I have been on there for about a month. I have not upgraded as of yet because I dp not totally trust the site. Why? Well, 98% of the women on there do not pay for an upgrade so they can read and receive IMs. There is something wrong with that I thing, or at the very least suspect. I am always leary of any dating sites. I have met and almost married a woman from one. You have to be careful no matter if it is a site from overseas or not. I make sure I set up a seperate id account for dating sites from my regular e-mail accounts for security purposes. As tje guy said before; if she is too good to be true, she probably is just that. Do not let your ego get you in trouble. Remember there are men over there trying to get at them as well.
Pros
Good way to spend some down time. Some of the pictures on there are pretty hot! Most that contact me are my age.
Cons
Most of the scammers are amatuers. You can tell most of them because they do not spell very well and the profile says 'bachelor degree'. Personal pics do not match profile pics. 99% of the female profiles are standard and cannot correspond unless YOU upgrade, but they claim that they are 'interested' in you, funny.