Been a member for years on alt.com and twice as a paid up member. Nothing has changed at all. So many wanabees. Also restricted messaging when even a silver member. Information on all this is not very clear at all.
There are totally free alternative sites which okay have their freaks and wannabees but they are FREE and without the restrictions on alt.com. Waste of time here when you are paid up but members cannot contact you. Forget it!
Pros
colourful
Cons
Expensive, not cost effective
I have used Flirtnaughty and recently signed up with one of it's many other sites.
Most annoying is that I have paid for a subscription and nearly every single email is pre formatted. Not for a minute do I believe this is coincidence.
Take this for an example I have had a few emails from supposedly sexy women. I receive the email and within a minute or two I reply. I then get automated messages telling me that this person does not want to contact anybody at the moment.
Lies Lies SCAM!
Finally my everyday email is now inundated with sex spam.
Pros
none
Cons
paid for services to get a computer chucking out pre formatted messages