in another region.
Less than I had hoped
Review about MixologyPerhaps I had too high expectations.
Pros
They arrange actual in-person dates with people who will actually show up, and as everyone is somewhat screened, the people you meet will likely be nice folks and not major creeps. Given the limitations we all face with schedules/time, etc. this is actually a very much appreciated feature. If they would simply admit that this is the extent of their services, I would have felt a lot better about the experience.
Cons
There is a lack of personal "match making"--how could they really know you when they have 1500 people in the database and the screening consists of a 1 hour interview? Foolish me for believing them.
The matches they made for me, while pleasant enough gentlemen, were in no way, shape, or form people with whom I had any romantic spark. And, rather than try to address the mis-matches occurring, the staff acted as if I was the problem. Perhaps I am, but if they are going to oversell their service and then underperform, don't be shocked if a customer is disappointed.
For me, this was an unpleasant (and quite expensive) learning experience.
Waste of time
Review about Seeking ArrangementEndless emails and assholes. I'd do a better job out looking for a sugar daddy at the mall then on this site.
1. They favorite you BUT when you email them to say hi they never email back let alone acknowledge you. Does that make sense???
2. The profiles with no pictures always ask for several pictures of you BUT when you ask for at least one in return you either get a defensive remark OR never hear from them again.
3. SOOOOOOOO many fake millionaires it's just SAD. One mans profile was $500000 BUT when wanting to meet me was willing to pay $80 then sex!
4. Endless...AND I MEAN ENDLESS emails of replying to men BUT never hearing from them back.
5. Horny men wanting to collect your pictures. Along with them just wanting sex and NO discussion of arrangement.
One man was kissing my ass saying how pretty I was and he wanted me to come down to NYC for the weekend, when trying to get to know him, his attitude changed and his replys to my emails were short and rude. All he wanted to talk about was sex. When trying to get off the topic I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN.
6. These men try to whisper sweet nothing's into your ear saying they'll give you money, shopping, car ect. So far I'll believe it when I see it. And I don't see a PENNY.
7. Some men just try to get off by JUST taking you out to eat. Ok nice and all but DINNER will not help me pay for my phone bill. No discussion of an allowance...NOTHING. Oh! But when it comes to SEX the men are very quick to comment.
My list goes on but seeing this site on tv and glamorizing it, it's BS. Obviously the women representing this site were payed good money to advertise. And a lot of the women that were on tv talking about they never had sex with the men...IS BULLLLLSHIT. No way in hell a man is gonna pay for a beautiful apartment a new car, traveling, shopping and you guys aren't having sex.
Point is this site is NO sugar daddy site. It's a common escort site and the man who invented the site is a first class PIMP.
I rest my case. This is a waste of time and energy.
Again...better finding a SD at a rich charity event or such.
Pros
Are you serious???
Cons
Waste of time
Sore fingers from writing ENDLESS emails
Agitation
Short tolerance for BS
fake profiles
Flakes and fakes
Cheap con artist
Ect ect ect
Obvious scam
Review about XXX MatchThere are numerous sites that are illegitimate, but this site has to be among the top of the list. Me, being a complete fool, decided to stick with it for the long haul! Granted it was my first experience with a dating site. I wasted well over a year for my membership. As these previous reviews mentioned prior, there are site administrators posing as female, and possibly male, members. Their purpose is to bombard you with emails from the opposite sex to rope you into paying for their site, but once you do, you become significantly less popular. Big surprise! They eventually offer half-off monthly discounts when you attempt to cancel your membership. There are also profiles set up by con artists from other countries, for ex, the Philippines, that offer their email, and ask you for money when you decide to contact them. Majorly, they reside on Yahoo messenger. That's an obvious red flag, if the request for money wasn't enough. There are several sites with the exact same set up as XXX Match, they're all the same, and all connected. Save yourself a lot of time and money, and look elsewhere.
Pros
None, unless you wanna pay your hard earned money to get mind-f**ked!
Cons
Ha! The key word being "CON"! Keep away from this site at all costs, please protect your wallets from these scam artists!
blackfling scam
Review about BlackFling.comi am currenltly on blackfling i was checking it out at first this means i wasnt a paid member but i notice getting all these hot messages i ignored alot of them, then there was this one girl i seen really caught my eye and the site told me she wanted to see my picture and know more about me so i ran to get my debit card and paid the gold member price then i checked my messages she wasn't there as a matter of fact the last time she was on the website was 2 months before then i noticed they have lots of memebers are suppose to be new members that had been members 5 months before i got on and what happened to all those steamy messages ever since i gave them my money i recieved nothing. I been scamed !!!
Pros
plenty of black wemen on there and very attractive too.
Cons
most of the wemen well the most sexier ones havn't even been active on the site for months you wont knw this unless you are a paid member. Seems like mostly everyone on there is looking for love according to the profiles i read, its called blackfling but people are acting like its e-hormony. they will try to fool you with pictures of sexy females and say they are interested until they get ya money then you will find out they were not.
Very good site!
Review about JapanCupid.comI used this site for 1 year and payed for Gold membership. And met several girls through the site. It works like this; if you pay you can contact anyone, and any member can read your messages and write you, because standard members can contact paying members. That is good unlike other dating sites where you pay, but if the ones you are interested in they can't read your mail or write you back unless they pay first. With Japan Cupid this problem doesn't occur.
I met my wife through this site and before that several other girls that I met and dated. Two in Europe and 4 during one of my trips to Japan. Some of them are still friends. As most girls live in Japan at this site, it is almost necessary to vist Japan to meet most of them. There are some fake profiles, but that is perhaps 1 percent. Remember that Japanese need a delicate approach in order to get a reply!
Pros
- When you pay, your messages can be read and replied by none paying members. For a year it costs 10, - a month for, not to expensive for a good site and you can unlimited contact other members.
- Many members.
- Easy search at the site.
Cons
Didn't experience any.
Wish I'd come here first
Review about XPress.comWhen I noticed a few odd things about this site, like how none of the girls smoke cigs, or how "last activity" was 24 hours in all my search results before paying, but now none of the same girls have been online for 6+ months, or the biggest red flag of all - 90% of the women are gorgeous.... I finally decided to do some research.
Prior to joining this site, I've had some success on PlentyOfFish, which is truly free. Met 4 women so far in person, even had sex with one of those. But the truth about that site is that since it's real, most of the women aren't all that attractive. You have to wade through tons of profiles to find ones that you like. So you know it's real.
I'm kinda kicking myself for letting this site suck me in and get my money, now that I've read the other reviews here.
Pros
nice pics of beautiful women
Cons
None of them are real, so it seems.
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Review about Seeking ArrangementWell for starters please don't take this as me bashing men, this is from my personal experience on this site.
I came across this site when I saw it on the show 20/20. I couldn't believe that this type of thing even exsisted. Let alone out in public. So I thought why not? I just lost my job, it was the beginning of summer (students just took all of work) I recently bought a new phone and I been trying to go back to school along with saving for a car...and you only live once.
So I signed up, uploaded a picture, and wrote a profile. Simple enough.
I won't lie, I was pretty excited about the whole experience. From what you see on tv beautiful young women being spoiled rotten to the core by rich attractive men. *rolls eyes* wel..let's just say this, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
On one of my dates, an Indian man was worth $10 million from owning gas company's. He seemed nice at FIRST. We went to a casino near my area that was just new. We didn't do much except walk around since I never gambled before. We talked laughed and he asked me what I was looking for in this arrangement and what allowance I want. I was taken aback because I was still new to this site...and because of that, he found an advantage. After telling him my financial problems he asked if we can be somewhere more quiet( here I'm thinking he wants to sit somewhere) ummmmm no. Not at all.
So after agreeing, we drive to a hotel area. With a look of confusion I ask him what's going on and I thought he was going to take me home. He takes out a camera, condoms, and handcuffs! All I could do was look at him. I explained to him I'm not that type of girl. He became angry and said he already paid for the room and he believed that with this relationship...and I quote, "it's a give or take relationship, and I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE". Well that went out the door and I ordered him to take me home. For my trouble he gave me $400. Later that week he texted me asking can he spend time with me. I refused and never heard from him again.
Even after that sucky experience, I didn't want to put all men in one pool. So I decided to go on another date.
Another bad experience was with a man who was CEO of ICloud. He was from Nigeria and was well off.
So we went on a late dinner date, talked a little. When I asked him has he ran into any false pretense of women lying about what they look like he agreed. Me being funny I asked did I disappoint him?
And I quote he said, "no...not really." -___-
Now, I'm not saying I'm the baddest bitch on the planet, but I can say I'm a very very attractive black/Filipino girl. And I NEVER edeited my pictures. And from what men told me, I actually look BETTER in person than online. Meanwhile this man looked like donkey from shrek -___-.
So to my surprise I was taken back not knowing what to say. Trying to change the subject I said I wanted to go back to school to be a mortician. When he heard this, he was trully turned off saying things such as, "something was wrong with me" and " I must of had a bad childhood" orrrrrr maybe Im just interested. Anyway I mention to him I couldn't afford school and student loans and such would be suicide. He was constantly cutting me off saying I was,"lazy" and that when he came to America he didn't have a problem with looking for work. By this point I was ready to go home. When we were done eating I asked did he have a good time? He shrugged and said kinda.
This man was a rude asshole, but to top it off, he was trying to grab my ass after JUST insulting me! Long story short I never contacted him again.
ANOTHER, bad experience is when an asian man asked me out to dinner.
At this point I felt like I had nothing to lose. In between looking for work and trying to make ends meet, I thought why not?
I forgot what this man did for a living but his profile said he was worth $3 million. We finally head out to dinner and all seemed fine. He barley spoke English and he was the size of snookie from jersey shore. Couldn't help but feel bad......BUT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!!!
So after talking for a bit we talk about payment and what were looking for in an arrangement. I mention to him what I want allowance wise and respect wise. AND THAT I NEVER SLEEP WITH PEOPLE THE FIRST NIGHT I MEET THEM. PERIOD. he seemed ok with it and offered to take me home. We jump in the car...and without warning, he jumps me trying to take off my dress!!! Thankfully I was a bit stronger than him and was able to push him off. He looked surprised that I pushed him off and was asking why I didn't wanna have sex! Are you serious man?! Did you not just hear what I said?! I swear with no exaggerations after I said no several times, he insisted he came home with me and sneak in my room! At this point I was done and was willing to take a cab home. He felt bad (or so I thought) and said hell drive me home. On the way home he said he was willing to give me $500 that night and tomorrow before all the drama started in the car. When he drops me off he said he had money. When he hands it over...he gave me $40.
That was the last time I been out on a date for the past 2 months. Again I had some good dates but there was no chemistry ORRRRR the men were just horny cheap assholes who wanted sex that night.
Sorry for the long review but I wanted girls to know to PLEASE be careful. A lot of the men are fake or just crude and nasty. About 85% of them are. The rest you'll find should be decent but I'd rather be broke not going shopping or enjoying a new car than feeling like a common prostitute.
I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only young female that has had terrible experiences. Trust me I have several more stories, but I'm surprised that you even came to the end of this. Lol. But really to get to the bottom of this:
This site is bullshit. The men on here are either fake, greedy, nasty, or just down right mean because they think they have money.
And what I mean by fake is: fake pictures, profiles, names ect.
I even had a man ask to give me $100 and a hotel room for 6 hours of sex! Cringe alert!!! He even said if we go out to eat, it can't be to expensive because...and I quote! "I been outta work for the past 2 years so if we eat it's either at McDonald's or taco bell"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.....I'm done. But this site is a waste of time. Endless emails and empty promises.
If you continue on the site always do background checks and ask for proof. If they get defensive to even showing a picture...there fake.
Thank you for reading my LONG REVIEW. Be safe ladies.
Pros
I don't really have any except atleast I'm not paying to be on the site. *shrug*
Cons
-empty promises
-horny old men
-fake millionaires
-waste of time
PERIOD
Adult Friend Finder - Frustrating but there are real people on it
Review about Adult FriendfinderSo the deal with AFF is you have three choices. You can avoid it entirely, which might save you some frustration but it is free to sign up so why not take the chance. Worst case is you never find someone but at least you tried. Second is to sign up and be PATIENT! The key is patience (and blogging, blogging earns points, points lets you email) without patience a free account will get you nowhere. The third option is to pay to upgrade, and you still have to be PATIENT! Just because now you can email people doesn't mean you should start copy pasting "Fuk me?" emails to every woman in your city. Women don't appreciate being treated like dirt, and they also want someone who wants to give them more attention that just a mindless penis. They already have those if you didn't know guys it's called a dildo.
When you pay to upgrade think very carefully about whether you really want to fork over the extra cash for the gold membership. Besides seeing the newly created profiles 3 days early, and being able to customize your searches better, it gets you nothing else really other than a little gold ball instead of a silver one on your profile name.
Paying for Silver or Gold, you'd be a fool to pay month to month expecting to hook up in the first month. Their guarantee is to meet someone in three months, they don't guarantee how you will meet them or whether that person will have sex with you or not. Meet can be as simply defined as a woman responded to your email. Be prepared to be searching for months before meeting someone for sex. I recommend getting the year package and turning off autorenew immediately so if by the end of your 12 months you aren't satisfied then you don't get roped in to a second year.
I joined for only a month as a silver when I lived in LA the fuck capitol of the world with millions of potential FBs. I was so mad and disappointed when I never got a single response that I decided not to renew. When I moved to Northern Cali, I decided to give it another shot and went for the year subscription plus the porn package (hey free unlimited downloads and I'm bored playing with myself as soon as I get home at least would like to see some DVD quality entertainment rather than flash videos all the time) within a month I met someone, we had a playdate that didn't go so well. A week later I arranged another meet with someone in central cali, we hit it off and screwed for 36 hours before I had to drive back. A week after I got back I met another lady in my city we hit it off and were FWB for a few weeks until things got a little too friendly for the level of benefits and I don't deny women would prefer a friend but this was her end going a little too far over the limit of friends. It was entering slavedom. I've also made many online only friends for emailing and chatting, but I haven't had a partner in 4 months now. So it's not ideal but it is realistic to expect to find someone to have sex with at some point.
I should mention when I joined I was 200 pounds overweight and the girls I was with were not supermodels but the FWB was deffinately cute and I wish we could have stayed together longer. I'm now down another 100 pounds and building a potential relationship with a very good looking woman my age who's slightly overweight but has an amazing figure and I hope we get together.
Keep hope, and realize were wanted for more than our schlongs (because if you think yours is so special get a dose of reality, AFF is a sausage fest at least 10-100 men to every woman in major cities, 100-1000 men / 1 woman in smaller rural areas. If you were a gay guy you would find a ton of action. I have 5-6 gay guys watch me on cam every night.
People who are against AFF usually feel like they got cheated and the reality is they probably weren't patient (both in time and the way they treated the women)
Pros
Lots of members, lots of real people, very likely chance of meeting someone if you live in a major city
Cons
Lots of fake profiles, annoying restrictions, site is constantly trying to get you to upgrade even from silver to gold, there are plenty of scammers but you will figure out how to spot them really quickly.
beware scams and looters
Review about SpeedDate.comHad my CC hijacked and used to sign up for a membership. There was a phone number on the billing line online, called it and they do not accept calls.
Went to the web site and found NO way to contact these people to tell them of the fraud.
Luckily the cc company jumped in and cancelled the card and these charges.
Cons
no way to contact these people.
bunch of scammers!!
Review about BeNaughtyhubby and i joined up on here and stupid us paid for it , was the only one we could find that said we are a couple not male or female and seen a few good reviews on it well obviously the people who have good things to say about this site are from this site , we havent received any replys from any messages or anything , we are both 29 fit and not bad looking either so it wasnt our looks that made them not reply we are having more luck now with the free sites now then the paid ones its because this site is a complete rip off , awesome forums??? we doubt that no one replys to your posts this is the biggest waste of money ever we are just glad we only paid for the one month !!!
Pros
lmao there are none ..maybe the pretty pictures?
Cons
everything about be naughty is a con dont do it anyone
Good place to meet like minded people!
Review about Illicit Encounters:-)
I was first hesitant about paying for membership having read some of the reviews on this site. But after taking the plunge I have met 4 women for drinks and have ended up sleeping with 2 of them.
I will defiantly be renewing my membership at the end of the month as it's worth the money.
Pros
Nice safe environment with lots of friendly women
Cons
Expensive
Fake Profiles Using Stock Photos - Non Refundable
Review about WealthyMatchThe site has many stock photos of fake people that will try to IM you to start a chat. I paid the $3 to try it out for three days, and after 10 minutes the 88 people that viewed my profile were all online and not a single one would respond to an IM. All these previous profiles had plenty to say on IM when I was not a subscriber. When I contacted Wealthymatch.com after ten minutes for a refund, they admitted that the site had fake profiles and to read section ten of the legal document that this is for entertainment purposes only. They said I tried it out and that was what I was paying for, and in the legal terms they do not guarantee any responses. Someone also went into my account (management) and rewrote my profile to say "nice guy looking for friends". I am a girl.
Cons
These are fake profiles set up to lure you in and pay $20/30 per month.