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Review about Seeking Arrangement

I been on this site for less than a few months and I can already say, this isn't for me.
Ran into a few men on the site. As everyone can already tell its a good amount of real decent men and ALOT of cheap scumbags.
I been on a few dates but didn't really have a connection with them and if I did, they were looking for something else such as a quickie in a car or hotel room sessions. But I can honestly say one of the worst experiences I had was with a guy I met who lived in the DC area. Who seemed legit and nice at first so we exchanged a few emails and talked on the phone. Long story short after talking for a month or so we decided to finally meet up and he wanted me to stay at his place for one weekend. After I do he takes me out shows me a good time and later that night we sleep together. On the last day of me staying at his place he wanted to fool around. Me always being safe I asked did he have protection. Later to find out he doesn't. I tell him since I barely know him we can't go unprotected. With me saying that he seemed to be in a bad mood and started moping around the house. Before he was going to take me home he was going to take me shopping like he promised (I never asked him for this he insisted) but because he was in a bad mood he said he wanted to take me home. I felt a certain way but respected his wishes. He later went to the bank to give me the money that we agreed on and took me home. Later that week I get a text from him BEGGING me can we not use protection. Now even with people my own age or someone I'm being serious with I'm ALWAYS safe. No excuses. (And quick side note the money that he gave me once I counted it was short of what we agreed upon) so I mentioned to him, " listen if we don't use protection we have to get std test and such to both be safe" before I could finish he was VERY ecstatic and excited to seeing me even so far as to picking me up after work and getting birth control. I mention to him before he got to carried away that I wanted the amount that we both promised and upfront. With that...a whole different person emerged. He was claiming I was being greedy and selfish and that we shouldn't have to take a std test. Along with saying that he doesn't want to pay me that amount anymore. I respectfully say "ok" and that if this is so we "need to wear protection still until we get more comfortable with each other"........lets just say this. Once I mentioned the condom again...he didn't like it. He later went on to say he wasn't desperate and that I'm selfish and greedy and that he's not interested anymore. All I could do was sit in shock....did I say something wrong?? (I'm being sarcastic -__-) so because I wanted to be safe and this would only be our second time sleeping together, I'm selfish?. I responded with a "dont have time for this and goodbye"It was very backwards to me and I never texted him again.

I apologize for the long review but I just wanted to tell my story. Not all men are as rude like this but there are a good handful. I've finally decided this site isn't for me and that I'd rather work long hours than constantly dealing with bullshit. Not trying to down the site or people but again...isn't for everyone.
Best advice I can give: stand your ground and know your worth. A lot of these men will only treat you a certain way only if you LET them.

Pros
Few good guys hard to come by though

Cons
Con artist
Fakes

Never Again

Review about Seeking Arrangement

After reading a few reviews I completely argue with Alexandra. Even though I'm young in all my years have I never felt so violated and disrespected. Obviously these men want one thing and one thing only....SEX.

It seems whenever you mention an arrangment, they make excuses on why they cant pay or they need to go on a few "dates" = "hotel rooms" to get to know you "better" before any arrangment starts.
There is a difference between an "SB" and an "escort" and they have the wrong website if they believe in such.

Also it seems like ANYONE can fake being a millionaire on this site.
I ran into several fake men just wanting sex and not wanting an relationship at all.
Anyone can fake an income on the site, anyone can talk a good game talking about how much they are willing to spoil you. And anyone can rent a nice car for a month less than $1000. It's THAT easy. Sad but true.
But I don't recommend this site to anyone. Just insecure "so called" rich men who want to take advantage of young females in peril. I truly feel like I wasted so much time on this site. So not worth it.

Hope this helped.

Pros
Exciting at first but that it

Cons
WASTE OF TIME

Waste of time

Review about Seeking Arrangement

Endless emails and assholes. I'd do a better job out looking for a sugar daddy at the mall then on this site.
1. They favorite you BUT when you email them to say hi they never email back let alone acknowledge you. Does that make sense???

2. The profiles with no pictures always ask for several pictures of you BUT when you ask for at least one in return you either get a defensive remark OR never hear from them again.

3. SOOOOOOOO many fake millionaires it's just SAD. One mans profile was $500000 BUT when wanting to meet me was willing to pay $80 then sex!

4. Endless...AND I MEAN ENDLESS emails of replying to men BUT never hearing from them back.

5. Horny men wanting to collect your pictures. Along with them just wanting sex and NO discussion of arrangement.
One man was kissing my ass saying how pretty I was and he wanted me to come down to NYC for the weekend, when trying to get to know him, his attitude changed and his replys to my emails were short and rude. All he wanted to talk about was sex. When trying to get off the topic I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN.

6. These men try to whisper sweet nothing's into your ear saying they'll give you money, shopping, car ect. So far I'll believe it when I see it. And I don't see a PENNY.

7. Some men just try to get off by JUST taking you out to eat. Ok nice and all but DINNER will not help me pay for my phone bill. No discussion of an allowance...NOTHING. Oh! But when it comes to SEX the men are very quick to comment.

My list goes on but seeing this site on tv and glamorizing it, it's BS. Obviously the women representing this site were payed good money to advertise. And a lot of the women that were on tv talking about they never had sex with the men...IS BULLLLLSHIT. No way in hell a man is gonna pay for a beautiful apartment a new car, traveling, shopping and you guys aren't having sex.

Point is this site is NO sugar daddy site. It's a common escort site and the man who invented the site is a first class PIMP.
I rest my case. This is a waste of time and energy.
Again...better finding a SD at a rich charity event or such.

Pros
Are you serious???

Cons
Waste of time
Sore fingers from writing ENDLESS emails
Agitation
Short tolerance for BS
fake profiles
Flakes and fakes
Cheap con artist
Ect ect ect

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Review about Seeking Arrangement

Well for starters please don't take this as me bashing men, this is from my personal experience on this site.
I came across this site when I saw it on the show 20/20. I couldn't believe that this type of thing even exsisted. Let alone out in public. So I thought why not? I just lost my job, it was the beginning of summer (students just took all of work) I recently bought a new phone and I been trying to go back to school along with saving for a car...and you only live once.
So I signed up, uploaded a picture, and wrote a profile. Simple enough.
I won't lie, I was pretty excited about the whole experience. From what you see on tv beautiful young women being spoiled rotten to the core by rich attractive men. *rolls eyes* wel..let's just say this, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
On one of my dates, an Indian man was worth $10 million from owning gas company's. He seemed nice at FIRST. We went to a casino near my area that was just new. We didn't do much except walk around since I never gambled before. We talked laughed and he asked me what I was looking for in this arrangement and what allowance I want. I was taken aback because I was still new to this site...and because of that, he found an advantage. After telling him my financial problems he asked if we can be somewhere more quiet( here I'm thinking he wants to sit somewhere) ummmmm no. Not at all.
So after agreeing, we drive to a hotel area. With a look of confusion I ask him what's going on and I thought he was going to take me home. He takes out a camera, condoms, and handcuffs! All I could do was look at him. I explained to him I'm not that type of girl. He became angry and said he already paid for the room and he believed that with this relationship...and I quote, "it's a give or take relationship, and I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE". Well that went out the door and I ordered him to take me home. For my trouble he gave me $400. Later that week he texted me asking can he spend time with me. I refused and never heard from him again.
Even after that sucky experience, I didn't want to put all men in one pool. So I decided to go on another date.
Another bad experience was with a man who was CEO of ICloud. He was from Nigeria and was well off.
So we went on a late dinner date, talked a little. When I asked him has he ran into any false pretense of women lying about what they look like he agreed. Me being funny I asked did I disappoint him?
And I quote he said, "no...not really." -___-
Now, I'm not saying I'm the baddest bitch on the planet, but I can say I'm a very very attractive black/Filipino girl. And I NEVER edeited my pictures. And from what men told me, I actually look BETTER in person than online. Meanwhile this man looked like donkey from shrek -___-.
So to my surprise I was taken back not knowing what to say. Trying to change the subject I said I wanted to go back to school to be a mortician. When he heard this, he was trully turned off saying things such as, "something was wrong with me" and " I must of had a bad childhood" orrrrrr maybe Im just interested. Anyway I mention to him I couldn't afford school and student loans and such would be suicide. He was constantly cutting me off saying I was,"lazy" and that when he came to America he didn't have a problem with looking for work. By this point I was ready to go home. When we were done eating I asked did he have a good time? He shrugged and said kinda.
This man was a rude asshole, but to top it off, he was trying to grab my ass after JUST insulting me! Long story short I never contacted him again.

ANOTHER, bad experience is when an asian man asked me out to dinner.
At this point I felt like I had nothing to lose. In between looking for work and trying to make ends meet, I thought why not?
I forgot what this man did for a living but his profile said he was worth $3 million. We finally head out to dinner and all seemed fine. He barley spoke English and he was the size of snookie from jersey shore. Couldn't help but feel bad......BUT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!!!
So after talking for a bit we talk about payment and what were looking for in an arrangement. I mention to him what I want allowance wise and respect wise. AND THAT I NEVER SLEEP WITH PEOPLE THE FIRST NIGHT I MEET THEM. PERIOD. he seemed ok with it and offered to take me home. We jump in the car...and without warning, he jumps me trying to take off my dress!!! Thankfully I was a bit stronger than him and was able to push him off. He looked surprised that I pushed him off and was asking why I didn't wanna have sex! Are you serious man?! Did you not just hear what I said?! I swear with no exaggerations after I said no several times, he insisted he came home with me and sneak in my room! At this point I was done and was willing to take a cab home. He felt bad (or so I thought) and said hell drive me home. On the way home he said he was willing to give me $500 that night and tomorrow before all the drama started in the car. When he drops me off he said he had money. When he hands it over...he gave me $40.

That was the last time I been out on a date for the past 2 months. Again I had some good dates but there was no chemistry ORRRRR the men were just horny cheap assholes who wanted sex that night.

Sorry for the long review but I wanted girls to know to PLEASE be careful. A lot of the men are fake or just crude and nasty. About 85% of them are. The rest you'll find should be decent but I'd rather be broke not going shopping or enjoying a new car than feeling like a common prostitute.

I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only young female that has had terrible experiences. Trust me I have several more stories, but I'm surprised that you even came to the end of this. Lol. But really to get to the bottom of this:

This site is bullshit. The men on here are either fake, greedy, nasty, or just down right mean because they think they have money.
And what I mean by fake is: fake pictures, profiles, names ect.
I even had a man ask to give me $100 and a hotel room for 6 hours of sex! Cringe alert!!! He even said if we go out to eat, it can't be to expensive because...and I quote! "I been outta work for the past 2 years so if we eat it's either at McDonald's or taco bell"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.....I'm done. But this site is a waste of time. Endless emails and empty promises.
If you continue on the site always do background checks and ask for proof. If they get defensive to even showing a picture...there fake.

Thank you for reading my LONG REVIEW. Be safe ladies.

Pros
I don't really have any except atleast I'm not paying to be on the site. *shrug*

Cons
-empty promises
-horny old men
-fake millionaires
-waste of time
PERIOD