Reviews about Dating Sites


    Ms

    Review about Muslima.com

    It is a shame majority of people here are just looking for fun (boyfriend/girlfriend relationship). nobody here is looking for marriage! we are muslims and we should stick to our deen and the teachings of islam. it is very disappointing. but i would say there are also some honest people here...

    Pros
    easy to join
    many members

    Cons
    no one here is looking for marriage or serious relationship

    Mr

    Review about Illicit Encounters

    I first joined Illicit Encounters about a year ago. As a natural sceptic and having had bad experiences on other dating sites I initially baulked at the high price. However after quite a few messages from ladies had built up in my Inbox temptation got the better of me and I paid to become a full member. I immediately got into a conversation with several ladies. What was refreshing was that they were unquestionably real! We had proper flirty chats and I arranged to meet one in person. It took a while though. I guess having an affair is a big step, so building up to a meeting in the flesh probably took longer than on a site like match.com. However what I liked was that the lady in question and I were in the same boat, with the same desires and expectations. When we did finally meet, it confirmed to me why I started looking for love outside of my marriage in the first place. It's filled such a gap in my life that I'm amazed I didn't do it sooner.

    If my experience is anything to go by, Illicit Encounters was the fulfillment at the end of a sometimes frustrating journey through the minefield of online dating. It worked for me so it might for you!

    Pros
    - You're looking for the same thing as the ladies on the site
    - Secure - better than using emails, mobile phones etc.
    - Genuine ladies
    - Decent choice

    Cons
    - Expensive
    - More men than women, but not as bad as elsewhere
    - Patience required in getting to meet up in person

    Mus;lims 4 marraige is a false dating site. Just scam

    Review about Muslims 4 Marriage

    I will copy & paste here an email I have just received from someone who approached on the web site, asking for my personal e-mail address because they wanted to talk further. Here we go:



    Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu.

    My Dearest Brother in Al-Islam,

    May the love and mercy of Allah(SWT) Almighty be upon you and may he grant us high places in Al-junat Amin. I pray that this message of mine finds you in the best state of health and Imaan.

    I thank you very much for accepting my call and for writing me back, and I pray that the almighty will open your heart to what I am about to say and I want you to know that this words are from my heart.

    I am Mrs Fatima Azam Ali,named person from Kuwait . I am married to Late Hassan Azam Ali of blessed memory who worked with Kuwait embassy in Sudan for nine years before he died in the year 2001.

    We were married for eleven years without a child. He died after a brief illness that lasted for only four days. Before his death we were both very devoted muslims. Since his deathI too have been battling with both cancer and fibroid problems.

    When my late husband was alive he deposited the sum of$7.5 Million (Seven Million Five hundred thousand U.S.Dollars) with in oversea
    security company, presently, this money is still with the Security Company in Europe .

    Recently, my Doctor told me that I would not last for the next three months due to cancer problem. Though what disturbs memost is mystroke sickness. Having known my condition I decided to donate this fund to either a moslem organisation or devoted muslim individual that will utilize this money the way I am going to instruct here-in.

    I want this muslim organisation or individual to use this money in all sincererity to lay a fundation to assist mosques, orphanages,widows, and also propagating the word of ALLAH and to ensure that the society upholds the views and beliefs of the holy Quran.

    The holy Quran emphasized so much on ALLAH'S benevolence and this has encouraged me to take this bold step. I took this decision because I don't have any child that will inherit this money and my husband relatives are new Christians converts and I don't want my husband's hard earned money to be misused by people I call unbelievers.

    I don't want a situation where this money will be used in an unholy manner.Hence the reason for taking this bold decision. I know that after death I will be with ALLAH the most beneficient and the most merciful. I don't need any telephone communication in this regard because of my health and also the presence of my husband's relatives around me always. I don't want them to know about this
    development.With ALLAH all things are possible.

    As soon as I receive your reply I shall give you the contact of the Security Company. I will also issue you a letter of authority that will prove you as the original- beneficiary of this fund.I want you and the Muslim community where you reside to always pray for me.

    My happiness is that I lived a life of a true devoted muslim worthy of emulation. Whoever that wants to serve the ALLAH must serve him in truth and in fairness.Please always be prayerful all through your life. Any delay your reply will give me room in sourcing for a muslim organisation or a devoted muslim for this same. Until I hear from you, my dreams will rest squarely on your shoulders.

    May the almighty ALLAH continue to guide and protect you.

    Jazakallahu Khayran.
    Ma'salam
    Fatima Azam

    Please investigate this web site. It seems it 's got quite a few cons roaming freely.

    Pros
    no pros

    Cons
    -people contact you with obvious scams in mind
    -Y ou keep receing emails about a person just looking at yr profile and you're asked to contact them because they are interested whilst they're only looking at it if anything.

    BEWARE

    Mrs

    Review about Illicit Encounters

    I got a good response from this site. It's fun and you dont have to part with any money!

    I hated the website

    Review about Qiran.com

    I think it is a fake website. I saw 2 very high quality profiles for the same girl, she is like a glamor model and the two profiles are very different but i realized she is the same girl basically. If u wanna check that out, the two profiles are: dija06, and hanouna2010. Thanks for those who create fake profiles for pretty women in order to attract boys to pay the subscription.

    Qiran.Com: Disappointing Service

    Review about Qiran.com

    I can not recommend Qiran.Com. Here's my experience ...

    I spent a great deal of time and effort composing a high quality, 100% accurate profile. Upon its approval by Qiran's staff, I received several notices of interest, a few of which piqued my curiosity and inspired me to seriously pursue a spouse.

    Unfortunately, less than two weeks after subscribing to Qiran, my profile was inexplicably and abruptly deleted. I received a brief notice informing me that I had provided a "fake/invalid" profile, which is nothing short of an egregious falsehood. Since then, I have attempted to contact Qiran's customer service on numerous occasions and received no response. They have no telephone number by which they might be reached. All inquires and complaints must be submitted via email or snail mail to a conveniently anonymous source.

    While a few may have attained a measure of success with the site, there are many reviews (elsewhere) of Qiran that complain of overbilling and poor customer service, so I know I'm not alone. Personally, I wouldn't wish my own frustration with this service upon anyone.

    I got a phone number!

    Review about SpeedDate.com

    So, these JERKS took out 200 dollars of my account, over drafting it and leaving me with no way to get ahold of them! So, I call my bank, and luckily, my bank requires a phone number and business name of all withdrawals. So I got the number, and got my money back. Here's the number guys! Hope you all get your money back! 877-328-3006

    Pros
    NONE!

    Cons
    Liars! Scammers! NOT GOOD!

    WHAT'S YOUR CONTACT NUMBER SPEED DATE?

    Review about SpeedDate.com

    THANK YOU giving this information. Speed Date gathers confidential information and should provide a good business telephone number!!!! Nowhere do they offer a CONTACT number. They say that a subscriber can cancel at any time and offer a .99c per month service(???). If the site is so honest and good 'why don't they offer a contact number? I cannot join a site unless I have all and any questions I may have and I do not have all the answers about speed date.

    BEWARE

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    I had a guy who sounded better than the rest. He said all the right things; made promises he did not keep; tried to get me to believe outlandish tales; took everything I said and twisted it until I got scared thinking he was crazy. All I got for my trouble was my computer hacked!

    SA

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    This site is horrible if you are female. You are not expected to pay, the SD pays...but the fake profile emails sent to you make you feel like you need to pay to see REAL men and the emails just tempt you to pay to see more.

    Most of the single men on the site have no picture but expect YOU to have one.

    Profiles are from the polite to the absurd. Guys who want women to wear nice clothes, speak well and behave appropriately according to their terms and have manicured nails and feet. If a woman had enough money to have expensive clothes and nails done on a reg basis they would not be on the site. HELLOOO

    Yet these same men think they can defile or abuse women on the site because the woman has less money than he does,

    Fake profiles are obvious because what they describe as their WANTS can be completely opposite of the SB's profile description. If a man states he wants a dominant woman, and the woman's profile states she is passive - you know it is BULL when he says he is willing to work with it. SCREW THAT.

    There are a bunch of broke, misogynistic men on there and it is sad for the one or two that are nice men.

    Pros
    You get to take a trip into the mind of a seriously sexually screwed up man who wants you to do weird stuff to his junk and accept him for it. Then he goes home and bangs his wife and hugs his kids. Suddenly, you have this "growth" on your coochie.

    Cons
    See above

    Doesn't work. Don't waste your time

    Review about Illicit Encounters

    Sorry, this site really does NOT work. I thought the high price would justify the quality. Having made a lot of effort to write a genuine and thoughtful profile, it's come to no avail. I never actually got a response from any of the women I liked. Occasionally I do, to say no thanks. But that's it.

    Now some of these profiles are definitely fake. And there is sadly a high ratio of men, so women have the pick. Plus a lot of them want their ideal. They're way too fussy it seems. And to be honest, to big yourself up in a profile like this is not something most people can do, or would do. Even if they're extremely confident.

    So, likely that they'll leave out people that they would have been very happy with

    I wish it wasn't the case, but this was so very much a waste of £129.

    Cons
    - Too expensive
    - How long do you have?!

    Alhamdulillah I found her!

    Review about Single Muslim

    I was looking for that someone special and Alhamdulillah I found her!

    We have been married for 9 months today MashAllah.

    Thank you all.

    It's a scam

    Review about Marital Affair.co.uk

    This one of those 'White label' sites where most of the advertisers didn't join through the same portal as you did - and then grumble that one is married! Certainly has a singles site attached too.

    I came across one of lady advertiser's profile that reckoned she had received 2000 replies...the ratio of men to women is so far out as to a non-starter. Avoid. :@

    Pros
    None

    Cons
    It's a ripoff

    single

    Review about AfroIntroductions.com

    please provide my personal information to your chartrooms.

    lawyer

    Review about Muslima.com

    I really appreciated to muslim .com reviews as i'm follower of the religion i'm proud of it."HAPPY RAMADAN FOR ALL MUSLIMS. ALLAH IS THE GREATEST."

    Pros
    ITS PRONS IS TO BRING UNITY AND BROTHERHOOD AMONG THE MUSLM COMMUNITY.

    Cons
    I DON'T THINK IT HAS CONS.

    Mr

    Review about WealthyMen.com

    If you want to be flooded with emails from Nigeria from people you don't even know what gender they are, don't have a phone, or their phone is always accidentally broken, by all means waste your money on this site.

    Fraud

    Review about Adult Friendfinder

    when you write to some people,they write back to you appearing to code an email address to write them at.I opened 2 windows,1 for the profile with the email,and 1 to write the email.as fast as i could click send on the email and switch windows to the profile,it was cancelled.also,on another occassion,two completely different people sent me a "coded" email with the SAME EXACT email address to reply to even though they lived 20 miles from each other.profile deleted upon email too.

    Pros
    None

    Cons
    it is a con.

    One more thing

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    I just wanted to add something to my earlier review. If you look at the site's terms and conditions, once you upload a photo you grant them approval to use your image however they like. One way they state they can use your image is to "pre-populate" an online dating site. If this isn't evidence that they create "fake" profiles I don't know what is. They are creating a profile for you on a dating site you might not even be a member of, or have signed up with.

    Pros
    Some real profiles

    Cons
    Fake profiles
    Unscrupulous site operators
    Questionable privacy policies
    Expensive
    Waste of money

    from an American woman's perspective

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    I have been a member (free, not paying) for about 4 years now. I usually go to the chatroom which free members can get into once they receive a message from a paying member. I have made many Japanese friends and even dated an American guy I hit it off with from the site for over a year. The past year and a half I have been distance dating a wonderful Japanese man I met on the site. We got engaged on Children's Day (May 5th) during my visit. Most of the American guys (or actually any gaijin men) I see on the site act really poorly by any woman's standards and certainly are not datable material. I would have to agree with one of the guys that posted a comment here that the men who complain probably fall into the category of undesireable. There are many fake profiles I have witnessed first-hand in the chatroom. But that might be common on any site. The thing to remember is that JapanCupid is a forum for meeting people. It is not a mail order bride site. There is never any guarentee anywhere at anytime that a person will find their soulmate and it is even more unlikely on a dating site where distance dating is involved. Just be realistic about it and understand that distance dating is more difficult than most people can imagine.

    Pros
    A wonderful forum to meet Japanese people and share language exchange. In the chatroom all members can use web cam and mic to prove they are not fake and just have good conversation.

    Cons
    Since it is open to practically anyone there are some very mean and rude people. And fake profiles occassionally.

    I think it is better than what neil said.

    Review about Positive Singles.com

    It is a niche dating and support site, not a social site. So, you can not expect it is completely free.

    1. It is free to create a profile and do a quick search.
    2. It is free to reply to emails and instant messages from upgraded members.
    3. It is free to post at the forum and blog area. By the way, their blog is very active.
    4.You can get a refund for your payment later if you are not satisfied with the service.
    5. You can delete your profile. It seems neil did not find the link.

    hold on a minute..

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    Ok so I am a guy on one of the sugar daddy websites.. I have a good job, drive a good car, motorcycle and rent my own apt.. I am not a millionaire but make enough to treat a girl out for dinners, movies, bars etc.. What I want in exchange? - that she hangs out with me and we have some good time together! A serious relationship, sex or anything else would not cross my mind the very first time I meet her! .. I am 25 .. tall and good looking .. However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen ... some "millionaires" could afford to do that but it's unlikely that you find a REAL millionaire on these sites coz i guess they have their own network to get real girls to hang out with them.. I agree that if men are just using women for a one night stand in exchange of dinner, that's not right but the girl has to be smart enough to figure whose right and whose wrong ... the main reason I am on the SD website is coz my work place does not have too many women and since I am a professional working in a male dominant industry, it's hard for me to get access to nice girls ... Guys like me really look forward to meeting genuine girls but also girls who're nice and not just gold diggers!

    let's listen to our souls...

    Review about Iranian Singles Connection

    let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....

    Pros
    let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....

    Cons
    let's listen to oue souls and move on together.....

    Other side of the coin

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    As previous poster said:

    "Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart."

    As one financially well off, I think that marriage and abuse of divorce laws produce the biggest gold diggers in the world. There is no bigger gold digger than a married woman. Better for the rich to avoid monogamy or marriage at all costs. I would rather go for a sugar babe with known costs than give a lien on my wealth to a wife with unknown costs and potentially wealth damaging divorce actions.

    Also marriage these days don't last long anyway with huge penalties for the man to leave it, so better to go in for arrangements.

    Rip-off

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    (zip)(6)

    Pros
    They make money off of you.

    Cons
    They take your money and spend it on things you don't have.

    mr

    Review about Muslima.com

    IV BEEN ON THIS WEBSITE FOR 2 WEEKS NOW AND FEEL IV WASTED MY CASH.ONLY A HANDFULL OF MEMBERS WANT TO GET MARRIED MOST ARE THERE TO MAKE FREINDS,MIDNIGHT TEXTERS AND CALLERS ITS NOT REALLY MY CUP OF TEA. DAMMN I SHOULD HAVE STAYED WITH SHAADI.COM NOT ONLY WAS THE PRICE REASONABLE BUT THE CONTACT WAS AT A GOOD RATE.

    Pros
    quick access

    Cons
    NOBODYS LOOKING TO GET MARRIED