OK cupid is a cougar wannabe site
Review about OKCupidI have been very disappointed with OK cupid. It cost me nothing to join and that is what it has been worth, nothing.
I am an educated, fit, gentleman. This has gotten me nowhere fast on ok Cupid.
There have been 2 ways to go: I tried contacting ladies on the site my age or perhaps 3-4 years younger. Perhaps 10% have responded.
The other option was to try and let the ladies contact me. Just sit back & see what occurs: The results were that a fair amount of women did contact me. They were either from out of state or anywhere from 2-8 years older than me. Several were older and also from out of state. I met a few of them. Not one was at the level of fitness that i was. They all looked considerably older than me and some admitted that they were.
This is a cougar wannabe site. Although 60 I have managed to meet a couple of wonderful ladies by chance that I enjoy and feel good to be with. Not so from OK Cupid. It has been a disaster for me. I have zero faith in OK cupid and will be taking myself off of this site.
Pros
The questions they ask are interesting. The site set up and organization itself is reasonable.
Cons
Plenty! It is a cougar site. Only women older than me have tried to message me. Ladies I have contacted with pleasant, cordial messages have ignored me for the most part. I am realistic but this site has just been a failure for me.
It is not unrealistic for a 60 year old, fit gentleman to want to meet a lady 56-60. However, on ok Cupid, despite my honest efforts, it has not worked at all for me.
I will meet nice, intelligent women in my age group but I do not believe it will be on OK Cupid.