Well i don't mind to pay the money, nothing is free those days, I had an account on militarycupid, but i was very disappointed...i was talking with 5 guys and all of them were asking to send money or package. They promised a lot!! That's a scam, but i am afraid there is some girls who will send the money...I can't get over some stories,,wow
To many fake profiles. Emails don't seem to go through, flirts go unanswered, not sure if the person you sent it to get's it. Big time delay in who is on line and if they get the message. No Instant messaging, for $50.00 for three months, save you money and time and go some place else. I have never written a review, but for this site I hope I save someone.
Pros None
Cons Like I said, there are to many fake profiles, they entice you to spend more money for nothing in return. You buy the rights to send texts 100 for $19.95 so you can text the person that has there number listed, and that never seem to work. It is by far the worst site I have ever had the misfortune to join, I suggest you try another site. Adult Friend Finder in a real good one, at least you get your money's worth, and it is up and running all day and night.
I've seen some blatant ripoff dating and extramarital affair sites but sweetdiscreet takes the cake. My strong sense is that virtually all of the profiles are fake. Many of the profile pics can be found posted on MILF sites elsewhere, and sweetdiscreet uses the most obvious and familiar tactics of barraging prospective buyers with come-ons from alleged women members (who of course never, EVER write again if you reply). Luckily, I only invested $1.95 in a two day trial but that was enough to show me this site's true stripes. Now that I am just a basic member my inbox is filled every day with new bogus messages, likes, and invitations to view private photo galleries, which of course can't be accepted without upgrading my membership. The site is especially sneaky for it's use of a lot of ordinary looking women in it's fake profiles, instead of the blatantly obvious bimbo photos these sorts of scam sites used to post. At any rate, avoid this site at all cost.
I was briefly on charming date.com, believing that maybe, just maybe it would be possible to meet The ONE, or begin a relationship to a future.
How wrong, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME filling in age preferences or profiles, as they do not read them, instead you get bombarded with smutty, pre-scripted chat up lines like a sort of Ground Hog day Scenario, Tempting as it may seem, keep your head on your shoulders, any site that charges you not only send & reply or read an E-mail or EMF as they call it, which I have nicknamed Electronic Money Fraud, because that is all that site is about, Getting UR MONEY so tell as many people as possible & help STOP the SCAMMERS.
Pros The only Pros about that site are the ones working on there as Prostitutes.
How can they be in your town, when you are 10,000 miles away to catch up for a Coffee ?
I have found there are quite a few Adventist dating sites out there, but Adventist Singles Connection seems to have the greatest concentration of current Adventist members. It is also user friendly. A good site over all, and the best Adventist singles site I have found.
was on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.
I have been on and off AFF with the same profile for almost 9 years and lived in several different places during that time.
I have found that as a guy if you are in your in your early 20s most people just wont bother with you at all.
Location 1 was a small town, on an island. It was so bad that I knew some of the people with face pics. Very few people on. Never met anyone but got some practice chatting and emailing.
Also being a new profile attracts all the spammers and scammers. If you have been on for a few years they will just leave you alone.
A paid membership will do no good here.
Location 2 was a medium size population center, costal area with multiple collages. It was the Hampton, newportnews Norfolk area in Virginia. In my early to mid 20s not much went on. Then about the time I hit 25-26 lets just say I got busy and I didn't even have a paid membership. I would get a silver membership (which I don't think is offered any more) for a few months, email lots of people and establish some contacts. Let my membership expire and keep the contacts till they went their own way.
Over 5 years, on and off with AFF I met a lot of women. I would say around 15 to 20, about half of those were one time hookup other half were reoccurring to some degree.
Had I been willing to drive to Virginia beach more often or had I lived there I would have f-ed my brains out and died every weekend during vacation season. The only way to describe VAbeach is when its busy its an orgy.
I miss the Virginia's 7 cities area.
Location 3 was a small texas city, only being there for a couple months turned out to be pretty good. Better than I expected.
Places like this you will need a paid member ship.
Location 4 was a medium size island, different island than location 1.
Problem there was I didn't have internet for a while. Men just out numbered women by a lot. Still managed to meet 3 people over 5 months, one was just a meeting, second was a hookup and third one was reoccurring fwb.
Swinging couples were really big there, if you went some where like that as a couple you would see a ton of action. Its was the only costal tropical area that didn't have a lot of action, I think because the M to F imbalance.
Paid membership helps a lot.
Location 5 is god forsaken dusty sheit hole, deep red state ultra conservative town. I knew the sex scene looked very bleak before I moved here.
But to my surprise I had a little luck when I first moved here. Had 2 meetings right away one went great and got an awesome fwb.
Then after that there was nothing, had 1 meeting and it produced a more off than on fwb and that's it over the last year or so.
The only person I can get with on a regular basis is a hot MILF that to have to drive 100 miles each way for.
A paid membership and small reliable car that gets lots of MPGs and being prepared to drive ways is your best bet.
Location 6 is my temporary work location. A small to medium size city in Newmexico. Started looking about a month before I started working there and found 1 fwb that is always glad to have me. Have not bothered to look any more after I found her.
Can not recall if I had a paid membership or not.
To recap:
Population centers are good.
Population + collage better.
Costal population centers with collages, absolutely insane.
If you live in a small town with lots of churches, expect to drive 100 miles to get some.
Spring and summer are much more active than winter and fall. That goes for everywhere, Spring fever does exist.
Pros If you can use half way decent English, look okay, have an above average size cock and treat women with respect you will do well.
And above all just don't lie to them. Everyone else does, don't be every one else. If you are married and can only get away once or twice a week be honest. If you lie, they will likely figure it out and guaranteed they will not want anything to do with you.
Cons You will die, from exhaustion from running around and F-ing too much if you live in Virginia beach.
If you live in a small town with a church on almost every street corner you are totally screwed and will only gets lots of offers from guys.
marital affair is a site that is only after your money.most profiles are made up and if you reply to a message you will be told that the person whom you are replying to has filter settings which have blocked you from sending a message to this fake profile...even winks are not acknowledged..
all in all my opion would be stay clear of this site.
Like others I see here reviewing, I agree with almost all the same issues.
Customer assistance is NON EXISTANT regardless of their claim, no phone numbers and only e mail contact which they block if you do complain.
Thankfully I only signed up for one month however the first sign of a problem should have been their denying my VALID credit card (after repeated attempts and no assistance from from the afore mentioned Customer Assistance). I am also concerned now that they have my credit card number.
This required me to get a postal money order to send them (BIG MISTAKE, BE FORWARNED).
THEY CASHED MY MONEY ORDER!
Then my photos (that met with their criteria)were still not posted after over a week of waiting (in spite of their stated maximum wait time of 72 hours).
I had the nerve to complain about it (to the non existant customer service you can only reach by e mail/no phone numbers) they then sent me an e mail simply telling me that they cancelled my profile and when I try to e mail a response back I got the mailer daemon response that their address did not exist!
Of course they had already cashed my check.
Don't waste your money, they stole mine.
After reading ALL the reviews posted I believe only two were positive out of about 50 or more (kicking myself, wish I checked this site first) and I have to wonder who sent the positive ones.
I also wanted to follow up on another common complaint from most of the reviews (I believe mostly from women) and I really can't believe I'm almost defending these SCUMBAG THIEVES.
I AM in my mid 50s, I am in shape, I do have all my hair and teeth, have a college education and am retired from a career in law enforcement. While I do shop at Walmart, when it's convienent, I don't look like the stereotypical "Wmart shopper".
No I am not married, I am divorced (years ago) and I lost my girlfriend to cancer over a year ago. I'm not Brad Pitt but I am certainly not Quasimoto!
The reason I joined this group was to find available women in my age range (not younger) not an easy thing to do, so it seemed like a good idea.
I could just as easily pick apart the women on the site, calling themselves average body types when they were obese (hey. I prefer a FEW extra pounds, but seriously...), missing teeth, interested in camping/fishing, etc.
It's a dating site, it's to be expected and not everyone lives in a metro area.
Out of the hundreds of profiles I looked at I was only interested in 5 or 10. Of course I never got to contact any of them...
Lastly, let's not get tunnel vision.
OURTIME.COM is just a subsidiary of PEOPLE MEDIA.
They have MANY other sites such as ITALIANPEOPLEMEET.COM and they are all connected.
THEY ARE THIEVES, THEY STOLE MY MONEY AND THEY ARE A SCAM
Make sure you check who owns the site before you commit any money!
Perhaps the Attorney Generals Office could investigate PEOPLEMEDIA (in Nevada), that's where I would start if my credit card was being repeatedly billed against my wishes?
I can't say for sure who owns it, but, when I used Match over a decade ago, I did not have any of these issues, also POF and Craig list are free (just use common sense and caution).
Pros IT WILL TEACH YOU A VALUABLE LESSON, DON'T GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THIEVES
When you are subscribed, you are automatically set for automatic renewal and you will be charged again (double the amount of your 1st subscription lol). When you realize that you got charged on your credit card for that, it's too late, there's nothing you can do. Sent 2 emails to Customer care, only got generic answers so I had to call. Even spoke with a supervisor, I wanted a partial refund (at least) but I got the same shitty answer "we have a no-refund policy"
wow, thieves.
BAD BUSINESS, AWFUL, particularly since it is supposed to be "latter-day-Saints"... I Wonder if Jesus Christ would approve that way of doing business... lol
I really disliked this site. Most of the guys on here were looky loos! They've never dated outside of their race and were just horny and curious. A TRUE waste of my time and especially, my money!
Pros A large group to chooe from
Cons Most sites have Dating, marriage, or imtimate encounters. I don't agree with intimate encounters but I would not stand in the way of someone wanting this. I just don;t want them confusing ME with one of these people
Bunch of Bullshit. There is not a serious Filipina on this website. Once they ask for your email, skype name, facebook name, or other personal information from you; you are fucked.
Pros Hot ass looking Filipinas on the website. Look for Filipinas in your own country. Go to a bar, school, library, or other place in your country. Hi how are you? I saw you sitting, standing, dancing, reading, jogging, or other; and I want to get to know you because you seem like an interesting person I would enjoy talking or other bullshit that does not require sex.
Cons Bunch of Crap. Do not try it... you are going to get scam. Do not let me tell you I told you so.
hhhhhmmmmm. I've only been on a few days but am definitely getting a lot of hits. The ladies are by in large reasonably good looking but luckily some don't look like fashion models so it gives a sense of honesty and sincerity. These women appear real and very interested. The on line prompt feature is nice---while you are viewing their profile you wre informed if they are on line. Some of the reviews were very helpful. I estimated $10---$12,000 for the whole process from meeting to marriage so that seems good. The problem is how credible and reliable is the info and how serious are the ladies? I wonder if there is some kind of local service in the Philippines that will independently vette the ladies and set up an "arranged meeting"? Does this site do that? That would be a big help.
Pros Rea,l reasonably good looking women who seem genuinely interested. The pictures and info definitely get you motivated to look.
Cons Apparent lack of the ability to get any reliable 3rd party verification of the info in the profiles. But any search for love is going to have its risks...this does have promise. I will have to see where I'm at in a month. The other reviews were helpful.
I guess I shouldn't be surprised by all the negative reviews and scam claims. Every time something doesn't work for someone it's a scam. That's not Japan Cupid's fault though. If you are not at least a "gold member" Japanese women will not consider you to be "serious" and you will surely get no results.
This website is intended for white men to meet Japanese women in Japan. Duh! If you don't live in Japan and are not white or Japanese your chances are nearly zero. If I sound racist, well I don't know what to tell you. This is the reality of Japan, when it comes to racism they are worse than we are.
There are always scammers and if you can't spot them you're probably not the brightest bulb in the world. Young pretty Japanese girl is interested in you and sends you an email first? Scam! Some other pretty young girl from another Asian country emails you? Scam or citizenship hunter.
Japan Cupid is a legitimate site and I think a very good one for what it is intended. The women lie about their age as a general rule and all want you to give them free English lessons. Who cares. Communication is going to be your biggest obstacle unless you speak fluent Japanese at a native level or vice versa. Keeps most all relationships at a very superficial level unfortunately.
I feel all the obstacles and hassles are worth it.
Pros Lots of Japanese women.
Cons Scammers, but easy to spot.
Too many citizenship hunters from other Asian countries I have no interest in.
i have read as many reviews about charmingdate as i could find. i could not find one - other than those written by charmingdate - that supports this so-called 'site.' this 'site' is full of fraudulent, misleading, scamming bunch of liars starting with the 'site' personnel. i can't say enough negative about this so-called dating 'site.' my specific complaints are no different from the myriad of complaints that i have already read and hopefully that YOU will read before it is too late. STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM CHARMINGDATE AS YOU CAN........how this 'company' is still in business is beyond me........
I signed up for free on this site a few weeks ago and almost immediately I received over 30 emails from different men. I waited about a week and they paid for one month. As soon as I paid I emailed each man back and I only received 3 responses back. This makes me think that almost all of those emails were fake accounts created by this site to entice me to join. This may not be the case, but it seems odd that out of 34 men that emailed me only 3 responded.
I read Carlton's scathing review of Japan Cupid, so I thought I'd put my two cents' worth in. I found my wife on Japan Cupid, and also found a good friend, which was a bonus! Also, the responses I received were overwhelming- I actually didn't have time to reply to all of the young ladies who contacted me! I am forever in Japan Cupid's debt!
Pros Lots of funny, cute and personable young ladies, mostly marriage-minded. Unlimited contact, so long as one of the two is a paying member.
Cons There might be a few scammers working the site, but Japan Cupid is quick to step in and remedy any reports of possible scammers.
This is the dating spot if you are hard up to get laid. The women are not supermodels but truthfully they are do-able. The women have been pretty easy to hook-up with. My family doesn't know I've become this desperate to go on this online site to get my perv up, so I wouldn't recommend this to family but I would recommend it to other predators out there. Get your thrills.
Pros free trial and free messaging potential connections
I'm a handsome 45 y.o{younger looking than george Clooney}. male,very successful,everything a women would{at least a normal women}want.
Yet only get viewed 2 times a week first six weeks,only one coffee date.Needless to say mostly by women my age or older.
I don't know if it westcoast mentality or what, but the ladys here do not respond in any manner.
Even the ugly ones, I tried one ,very plain ,poorly dressed,yet after my third email suggesting we meet she froze!!go figure!
I wasted $60. and caution any MAN about this site.
Also MR. Markas{owner}prohibits contact with and females 14 years younger than you.
When I put my photo on a Asian dating site I get 2-5 emails a day by girls in their 20-30's!!
Wonder why these westcoasts all fatso's,perhaps to much gym,yoga and grouse grind!!!go figure.
Get me out of here.eeeks!!
15september2013
Pros none
Cons too many to mention!!
poor site all around.
Doesn't provide body weight.
I like all types of people. But tit seems that everyone who messages me on here is just out of prison,affiliated, or is looking for a cougar or sugar momma. Its fun to chat, haven't met anyone of relationship quality yet.
Pros If you are a decent looking woman it feeds your ego.
I have always loved Japan more than any Asian country and have always wanted to date a girl from there. I join Japancupid.com, create my profile, describing myself and everything I love about Japan. I upload photos and send TONS of messages. If I'm lucky, maybe......2 out of every 20 girls I message say anything back. Only half of them even read my messages or view my profile! I have two theories here:
1. Japanese women are racist as F#@$ and will not talk to foreigners on any circumstances or just don't like me no matter how nice I am to them.
2. Japancupid.com is a generic, corporate, money-grabbing site part of an entire scamming network with fake profiles and/or hired prostitutes who go after select men.
*Based on many other reviewers, my second theory sounds more accurate. I have heard too many good things about Japan to believe my first. Therefore I will moving to another Japanese dating site.
I signed up for all of one day because I found that this program is a little too simple in that there are no useful options for setting the location of a search (or if there are, they're too hard to find, which is basically the same thing), and your location setting is extracted from your phone or pc hardware and can't be edited (or if it can, no one seems to know how). What this means is that when you sign on, your profile location is set (and displayed) as your current location, which is basically like having a tracking device on you that tells everyone exactly where you are. That's too much of a violation of my privacy for my taste. It also makes it impossible to look for people to chat with who live near you (as opposed to where you currently are) when you're traveling away from your local area. Skout can still be a good way to meet people but you have to consider its limitations and be careful about what information it broadcasts.
Also, I couldn't find any kind of reasonable help on either the phone app or website versions of Skout, so if you have any questions you have to rely on an internet search, which isn't much help at all.
Cons Not well documented/no instructions on how to use it.
No way to edit or set a permanent or default location.
Location displayed in your profile tracks your actual location and tells everyone where you are.
Search for other profiles is set by your current location, and can't be set to a different one (or to your home area if you're out of town).
I received about ten notices of very attractive women interested in sex who "viewed my profile" This was followed by at least 6 that wanted to allegedly meet me. When I responded in the affirmative, not one...not even one acknowledged my reply - even with a "never mind, or "buzz off".
Lean a lesson. any nice looking woman can have men lined up without using this BS. Look in the mirror and talk to a fool...
Fake profiles
Review about Military CupidWell i don't mind to pay the money, nothing is free those days, I had an account on militarycupid, but i was very disappointed...i was talking with 5 guys and all of them were asking to send money or package. They promised a lot!! That's a scam, but i am afraid there is some girls who will send the money...I can't get over some stories,,wow
Pros
FAKE PROFILES...
Cons
I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS SITE,,
Shit
Review about BBW DesireNot real girls on this site. A google search of most pics leads to cam girls or porstars. STAY AWAY!
Cons
Waste of money
Forget it
Review about AffairAlertTo many fake profiles. Emails don't seem to go through, flirts go unanswered, not sure if the person you sent it to get's it. Big time delay in who is on line and if they get the message. No Instant messaging, for $50.00 for three months, save you money and time and go some place else. I have never written a review, but for this site I hope I save someone.
Pros
None
Cons
Like I said, there are to many fake profiles, they entice you to spend more money for nothing in return. You buy the rights to send texts 100 for $19.95 so you can text the person that has there number listed, and that never seem to work. It is by far the worst site I have ever had the misfortune to join, I suggest you try another site. Adult Friend Finder in a real good one, at least you get your money's worth, and it is up and running all day and night.
Avoid sweetdiscreet
Review about SweetDiscreet.comI've seen some blatant ripoff dating and extramarital affair sites but sweetdiscreet takes the cake. My strong sense is that virtually all of the profiles are fake. Many of the profile pics can be found posted on MILF sites elsewhere, and sweetdiscreet uses the most obvious and familiar tactics of barraging prospective buyers with come-ons from alleged women members (who of course never, EVER write again if you reply). Luckily, I only invested $1.95 in a two day trial but that was enough to show me this site's true stripes. Now that I am just a basic member my inbox is filled every day with new bogus messages, likes, and invitations to view private photo galleries, which of course can't be accepted without upgrading my membership. The site is especially sneaky for it's use of a lot of ordinary looking women in it's fake profiles, instead of the blatantly obvious bimbo photos these sorts of scam sites used to post. At any rate, avoid this site at all cost.
Pros
None
Cons
Completely fraudulent
Stay Away from this site
Review about CharmingDate.comI was briefly on charming date.com, believing that maybe, just maybe it would be possible to meet The ONE, or begin a relationship to a future.
How wrong, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME filling in age preferences or profiles, as they do not read them, instead you get bombarded with smutty, pre-scripted chat up lines like a sort of Ground Hog day Scenario, Tempting as it may seem, keep your head on your shoulders, any site that charges you not only send & reply or read an E-mail or EMF as they call it, which I have nicknamed Electronic Money Fraud, because that is all that site is about, Getting UR MONEY so tell as many people as possible & help STOP the SCAMMERS.
Pros
The only Pros about that site are the ones working on there as Prostitutes.
How can they be in your town, when you are 10,000 miles away to catch up for a Coffee ?
Cons
The CREATORS.
Good site
Review about Adventist Singles ConnectionI have found there are quite a few Adventist dating sites out there, but Adventist Singles Connection seems to have the greatest concentration of current Adventist members. It is also user friendly. A good site over all, and the best Adventist singles site I have found.
Pros
Plenty of active members
Cons
None that I can think of.
seeking arrangements sucks
Review about Seeking Arrangementwas on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.
Pros
lots of beautiful people
Cons
99.9% are fake scammers
Results vary by location
Review about Adult FriendfinderI have been on and off AFF with the same profile for almost 9 years and lived in several different places during that time.
I have found that as a guy if you are in your in your early 20s most people just wont bother with you at all.
Location 1 was a small town, on an island. It was so bad that I knew some of the people with face pics. Very few people on. Never met anyone but got some practice chatting and emailing.
Also being a new profile attracts all the spammers and scammers. If you have been on for a few years they will just leave you alone.
A paid membership will do no good here.
Location 2 was a medium size population center, costal area with multiple collages. It was the Hampton, newportnews Norfolk area in Virginia. In my early to mid 20s not much went on. Then about the time I hit 25-26 lets just say I got busy and I didn't even have a paid membership. I would get a silver membership (which I don't think is offered any more) for a few months, email lots of people and establish some contacts. Let my membership expire and keep the contacts till they went their own way.
Over 5 years, on and off with AFF I met a lot of women. I would say around 15 to 20, about half of those were one time hookup other half were reoccurring to some degree.
Had I been willing to drive to Virginia beach more often or had I lived there I would have f-ed my brains out and died every weekend during vacation season. The only way to describe VAbeach is when its busy its an orgy.
I miss the Virginia's 7 cities area.
Location 3 was a small texas city, only being there for a couple months turned out to be pretty good. Better than I expected.
Places like this you will need a paid member ship.
Location 4 was a medium size island, different island than location 1.
Problem there was I didn't have internet for a while. Men just out numbered women by a lot. Still managed to meet 3 people over 5 months, one was just a meeting, second was a hookup and third one was reoccurring fwb.
Swinging couples were really big there, if you went some where like that as a couple you would see a ton of action. Its was the only costal tropical area that didn't have a lot of action, I think because the M to F imbalance.
Paid membership helps a lot.
Location 5 is god forsaken dusty sheit hole, deep red state ultra conservative town. I knew the sex scene looked very bleak before I moved here.
But to my surprise I had a little luck when I first moved here. Had 2 meetings right away one went great and got an awesome fwb.
Then after that there was nothing, had 1 meeting and it produced a more off than on fwb and that's it over the last year or so.
The only person I can get with on a regular basis is a hot MILF that to have to drive 100 miles each way for.
A paid membership and small reliable car that gets lots of MPGs and being prepared to drive ways is your best bet.
Location 6 is my temporary work location. A small to medium size city in Newmexico. Started looking about a month before I started working there and found 1 fwb that is always glad to have me. Have not bothered to look any more after I found her.
Can not recall if I had a paid membership or not.
To recap:
Population centers are good.
Population + collage better.
Costal population centers with collages, absolutely insane.
If you live in a small town with lots of churches, expect to drive 100 miles to get some.
Spring and summer are much more active than winter and fall. That goes for everywhere, Spring fever does exist.
Pros
If you can use half way decent English, look okay, have an above average size cock and treat women with respect you will do well.
And above all just don't lie to them. Everyone else does, don't be every one else. If you are married and can only get away once or twice a week be honest. If you lie, they will likely figure it out and guaranteed they will not want anything to do with you.
Cons
You will die, from exhaustion from running around and F-ing too much if you live in Virginia beach.
If you live in a small town with a church on almost every street corner you are totally screwed and will only gets lots of offers from guys.
scam all the way
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukmarital affair is a site that is only after your money.most profiles are made up and if you reply to a message you will be told that the person whom you are replying to has filter settings which have blocked you from sending a message to this fake profile...even winks are not acknowledged..
all in all my opion would be stay clear of this site.
Pros
nothing at all
Cons
too many to count
A SCAM THEY ARE THIEVES
Review about OurTimeLike others I see here reviewing, I agree with almost all the same issues.
Customer assistance is NON EXISTANT regardless of their claim, no phone numbers and only e mail contact which they block if you do complain.
Thankfully I only signed up for one month however the first sign of a problem should have been their denying my VALID credit card (after repeated attempts and no assistance from from the afore mentioned Customer Assistance). I am also concerned now that they have my credit card number.
This required me to get a postal money order to send them (BIG MISTAKE, BE FORWARNED).
THEY CASHED MY MONEY ORDER!
Then my photos (that met with their criteria)were still not posted after over a week of waiting (in spite of their stated maximum wait time of 72 hours).
I had the nerve to complain about it (to the non existant customer service you can only reach by e mail/no phone numbers) they then sent me an e mail simply telling me that they cancelled my profile and when I try to e mail a response back I got the mailer daemon response that their address did not exist!
Of course they had already cashed my check.
Don't waste your money, they stole mine.
After reading ALL the reviews posted I believe only two were positive out of about 50 or more (kicking myself, wish I checked this site first) and I have to wonder who sent the positive ones.
I also wanted to follow up on another common complaint from most of the reviews (I believe mostly from women) and I really can't believe I'm almost defending these SCUMBAG THIEVES.
I AM in my mid 50s, I am in shape, I do have all my hair and teeth, have a college education and am retired from a career in law enforcement. While I do shop at Walmart, when it's convienent, I don't look like the stereotypical "Wmart shopper".
No I am not married, I am divorced (years ago) and I lost my girlfriend to cancer over a year ago. I'm not Brad Pitt but I am certainly not Quasimoto!
The reason I joined this group was to find available women in my age range (not younger) not an easy thing to do, so it seemed like a good idea.
I could just as easily pick apart the women on the site, calling themselves average body types when they were obese (hey. I prefer a FEW extra pounds, but seriously...), missing teeth, interested in camping/fishing, etc.
It's a dating site, it's to be expected and not everyone lives in a metro area.
Out of the hundreds of profiles I looked at I was only interested in 5 or 10. Of course I never got to contact any of them...
Lastly, let's not get tunnel vision.
OURTIME.COM is just a subsidiary of PEOPLE MEDIA.
They have MANY other sites such as ITALIANPEOPLEMEET.COM and they are all connected.
THEY ARE THIEVES, THEY STOLE MY MONEY AND THEY ARE A SCAM
Make sure you check who owns the site before you commit any money!
Perhaps the Attorney Generals Office could investigate PEOPLEMEDIA (in Nevada), that's where I would start if my credit card was being repeatedly billed against my wishes?
I can't say for sure who owns it, but, when I used Match over a decade ago, I did not have any of these issues, also POF and Craig list are free (just use common sense and caution).
Pros
IT WILL TEACH YOU A VALUABLE LESSON, DON'T GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THIEVES
Cons
YOU WILL LOSE YOUR MONEY, THEY ARE THIEVES
ANOTHER SCAM
Review about LDSPlanetANOTHER SCAM
When you are subscribed, you are automatically set for automatic renewal and you will be charged again (double the amount of your 1st subscription lol). When you realize that you got charged on your credit card for that, it's too late, there's nothing you can do. Sent 2 emails to Customer care, only got generic answers so I had to call. Even spoke with a supervisor, I wanted a partial refund (at least) but I got the same shitty answer "we have a no-refund policy"
wow, thieves.
BAD BUSINESS, AWFUL, particularly since it is supposed to be "latter-day-Saints"... I Wonder if Jesus Christ would approve that way of doing business... lol
Not worth the time or money
Review about Dating InterracialI really disliked this site. Most of the guys on here were looky loos! They've never dated outside of their race and were just horny and curious. A TRUE waste of my time and especially, my money!
Pros
A large group to chooe from
Cons
Most sites have Dating, marriage, or imtimate encounters. I don't agree with intimate encounters but I would not stand in the way of someone wanting this. I just don;t want them confusing ME with one of these people
darn the luck
Review about Online Booty Callwas hoping it was a legit site
Pros
dosen.t seem to be any
Cons
not for real!!
I wish I could of visit this website sooner.
Review about FilipinoCupidBunch of Bullshit. There is not a serious Filipina on this website. Once they ask for your email, skype name, facebook name, or other personal information from you; you are fucked.
Pros
Hot ass looking Filipinas on the website. Look for Filipinas in your own country. Go to a bar, school, library, or other place in your country. Hi how are you? I saw you sitting, standing, dancing, reading, jogging, or other; and I want to get to know you because you seem like an interesting person I would enjoy talking or other bullshit that does not require sex.
Cons
Bunch of Crap. Do not try it... you are going to get scam. Do not let me tell you I told you so.
I just started out
Review about FilipinoCupidhhhhhmmmmm. I've only been on a few days but am definitely getting a lot of hits. The ladies are by in large reasonably good looking but luckily some don't look like fashion models so it gives a sense of honesty and sincerity. These women appear real and very interested. The on line prompt feature is nice---while you are viewing their profile you wre informed if they are on line. Some of the reviews were very helpful. I estimated $10---$12,000 for the whole process from meeting to marriage so that seems good. The problem is how credible and reliable is the info and how serious are the ladies? I wonder if there is some kind of local service in the Philippines that will independently vette the ladies and set up an "arranged meeting"? Does this site do that? That would be a big help.
Pros
Rea,l reasonably good looking women who seem genuinely interested. The pictures and info definitely get you motivated to look.
Cons
Apparent lack of the ability to get any reliable 3rd party verification of the info in the profiles. But any search for love is going to have its risks...this does have promise. I will have to see where I'm at in a month. The other reviews were helpful.
Best site to meet Japanese women
Review about JapanCupid.comI guess I shouldn't be surprised by all the negative reviews and scam claims. Every time something doesn't work for someone it's a scam. That's not Japan Cupid's fault though. If you are not at least a "gold member" Japanese women will not consider you to be "serious" and you will surely get no results.
This website is intended for white men to meet Japanese women in Japan. Duh! If you don't live in Japan and are not white or Japanese your chances are nearly zero. If I sound racist, well I don't know what to tell you. This is the reality of Japan, when it comes to racism they are worse than we are.
There are always scammers and if you can't spot them you're probably not the brightest bulb in the world. Young pretty Japanese girl is interested in you and sends you an email first? Scam! Some other pretty young girl from another Asian country emails you? Scam or citizenship hunter.
Japan Cupid is a legitimate site and I think a very good one for what it is intended. The women lie about their age as a general rule and all want you to give them free English lessons. Who cares. Communication is going to be your biggest obstacle unless you speak fluent Japanese at a native level or vice versa. Keeps most all relationships at a very superficial level unfortunately.
I feel all the obstacles and hassles are worth it.
Pros
Lots of Japanese women.
Cons
Scammers, but easy to spot.
Too many citizenship hunters from other Asian countries I have no interest in.
A SCAMMERS DELIGHT
Review about CharmingDate.comi have read as many reviews about charmingdate as i could find. i could not find one - other than those written by charmingdate - that supports this so-called 'site.' this 'site' is full of fraudulent, misleading, scamming bunch of liars starting with the 'site' personnel. i can't say enough negative about this so-called dating 'site.' my specific complaints are no different from the myriad of complaints that i have already read and hopefully that YOU will read before it is too late. STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM CHARMINGDATE AS YOU CAN........how this 'company' is still in business is beyond me........
Pros
lots of pretty faces to look at........
Cons
every 'con' that YOU can think of.
Possible scam
Review about Just Christian DatingI signed up for free on this site a few weeks ago and almost immediately I received over 30 emails from different men. I waited about a week and they paid for one month. As soon as I paid I emailed each man back and I only received 3 responses back. This makes me think that almost all of those emails were fake accounts created by this site to entice me to join. This may not be the case, but it seems odd that out of 34 men that emailed me only 3 responded.
Pros
nothing
Cons
This site maybe a scam
Japan Cupid Sent Me An Angel
Review about JapanCupid.comI read Carlton's scathing review of Japan Cupid, so I thought I'd put my two cents' worth in. I found my wife on Japan Cupid, and also found a good friend, which was a bonus! Also, the responses I received were overwhelming- I actually didn't have time to reply to all of the young ladies who contacted me! I am forever in Japan Cupid's debt!
Pros
Lots of funny, cute and personable young ladies, mostly marriage-minded. Unlimited contact, so long as one of the two is a paying member.
Cons
There might be a few scammers working the site, but Japan Cupid is quick to step in and remedy any reports of possible scammers.
Fling.com is hot if you're desperate
Review about Fling.comThis is the dating spot if you are hard up to get laid. The women are not supermodels but truthfully they are do-able. The women have been pretty easy to hook-up with. My family doesn't know I've become this desperate to go on this online site to get my perv up, so I wouldn't recommend this to family but I would recommend it to other predators out there. Get your thrills.
Pros
free trial and free messaging potential connections
Cons
it's not a sure thing, but nothing is.
WORST WASTE OF TIME and MONEY
Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)I'm a handsome 45 y.o{younger looking than george Clooney}. male,very successful,everything a women would{at least a normal women}want.
Yet only get viewed 2 times a week first six weeks,only one coffee date.Needless to say mostly by women my age or older.
I don't know if it westcoast mentality or what, but the ladys here do not respond in any manner.
Even the ugly ones, I tried one ,very plain ,poorly dressed,yet after my third email suggesting we meet she froze!!go figure!
I wasted $60. and caution any MAN about this site.
Also MR. Markas{owner}prohibits contact with and females 14 years younger than you.
When I put my photo on a Asian dating site I get 2-5 emails a day by girls in their 20-30's!!
Wonder why these westcoasts all fatso's,perhaps to much gym,yoga and grouse grind!!!go figure.
Get me out of here.eeeks!!
15september2013
Pros
none
Cons
too many to mention!!
poor site all around.
Doesn't provide body weight.
Um..Gangsters
Review about SkoutI like all types of people. But tit seems that everyone who messages me on here is just out of prison,affiliated, or is looking for a cougar or sugar momma. Its fun to chat, haven't met anyone of relationship quality yet.
Pros
If you are a decent looking woman it feeds your ego.
Cons
See above.
Why will no one respond to me??
Review about JapanCupid.comI have always loved Japan more than any Asian country and have always wanted to date a girl from there. I join Japancupid.com, create my profile, describing myself and everything I love about Japan. I upload photos and send TONS of messages. If I'm lucky, maybe......2 out of every 20 girls I message say anything back. Only half of them even read my messages or view my profile! I have two theories here:
1. Japanese women are racist as F#@$ and will not talk to foreigners on any circumstances or just don't like me no matter how nice I am to them.
2. Japancupid.com is a generic, corporate, money-grabbing site part of an entire scamming network with fake profiles and/or hired prostitutes who go after select men.
*Based on many other reviewers, my second theory sounds more accurate. I have heard too many good things about Japan to believe my first. Therefore I will moving to another Japanese dating site.
Pros
None.
Cons
The site itself.
Simplistic and violates privacy
Review about SkoutI signed up for all of one day because I found that this program is a little too simple in that there are no useful options for setting the location of a search (or if there are, they're too hard to find, which is basically the same thing), and your location setting is extracted from your phone or pc hardware and can't be edited (or if it can, no one seems to know how). What this means is that when you sign on, your profile location is set (and displayed) as your current location, which is basically like having a tracking device on you that tells everyone exactly where you are. That's too much of a violation of my privacy for my taste. It also makes it impossible to look for people to chat with who live near you (as opposed to where you currently are) when you're traveling away from your local area. Skout can still be a good way to meet people but you have to consider its limitations and be careful about what information it broadcasts.
Also, I couldn't find any kind of reasonable help on either the phone app or website versions of Skout, so if you have any questions you have to rely on an internet search, which isn't much help at all.
Cons
Not well documented/no instructions on how to use it.
No way to edit or set a permanent or default location.
Location displayed in your profile tracks your actual location and tells everyone where you are.
Search for other profiles is set by your current location, and can't be set to a different one (or to your home area if you're out of town).
Xpress.com a solid ripoff and fraud
Review about XPress.comI received about ten notices of very attractive women interested in sex who "viewed my profile" This was followed by at least 6 that wanted to allegedly meet me. When I responded in the affirmative, not one...not even one acknowledged my reply - even with a "never mind, or "buzz off".
Lean a lesson. any nice looking woman can have men lined up without using this BS. Look in the mirror and talk to a fool...