Be realistic, every one
Review about Seeking ArrangementFirst of all, I would say I'm sorry to all because my English sucks, I don't live in a English speaking country.
I'm 22, female, single, have a bachelor degree and a stable job. I come from a good family. I consider myself as pretty, hot (long legged, C-cup, super long long hair and I know how to dress). Everyday I have many guys try to pick me up, and a lot of them are older men. The reason I joined SA is simply that I'm extremely curious. I also have a freelance job as a writer for a cosmo magazine, so I decided to create a profile on SA to "investigate" a bit and have materials for my writing, and most of the info is real, except my eye colors and my height, in case someone recognize me in real life. I posted some pics of myself with not very clear face, just show my body (full clothes, of course). The 1st day, tons of mess came into my mailbox. Most of them claimed to be millionaires, some are married, some are divorced, and most of them are aboard. Some guys are dreamers who thought this site is a 18+ forum, they asked me to exchange nude pics. Lol, it was ridiculous. Some guys are business men, CEO in financial institutions. They are coming to my countries for business, then they inbox me to have some "dates" and always asked "what do you expect/ what is your financial expectation?". Well, I didn't come here for a real SD-SB relationship, so why not pretend? I told them I'm need 200$ for a date and after meeting up, I will decide if we could intimate. Few guys refused immediately, and a few accepted as they described me as gorgous. Then I decided to meet only one guy who seemed very nice and older than my dad (OMG, dad, I'm sorry, I know it's super weird to meet a stranger from the internet). He is a business man from LA. After having dinner together in a 5 star hotel, he gave me an envelop. I took it with a smile and said thank you. Then we left to go out for a walk because it was only 8pm. He hold my hand in public and we acted like a real couple. PPL stared at us, it was awkward. Then he said "You r really pretty and I like you alot. Do you want to spend the night with me?". Sorry all the SB who are reading, but at that moment, I felt I was very cheap. I don't judge you for what you did. But from my own feelings, I felt hurt, I felt it was simply a transaction. So I told him I never had sex on 1st date but I really enjoyed the meal, I also liked him and "if you feel it's such a waste of time, i will give you the envelop back". But he said I did not need to do that, we could meet tomorrow, then I went home. Yes, it was 500 USD for real. But he was like a rare diamond. You know, he's probably one of the few guys in SA who is that generous and nice. However, i didn't meet him again because I had to spend time with other guys for more material for my writing.
Second time, I met a local guy who is only 35. It was kind of risky, he did not send any photo, he claimed to be mega rich, he didn't say anything about himself except his name. Anyways, i felt he was an educated guy based on our conversation and then, we met in a luxury restaurant. He ordered a private room and when I came, the staff took me to the room. And when I came in, I was like what the fuck. He was on many magazines I had read. Yes and sure I knew him, he absolutely super rich and he was married, everyone know that. He is a decent looking guy, not handsome but he know how to dress. I pretend to not know him and we introduced ourselves. He was an arrogant guy and although he did not speak out, I knew he regarded me as a product. I was not mad, who could blame him, right? I just wanted him to express all of his rude, his real feelings for my material. There was no flirting, no emotion at all. We talked about our jobs, and as an educated woman, I was able to hold the conversation even when he talked about his business. He was kind of impressed and gradually showed more respect. I asked him about his experience on SA. And he told me, he had mistresses aboard who$ he met on SA, and some other girls flew from other countries to see him. Lol that was crazy, u know, some ppl were rich, they just did whatever they wanted while his wife never knew. I left the dinner after 2 hours talking. I told him I had something to do at home. He said he wanted to see me again, maybe this weekend. He never mentioned the finance because after talking to me and looking at me, he knew I was not depressed for money, i can make it by myself. He said "I know you want some adventure and I am absolutely good at it". The thing he never knew is that I had recorded the whole conversation and next month, we will have a shocking article about cheating from the internet and dating sites. Of course ppl will never know it was him. I just recorded the whole things in case they said i made up the story.
So hey girls, sugar daddies do exist. It is just your task to seek for the real sugar, not the salt. If you are truly beautiful, elegant, smart and upfront about your expectation, it would be possible. But the thing is short term, long term or just casual sex, you have to find the right guys who want to sponsor and mentor you, or just fooling around with sex.
Pros
Easy sign up, user friendly, many millionaires for real, free for female
Cons
Scammers every where and some only looking for one night stand