Editorial Review: Seeking Arrangement - Navigating Modern Relationships
In the ever-evolving landscape of online dating, Seeking Arrangement stands out as a platform tailored for those looking for mutually beneficial relationships. The website facilitates connections between individuals commonly referred to as "Sugar Daddies" or "Sugar Mommies" and "Sugar Babies." This model of relationship seeks to combine companionship and mentorship or financial support in a transparent manner. Let us explore what sets Seeking Arrangement apart in the crowded world of online dating and the unique approach it takes towards modern relationships.
Understanding Seeking Arrangement
Seeking Arrangement is more than just a dating site; it is a community where individuals can find partners who share their desire for a specific type of connection. Unlike conventional dating platforms, Seeking Arrangement is explicit about the type of relationships it promotes—those where both parties agree on the terms, goals, and benefits of their arrangement. This clarity attracts members who value honesty and intention in their relationships.
The platform prides itself on providing a safe and secure environment for its users. By placing a strong emphasis on mutual consent and respect, Seeking Arrangement seeks to demystify and destigmatize relationships where financial support is a component. For many, this platform represents empowerment, allowing users to find arrangements that align with their personal and financial aspirations.
Features and Functionality
One of the key features of Seeking Arrangement is its robust privacy measures. Understanding the sensitivity around relationships involving financial aspects, the platform ensures that its members’ data and interactions are protected. Profiles and photographs submitted to the site undergo thorough screening for validity and relevancy, ensuring that the users engage in a community that prioritizes authenticity.
Moreover, the platform employs a simple yet effective user interface that facilitates easy navigation through its features. Users can create detailed profiles, highlighting their specific needs and expectations. Advanced search filters allow members to find matches based on various criteria, including location, interests, and arrangement preferences. This targeted approach saves time and increases the likelihood of forming meaningful connections.
Joining the Community
For those considering joining Seeking Arrangement, the sign-up process is straightforward. Potential members are required to provide basic information and undergo a verification process to ensure authenticity. This step is crucial in maintaining the integrity of the community and ensuring that users are interacting with genuine profiles.
Once registered, members can choose between a free basic membership or a premium subscription, which offers additional features like enhanced visibility, more messaging options, and exclusive access to events. These events, often held in major cities, provide opportunities for members to meet in person and expand their social networks within the community.
A Unique Approach to Relationships
Seeking Arrangement’s approach is rooted in the modern understanding that traditional relationship models do not suit everyone. By offering a platform where the terms of a relationship are openly discussed and agreed upon, Seeking Arrangement encourages transparency and eliminates ambiguity. This openness fosters relationships where both parties know what to expect and are satisfied with their interactions.
The platform’s user base is diverse, ranging from young professionals and students seeking mentorship and financial support, to successful entrepreneurs looking for companionship. This diversity underscores the various motivations people have for joining Seeking Arrangement, each valid in its own right.
A Balance of Privacy and Security
Security and privacy are paramount at Seeking Arrangement. The website requires users to complete an additional security step to ensure that only legitimate users can access their services. This added layer of protection demonstrates the site’s commitment to safeguarding its community against fraud and deceit.
Beyond technological measures, Seeking Arrangement also maintains a comprehensive privacy policy. This policy outlines the measures taken to protect user information and ensure that personal data is not shared without consent. Such diligence reassures members that their experiences on the platform are secure.
Conclusion: Is Seeking Arrangement Right for You?
Seeking Arrangement is not just another dating site; it is a sophisticated platform for individuals seeking relationships based on mutual benefit and transparency. It challenges traditional norms and offers an alternative that respects the personal priorities and expectations of its users.
Whether you are a young adult seeking mentorship and support, or a successful individual looking for meaningful companionship, Seeking Arrangement offers tools and a community that aligns with your needs. With its emphasis on privacy, security, and clear communication, it’s a robust option for anyone interested in exploring modern relationship dynamics.
Ultimately, the success of Seeking Arrangement lies in its ability to facilitate honest and mutually satisfying relationships. For those who embrace the concept of transparent arrangements, it serves as a valuable resource in pursuing personal and relational growth.
Costs
A Seeking Arrangement free membership offers you lots of possibilities. To get full acces to several features on the website, you will need a Seeking Arrangement account upgrade. The Seeking Arrangement price for an upgrade via Seeking Arrangement is $30 for 30 days. For 90 days, you can pay Seeking Arrangement the amount of $84.95 via Multicards.
Contact
The Seeking Arrangement contact email address is: [email protected]
i hate this site
i been on the site for about a month an i met this one guy name wall street party or something like that an this guy tricked me into spending time with him an he would give me money an take care of me an all he did was ruff me up an had his was an just gave me $20
Scam & spam that's it.
I was on there for almost two years, in the beginning it was good until everyone got on there. Now they only feature the same men and women all year long and everyone they leave hidden so only a select few can really be seen. I noticed this after doing searches and realizing I would have to go through 500 pages to see new faces. They put the best looking people upfront but I have a feeling they are fake profiles because I know a lot of people on there personally and not one of them is featured and because if you try to complain about the site on the blog, they will delete your post. If you complain that they deleted your post, they will delete that one too. That to me is a shady site that has too much control. No one I know even gets emails anymore and if they do the guys are all flakes anyways when it comes to actually supporting you in any way.
A lot of people are very upset with that site and have given up. No one I knew on there was doing well after this year started. They have moderators in the blog who urge young women to work harder and harder to please men and keep reminding them that it takes a lot of time, energy and effort to see the fruits of their labor. The point is to find someone to spoil you not a discount whore house. The problem for men is they get a lot of spam, and scams. I feel bad for the young women on there who can't see the complaints.
Pros
I don't know if their is any good side to the site anymore. It's crooked.
Cons
All of the above.
BEWARE
I had a guy who sounded better than the rest. He said all the right things; made promises he did not keep; tried to get me to believe outlandish tales; took everything I said and twisted it until I got scared thinking he was crazy. All I got for my trouble was my computer hacked!
SA
This site is horrible if you are female. You are not expected to pay, the SD pays...but the fake profile emails sent to you make you feel like you need to pay to see REAL men and the emails just tempt you to pay to see more.
Most of the single men on the site have no picture but expect YOU to have one.
Profiles are from the polite to the absurd. Guys who want women to wear nice clothes, speak well and behave appropriately according to their terms and have manicured nails and feet. If a woman had enough money to have expensive clothes and nails done on a reg basis they would not be on the site. HELLOOO
Yet these same men think they can defile or abuse women on the site because the woman has less money than he does,
Fake profiles are obvious because what they describe as their WANTS can be completely opposite of the SB's profile description. If a man states he wants a dominant woman, and the woman's profile states she is passive - you know it is BULL when he says he is willing to work with it. SCREW THAT.
There are a bunch of broke, misogynistic men on there and it is sad for the one or two that are nice men.
Pros
You get to take a trip into the mind of a seriously sexually screwed up man who wants you to do weird stuff to his junk and accept him for it. Then he goes home and bangs his wife and hugs his kids. Suddenly, you have this "growth" on your coochie.
Cons
See above
hold on a minute..
Ok so I am a guy on one of the sugar daddy websites.. I have a good job, drive a good car, motorcycle and rent my own apt.. I am not a millionaire but make enough to treat a girl out for dinners, movies, bars etc.. What I want in exchange? - that she hangs out with me and we have some good time together! A serious relationship, sex or anything else would not cross my mind the very first time I meet her! .. I am 25 .. tall and good looking .. However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen ... some "millionaires" could afford to do that but it's unlikely that you find a REAL millionaire on these sites coz i guess they have their own network to get real girls to hang out with them.. I agree that if men are just using women for a one night stand in exchange of dinner, that's not right but the girl has to be smart enough to figure whose right and whose wrong ... the main reason I am on the SD website is coz my work place does not have too many women and since I am a professional working in a male dominant industry, it's hard for me to get access to nice girls ... Guys like me really look forward to meeting genuine girls but also girls who're nice and not just gold diggers!
Other side of the coin
As previous poster said:
"Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart."
As one financially well off, I think that marriage and abuse of divorce laws produce the biggest gold diggers in the world. There is no bigger gold digger than a married woman. Better for the rich to avoid monogamy or marriage at all costs. I would rather go for a sugar babe with known costs than give a lien on my wealth to a wife with unknown costs and potentially wealth damaging divorce actions.
Also marriage these days don't last long anyway with huge penalties for the man to leave it, so better to go in for arrangements.
Meet The Real Sugar Daddies and Mommies
I had a friend who joined SA and she cancelled her membership after the first three months. She met a guy who was a drug lord, who had connections in her country and threatened here to visit him or else. Now with kind of blackmail going on how can you be safe after allowing yourself to trust some of these men letting them in to know you and then they intern use the information to blackmail you. Well she had inspired me and i started a millionaires club with a different twist, both sugar daddies/mommies and babies get to meet each other in person at a private party every month so they can get to know each other all millionaires are verified as well as their networth. So if you need to find the real deal visit www dot meetelites dot com
lovely lady
I have actually been on this site a total of two years. I have had some great experiences. Once I found I guy that paid me well to be happy I stuck with him. I made an arrangement with one guy on the site. He was 30 years older then myself however, he was really goos in the bed and he paid for everything and I mean everything including my tuition. I received money from him everytime I went to see him and a generous amount of funds also went into my account every week. I was pulling in over $5,ooo.00 from him every 3 weeks. He also took me with him into his jet where I became apart of the mile high club. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO exciting. I ended up moving and we lost touch with each other and I have not been able to find him since then.
Pros
some guys are who they say they are
the guys that are real actually don't mind helping out
the site is easy to navigate
Cons
None just yet
A breeding ground for loosers
This site is a scam, and I can't believe they haven't been closed down.
The site at one time may have been the real thing, but now the site is
crawling with con artist.
You will not find a real SD on this site. The guys are there for only one reason
to get laid by women stupid enough to believe what they say.
Pros
Not a darn thing
Cons
Fake profiles
Loaded with broke men
Site used as a virtual club to get laid FREE
Miss Craig
As with anything else in life where variables are involved, in other words, good vs bad, this site is no exception. I have been on it for a year. Apparently, I had experienced "beginner's luck," as the first man I met within two weeks of signing up was actually what he porported to be; wealthy and truly interested in forging a SB/SD relationship. This involved no more than every other weekend to various locals involving wonderful resorts across the globe. Everything was first class; the transportation, accomodations, wining-dining, etc. He was an older man, not bad looking (Clint Eastwood type) didn't have any weird predelections, was a decent height- had hair, wasn't fat, had a pleasant personality, was intelligent and polite-all good. He alloted me generous sums of cash upon my arrival at the various locations in addition to the monthly stipend he wired to my account. (We're talking annually over 6 figures, btw.) Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart. Anyhow, I resumed my membership on SA and proceeded to meet a series of less than stunning individuals. All were frauds, fakes and pretenders. Some were the worst; obnoxious on every level pretending they really had something to offer when they were doing little more than creating the opportunity to have access to beautiful women which would never happen in real life beyond their computer access. Others, were interested in immediate cash "meet-ups"-the sort of exchange that can be otherwise derived from the yellow pages. Then there are those who must have had an abundance of time on their hands, who wish to feed/entertain their particular brand of narcissism. These are the ones who demand volumnous, endless email and photo exchanges-a sort of free supply of attention coming their way, that you eventually recognize is not going to result in any actual meeting, (much less SB/SD exchange.) But, the absolutely worst reprehensible ones are those (again) who waste your time in actually arranging a date. Within minutes of arriving, (Gals, be suspicious of "coffee dates"-not too impressive at the onset, you know?) it's abundantly clear, the guy is so gross he couldn't date his way out of a paper bag and so "not of means" he wouldn't pay a dime to witness Christ ride a bicycle! He certainlyisn't really going to shed cash on a woman and he, in so many words, will indicate this soon enough. While sipping your coffee, you will soon actually perceive his latent anger that he really cannot have you as nothing else has worked out in his life and he may become slightly obnoxious. Again, an example of this site creating another opportunity for "looky-loos" and posers to have their moment in the sun, being graced by a value beyond their reach. Therefore, I caution the women on SA to be judicious in utilizing such a forum and understand that just as with anything else in life where the strata of humanity is involved, there is a possibililty (admittedly, odds are not favorable) to find the "real deal" on SA.
Pros
Possible to find the real deal.
Cons
You can potentially meet;
-Men who do not really have means.
-Men who are not attractive on any level.
-Men who will waste your time.
Seeking arrangement is a hoax
It does seem odd that these men who self reportedly are worth 10-15 million dollars will squabble over a couple of thousand dollars to have sex with you. Seriously, I had one guy offer to fuck me in my ass in a starbucks bathroom. These guys are vile, disgusting, and will advantage of the naive, so beware. If someone really wants an arrangement with you and make $1 mil a year, they can afford to pay you more than 250 dollars for sex. Or even 500 dollars. I am disappointed by them and how manipulative and horny and ungenuine they are. Someone should work on shutting this site down. It is just a way for men to access beautiful young girls through lies and deceit. I am glad to say that I have not let any dirty mother fucker off the site even kiss me. Make these guys show you the money even before letting them touch you.
Cons
total time waster
guys will lie over and over to you
no one seems really serious about an arrangment
The Other side of the story
This site is laid out very well and is ridiculously easy to navigate. The absurd number of people who mislabel themselves with the baby, daddy, mommy thing is somewhat disturbing and shows the intelligence level of the users. ... I mostly noticed the mislabeled sugar babies in the sugar mommies or daddies section so I suppose a low IQ of the sugar babies is to be somewhat expected but really. ... They explain very clearly what each is before you sign up.
Other than that... lot's of guys not really looking for a real SD/SB relationship. More like casual fuck friends or "personal secretaries". Not so much what I was there for.
I did however have dinner with a guy with a very nice vehicle which may have been a rental but I'm pretty sure was his. He was a gentleman and very intelligent and I didn't detect a hint of aggressive or pushy behavior.
Pros
Easy to use
Lot's of profiles
Active users
Cons
Dumb users
lots of profiles that are inactive
not a lot of nice guys on the site
not enough local to my location
Really Really Appalled
I have been on this site for a while now and I must say most of the guys on this site dont seem to know what an arrangement is or supposed to be. They seem to think that endless emails, and dinner pretty much sums it up.
Take note men, your on this site for a reason, live up to it or get off the site. I am a beautiful, intelligent, kind and interesting women. I live up to my end of the deal, now live up to yours.
I do not wish to meet for dinner and have you paw at me. I do not wish for you to invite me out for the night and I clear my scedule for you to be a creep. Pay for dinner, my time and my cab home. Thats why I am on this site. Why are you?
Pros
Im sure there are some if you find a legit guy ...but I at this point am very doubtful.
Cons
The men are misleading,
Their intentions are misleading.
and it never really developes into a reall SD type relationship.
BEAUTIFUL GIRLS! SAVE YOUR SELF AGRIVATION DON'T DO IT
BEAUTIFUL GIRLS BEWARE OF THIS SITE & ONES LIKE IT!!!!!!! If you are a nice, pretty, educated and young woman and want a wealthy older man - take a yachting course or wine tasting class, or work at a bar where rich people frequent, or ANNNNNNYTHING ELSE. PLEASE READ BELOW:
SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE AS MUCH CHANCE MEETING A RICH MAN WILLING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ON THIS SITE - OR IT'S COMPETITORS - AS YOU WOULD WORKING AT MACDONALDS AND WAITING FOR SOME RICH GUY WHO FANCIES A BURGER TO COME IN BY CHANCE AND NOTICE YOU (actually I would wager at MacD's you have more due to laws of supply and demand)
Young women are completely exploited on these sites. I spent several months and a lot of time and energy on this site and 2 of the other reported best ones. The men (mostly grotesque and and not actually wealthy at all in fact) are all inundated with hundreds of offers from beautiful desperate girls every week. They do not have to prove their wealth. The ones I met were clearly just using it as a cheep way to get easy, endless attention from young ladies they would never be able to even talk to under normal circumstances. Even the ones who are wealthy have no intention of actually forming a true sugardaddy relationship. They are just hoping to get free NSA sex in exchange for dinner.
Why spend your time making such an effort with a man who you will most likely be embarrassed to be seen with who does not care about what you think or say and has no interest apart from parading you around for a night and trying to get sex off of you - in exchange for dinner (as in one of my dates you might not even get cab fare and spend most of the night guarding your mouth with your fork for for fear he puts his tongue in it every time you speak GROSS!!!). You can get dinner from a hot guy on a normal dating site or social network.
I spent loads of time writing endless e-mails (a lot of older guys just join for titillation of writing back and forth)with guys that promised help that never materialised. I also spent time away from work and money travelling on dates, got stood up and I even got jipped £20 cab fair from one who wouldn't let me take public transportation home - he gallantly put me in a cab - but then didn't have any cash to pay and didn't give it back to me the next day. I got pawed up by a disgusting guy who was supposedly a pillar of society and told by this hideously unattractive and badly dressed man (think grand dad golfing) that he liked me better than the "exceptionally beautiful" girl he dated from the site earlier that morning - at least my "wonderful personality" made up for the fact that I was "only just pretty and not beautiful" like the other girl. - He actually said that - he who was disgusting. For 1 the beautiful girl was probably not as polite as I was. And 2nd I've dated stunningly gorgeous guys and none of them have ever told me I was "just pretty"; and they have been more appreciative and a million times more polite interesting generous and intelligent - oh and some of them have actually been rich not pretending like this guy who I found out did not actually have any money ( he reported on his profile $50 million).. etc. etc. etc. Their forums are full of girls complaining about the same thing and much worse. PLEASE PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T waste your time and let these vile con artists take you for a ride.
***If on the other hand if you are aged, over-unattractive, overweight, over-sexed, balding and with not much conversational skills, but you want many gorgeous lovely young women to go out with every night (whom you can lie to about your supposed nonexistent wealth) these are the sites for you.
Pros
NONE
(SERIOUSLY, YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!)
Cons
TIME WASTER! LOTS OF EFFORT & STILL LEFT WITH BILLS & ZERO FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.
IN RETURN FOR YOUR BEAUTY, POISE & KINDNESS YOU GET: AGGRAVATION, EMBARRASSMENT, SEXUAL HARASSMENT (AND YES, DINNER) FROM GROSS, UNATTRACTIVE, MEAT-HEAD WANNABES WHO HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT THIS SORT OF AN ARRANGEMENT IS AND/OR NO INTENTION, OR ABILITY OF ACTUALLY BEING IN SUCH AN ARRANGEMENT.