I think the 2 previous reviewers were spot on for covering the male experience on the site but I thought it would be fair to give a female perspective since there isn't one on here.
If you are a woman looking for NSA/FB encounters AFF will change your life. If you think you want to start off with an NSA and then eventually turn it into a relationship, I don't think this site is for you.
There was a serious learning curve when it came to AFF but here are the pertinent points:
Fill out your profile. Make a list of the 3-5 most important things to you in a FB. Post them. Post sexy photos. Wait, surf profiles, and send messages when you like someone's profile.
Don't respond to the angry hate mail or 2 word/1 sentence emails. If at any point in your communications or profile perusing you get an odd feeling about someone, just disappear. They'll be others, I promise and you'll be saving yourself from a whole lot of crazy. The good ones make themselves known, clearly. Weeding through the chaff takes a lot of time but the rewards, oh the rewards, are so worth it.
The world is generally more accessible to the attractive but moreso on a sex site. I'm an attractive gal but I have never been so visually satisfied with my bedfellows than when I was on that site. Now that I'm regular dating again, it is with a sigh that I relinquish the sight of washboard abs and strong jawlines from a daily basis to a couple times a year occasion... and remind myself that kindness (which was definitely lacking on that site) counts for a heck of a lot more. I was looking a little above my rating on AFF but not leaps and bounds over. Reality should still play some part of your expectations for your AFF finds.
Most of the men I met with exceeded everything I ever thought I'd want in a lover but even they had horror stories of pretty but insane women and women with unreasonable expectations. The site is overrun with pros and webcam girls so the few real girls are in high demand. The attractive real ones can have a ball if they have the fortitude and patience to weed through all the junk and a thick skin to get through the sheer insanity of it all.
Pros If you are realistic about the female soul sucking nature of NSA relationships and you are still sure you want to do it, you can meet seriously attractive, intelligent, and skilled men.
Allows you to pre-screen a little bit better than with beer goggles on in a bar.
Can be free if you are attractive/in demand.
Cons Guys don't try to trade up on this site. Otherwise you are going to be very disappointed (If the hotness of the girl matters THAT much to you, hire a pro. If a woman wouldn't go out on a normal date with you why on earth would she be willing to have an NSA arrangement with you, for free?) Ladies, don't try to trade up too high, either. The world unfortunately still revolves around youth and beauty, free sex or no.
I don't think anyone besides a hard core sex addict could survive on that site for long. For a woman, it is difficult to remind yourself that ultimately your feelings don't matter. It is only ever about sex.
The site blocks and loses messages all the time. Repeated attempts to trade email addresses can be frustrating, but if they are that hot, keep trying.
Be wary of autorenew. I swore I turned off the auto renew feature more than once and I got renewed for 2 subscription rounds anyway. By the 3rd, it stuck and I was able to shift back down to a free account.
girls who winked or tried to contact me before i paid to join now do not respond when i try to reply to them even when they are online.i wonder if they were really interested or was this just a gimmick to get me to become a paid member.
Pros it would be good if women who flirt with u r real and reply
Cons i haven't made contact with anyone,as many as ten,who winked,flirted or tried to contact me before i paid for plantinum membership
complete con job. signed up for 3 month trial period and they are billing me for a YEAR. Even after cancelling and deactivating the account I am getting billed. This is a total fraud. Do not sign up.
You get heaps of attention, as soon as your a member...you get nothing. The girls that have been sending messages are there, online will will not make contact after joining.
Pros It would be good if it was realistic, no fake profiles
You get charged 3.95 and then again for 161.70 for six months, call and try to cancel and they are rude and say too bad you are stuck , you then get e-mails from Nigeria scams when people get your info , huge rip off don't do it
Its entirely down to luck that you happen to get in touch with a woman who is actively seeking partners. Its best that she is relatively new, still finding her feet, and still interested in the potential for sex.
Once she has settled in for the long haul she will either turn to exploiting any angles she learns to use; or simply doze off and become one of the many dreamers who clutter up the site.
The women who you are most likely to be successful with tend to be transients. They will use the site for a limited period of time, have real affairs and then just as mysteriously as they arrive, they vanish back to their married life. Having proved that they still can and will do it if they need to.
Those that remain are sex workers, gold diggers, site commission seekers, dreamers, feckless dabblers, revenge seekers and those who unfortunately have mental health issues.
Obviously staying on the site to find new partners can become expensive. Creating false id's and such like doesn't really help. You still need to get out and find those women and they will only be ready when it suits them. That unfortunately is entirely down to luck that you coincide with their visits.
Give it a go if you can afford it. But to be honest you have more likelihood of meeting women if you join an amateur activity, voluntary or charity organisation. Women prefer to find men in their element.
The site is no worse than any other commercial site. They all have techniques to get customers. IE does have some genuine women on it.
Pros If lucky and you make the right effort you will do okay.
Cons The collections of those mentioned as being the ones to avoid.
:(( THE BIGGEST SCAM OUT THERE. YOU CAN NOT CANCELL YOUR ACCOUNT. THEY WILL TELL GIVE YOU A CANCELLATION NUMBER THAT IS TOTAL BS. THEY WILL CONTINUE TO BILL YOUR ACCOUNT MONTH AFTER MONTH REGARDLESS FO HOW MANY TIMES YOU CALL THEM. STAY AWAY. LOOK AT ALL THE NEGATIVE REVIEWS ON THE NET....
Pros NONE
Cons THE ENTIRE SITE IS A SCAM. YOU CAN NOT CANCELL YOUR SUBSCRIPTION AND THEY WILL CONTINUE TO BILL YOUR ACCOUNT MONTH AFTER MONTH. STAY AWAY...
This site Spams you with repeated emails from the same pictures with a different name and email address every day. What a shame I naive enough to think this site had any credibility. I hope to find the correct agency to see if I can have this Scamming Spamming site shut down. I am lost as to how this review says it gets two stars. This is a NO STAR site and needs to be shut down.:((
Pros None. Absolutely no reason a person would join this site. There are lots of legitimate Free sites that offer a whole lot more.
Cons "Cons".... that is the correct name for this site... a bunch of Con artists.
This site is a complete rip off. You get messages from people who are inactive 10 minutes later. Lots of women trying to con you to join other sites and even women saying they would like you to pay for their services. Surely thats prostitution even on an affair site. Dont waste your money
Pros None whatsoever
Cons Its all a big con as the site links with other sites that have no interest in marital affairs at all
i agree this is a scam nothing but false hopes first you have to pay 3.99 to read messages then they want you to upgrade before you even upgrade you get nonstop profile views by super hot chicks and you even get to talk with them for like 3 mins each but after you sign nothing happens so cancel if you sign and if you havnt welll obviously dont its just stupid republicans letting these scam artist continue scamming poor lonely innoccent people fuck this capitalist society!!!!!!!!!!
It is possible to meet folk from this site who are what they say they are and are seeking what they say, however as said there are an awful lot of scammers & wierdos.
But do remember that folk who use this site are by nature cheaters and by the nature of there presence liers to at least someone, there is no reason to assume that the same will not apply to the interactions that you will have.
Perhaps the most honest are those that say they want a casual relationshio or friendship.
Many (perhaps greater than 50%) will indicate they are stuck in a stale relationship & seeking a 1 2 1 longterm relationship, it is in this setting that experience shows care & cold judgement must be used. Several things can be encountered
- the meat collector - does not have the honesty to admit they seek sequential new meat will make out they only recently joined the site will talk the talk but do not really make the effort for a longterm thing, then move on to the next chase.
- the pure scammer - is after money or similar - will spin a story after period of time that they need so much £ then they can change there situtation
I would suggest that any man using the site browses it for several weeks before joining so they can work out who the chatters / players and scammers are, do pay attention to the membership No, they are issued in sequence so the lower numbers mean they have been a member for longer - most successful folk will use the site to meet someone then leave it well alone so if someone has an 'old' number despite what the profile words may say they are a chatter / player / scammer. Another way is to us the 'way back when machine' (google it - but its old copies of the site).
Pros Some women are what they say but very very few,
Cons Its a site for cheaters so expect lots of lies & good actors. by the time you take out the scammers / chatters / players very very few are what they say they are
Anyone with a membership No starting 2 / 3/ 4/ 5 are serial players if there after casual that fits, otherwise steer clear - there is a reason they are still on there
Without going into inappropriate detail, I have met and very much enjoyed the company of a number of ladies via this site! I've been a member on and off for a few years.
Any dating site attracts fools and weirdos as well as people looking for the same thing as you. Because women can join Illicit Encounters for free, some are tyre-kickers or are just looking for a friend.
I use the message system a lot and weed out women I'm not interested in, or who just want cyber-chat or a shoulder to cry on. The ones I want to meet, I set up a meeting as soon as they're comfortable and take it "off-site" and go from there.
I get good results by being polite and respectful but cheeky, not moaning or being overtly sexual. I don't bother with the whole virtual gifts thing - my aim is to meet beautiful women as soon as possible, not flirt on the internet.
I think you get what you put in, and the high price keeps out the riff raff.
Pros Some beautiful & genuine women looking for an affair or a no-strings meet-up join this site.
High price keeps out wannabes, waverers and fools
Cons Some women on the site are not beautiful or genuine and/or not looking for an affair or a no-strings meet up. Don't allow them to waste your time.
:(( As one of your revies said "they must be off their head or testing for paying 100 pounds for a month,wait for it I paid 89 pounds for a week.My advice is dont do it,IVE HAD NOTHING BUT EMAILS WANTING MORE MONEY.And one lady telling me where I could put a virtual kiss......
Quite frankly, ALL THIS IS, IS A PORN SITE! It was highly recommended by a friend. Whom right now due to steering me to this site I am not talking to right now. I mean I tried to get past all the penis' and this so called "FREE GIFT" They give you a c**k ring. It probably busts EVERY gay cliche there is.
Not to mention ANY email I got on this site was from people 39+ years of age, who wanted to have sex with me.
I got one email from a man "Hey sexy lemme kno if u wanna f**k me" And the actual email was nonetheless and for lack of a better word DISGUSTING in itself. On my page it said "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEX! I am looking for a relationship."
I am an old fashioned dater. ANd quite frankly all this site is for is "Hey lets meet up for one night stands."
This has to be the most disgusting site I have ever been on. I would rather pay for EHarmony or Match rather than go on this site ever again
Pros There are NO Pros to this site
Cons totally pornographic, full of jail bait chasers, disgusting people, disgusting imagery, rude people
The first failed after the first date due to difficulty arranging any follow-on dates with the sugar baby.
The second failed after the third date. It became obvious that she was uncomfortable with the sugar baby lifestyte. She cut off the arrangement quite poorly immediately after I had prepaid the 2nd month's installment. She kept the money.
After this second failure I became very frustrated with my results but I decided to try one more time -- and only one more time. Luckily, this third time worked like a charm. Presently I am into the fourth month of an arrangement with this third sugar baby. She is gorgeous, intelligent, and much fun to hang with. We are quite compatible and the arrangement supports both of our special needs.
As a reasonably successful 50+ year old guy, I now have a beautiful mistress. I can thank SA for bringing us together.
Pros The number of really stunning young women on the site is remarkable. All the women I contacted (about a dozen) were real women. I have tried other dating sites (not suger daddy sites) and these other sites create fake accounts for females to entice male subscribers. This is not the case with SA.
Furthermore, if you are a legitimate sugar daddy, expect that the vast majority of women will respond to your emails.
Cons Expect to spend significant money and time to find a compatible sugar baby.
Muna: I so agree about Williams Cole- he even contacted me but did not mention anything about his life story. He was very flirty and wanted me to give him the chance to melt my heart- needless to say I didn't bother replying.
Now for my review- I thought I would join Muslima.com to find myself a spouse but boy what a waste of time. I have since de-activated the profile so glad I didn't pay for this utter trash!!
So many fake profiles- male and female. The ones that contact you are sweet talkers- say they want marriage when in fact they just play games!
Another profile to look out for is that of: Dawud Yusuf- Male / Single / ID: 3834178
An American revert who writes the following about himself:
'My name is Dawud Yusuf. Al hamdulillah I reverted to Islam while working in Doha, Qatar in 2008. I am a 27 year old Emergency Medical Technician Intermediate and I am looking forward to starting a family of my own insh'Allah. I would really like to live in an Islamic State as I believe it would be much easier to raise children with the right set of values. It is also incumbent upon me as a Muslim to marry in order to fulfil my deen.
I am looking for a beautiful young woman who is ready to share in the responsibility of raising a God fearing, family. I am looking for a woman who will love me and my children with all of her heart, mind, and soul second to none other than Allah swt. The woman I am looking for must love and fear Allah swt. She must honour what Allah swt has commanded women to do. She must observe hijab, pray 5x daily, eat halal always, observe sawm, and be willing to assist me in teaching these fundamental principles to our children. I am also preferably looking for a native Arabic speaker who can assist me in learning and mastering the language of the Glorious Quran.'
Again, what a load of trash- seen the same profile 2x on there with the same pic!!!!!!!
Another one is that of Hakeem (also known an Richard Fullan : [email protected])
Pic of an attractive white guy- he e-mailed me he said he was in Nigeria working as a self employed constructions engineer- no offence to the genuine Nigerian Muslims, but alarm bells went off... anyway he continued to e-mail me but this was on and off with him going quiet then randomly contacting me again. Eventually he says he is having issues in Nigeria and is trying to raise money- he has used all his savings / mum's money etc- I just thought yes whatever and blocked him! He was supposed to be back in the UK in May this year and surprise, surprise is still out in Nigeria.
I found this site very disheartening- ended up thinking that something was wrong with me since none of the men on there wanted to settle. I am so glad that I am off it now and have faith that I will meet someone who is genuine!
Pros There are ONLY a hadful of people looking to settle, the rest are fake, fake and oh yes fake profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A Woman's Review of Adult Friendfinder
Review about Adult FriendfinderI think the 2 previous reviewers were spot on for covering the male experience on the site but I thought it would be fair to give a female perspective since there isn't one on here.
If you are a woman looking for NSA/FB encounters AFF will change your life. If you think you want to start off with an NSA and then eventually turn it into a relationship, I don't think this site is for you.
There was a serious learning curve when it came to AFF but here are the pertinent points:
Fill out your profile. Make a list of the 3-5 most important things to you in a FB. Post them. Post sexy photos. Wait, surf profiles, and send messages when you like someone's profile.
Don't respond to the angry hate mail or 2 word/1 sentence emails. If at any point in your communications or profile perusing you get an odd feeling about someone, just disappear. They'll be others, I promise and you'll be saving yourself from a whole lot of crazy. The good ones make themselves known, clearly. Weeding through the chaff takes a lot of time but the rewards, oh the rewards, are so worth it.
The world is generally more accessible to the attractive but moreso on a sex site. I'm an attractive gal but I have never been so visually satisfied with my bedfellows than when I was on that site. Now that I'm regular dating again, it is with a sigh that I relinquish the sight of washboard abs and strong jawlines from a daily basis to a couple times a year occasion... and remind myself that kindness (which was definitely lacking on that site) counts for a heck of a lot more. I was looking a little above my rating on AFF but not leaps and bounds over. Reality should still play some part of your expectations for your AFF finds.
Most of the men I met with exceeded everything I ever thought I'd want in a lover but even they had horror stories of pretty but insane women and women with unreasonable expectations. The site is overrun with pros and webcam girls so the few real girls are in high demand. The attractive real ones can have a ball if they have the fortitude and patience to weed through all the junk and a thick skin to get through the sheer insanity of it all.
Pros
If you are realistic about the female soul sucking nature of NSA relationships and you are still sure you want to do it, you can meet seriously attractive, intelligent, and skilled men.
Allows you to pre-screen a little bit better than with beer goggles on in a bar.
Can be free if you are attractive/in demand.
Cons
Guys don't try to trade up on this site. Otherwise you are going to be very disappointed (If the hotness of the girl matters THAT much to you, hire a pro. If a woman wouldn't go out on a normal date with you why on earth would she be willing to have an NSA arrangement with you, for free?) Ladies, don't try to trade up too high, either. The world unfortunately still revolves around youth and beauty, free sex or no.
I don't think anyone besides a hard core sex addict could survive on that site for long. For a woman, it is difficult to remind yourself that ultimately your feelings don't matter. It is only ever about sex.
The site blocks and loses messages all the time. Repeated attempts to trade email addresses can be frustrating, but if they are that hot, keep trying.
Be wary of autorenew. I swore I turned off the auto renew feature more than once and I got renewed for 2 subscription rounds anyway. By the 3rd, it stuck and I was able to shift back down to a free account.
is it real
Review about CheekyLoversgirls who winked or tried to contact me before i paid to join now do not respond when i try to reply to them even when they are online.i wonder if they were really interested or was this just a gimmick to get me to become a paid member.
Pros
it would be good if women who flirt with u r real and reply
Cons
i haven't made contact with anyone,as many as ten,who winked,flirted or tried to contact me before i paid for plantinum membership
rip off big time will over charge you $161.70 I pray they will drop dead.
Review about SpeedDate.comlet these con artist drop dead the world can do without all of them. pray they all die!
Pros
let them drop dead.
con job
Review about BDSM Singlescomplete con job. signed up for 3 month trial period and they are billing me for a YEAR. Even after cancelling and deactivating the account I am getting billed. This is a total fraud. Do not sign up.
Pros
none.
Cons
complete con job.
Scam
Review about CheekyLoversYou get heaps of attention, as soon as your a member...you get nothing. The girls that have been sending messages are there, online will will not make contact after joining.
Pros
It would be good if it was realistic, no fake profiles
Cons
The whole thing
Rip Off
Review about SpeedDate.comYou get charged 3.95 and then again for 161.70 for six months, call and try to cancel and they are rude and say too bad you are stuck , you then get e-mails from Nigeria scams when people get your info , huge rip off don't do it
Pros
None
Cons
Everything about it
If you are lucky
Review about Illicit EncountersIts entirely down to luck that you happen to get in touch with a woman who is actively seeking partners. Its best that she is relatively new, still finding her feet, and still interested in the potential for sex.
Once she has settled in for the long haul she will either turn to exploiting any angles she learns to use; or simply doze off and become one of the many dreamers who clutter up the site.
The women who you are most likely to be successful with tend to be transients. They will use the site for a limited period of time, have real affairs and then just as mysteriously as they arrive, they vanish back to their married life. Having proved that they still can and will do it if they need to.
Those that remain are sex workers, gold diggers, site commission seekers, dreamers, feckless dabblers, revenge seekers and those who unfortunately have mental health issues.
Obviously staying on the site to find new partners can become expensive. Creating false id's and such like doesn't really help. You still need to get out and find those women and they will only be ready when it suits them. That unfortunately is entirely down to luck that you coincide with their visits.
Give it a go if you can afford it. But to be honest you have more likelihood of meeting women if you join an amateur activity, voluntary or charity organisation. Women prefer to find men in their element.
The site is no worse than any other commercial site. They all have techniques to get customers. IE does have some genuine women on it.
Pros
If lucky and you make the right effort you will do okay.
Cons
The collections of those mentioned as being the ones to avoid.
Scam Speeddate Scam
Review about SpeedDate.comDo not join this. The say they want 3.95 to verify your account then they bill you 161.70 for a 6 month Membership.
Cons
None
Scam Speeddate Scam
Review about SpeedDate.comDo not join this. The say they want $3.95 to verify your account then they bill you $161.70 for a 6 month Membership.
Cons
None
Scam Speeddate Scam
Review about SpeedDate.comDo not join this. The say they want $3.95 to verify your account then they bill you $161.70 for a 6 month Membership.
Cons
None
STAY AWAY. TOTAL SCAM
Review about SpeedDate.com:(( THE BIGGEST SCAM OUT THERE. YOU CAN NOT CANCELL YOUR ACCOUNT. THEY WILL TELL GIVE YOU A CANCELLATION NUMBER THAT IS TOTAL BS. THEY WILL CONTINUE TO BILL YOUR ACCOUNT MONTH AFTER MONTH REGARDLESS FO HOW MANY TIMES YOU CALL THEM. STAY AWAY. LOOK AT ALL THE NEGATIVE REVIEWS ON THE NET....
Pros
NONE
Cons
THE ENTIRE SITE IS A SCAM. YOU CAN NOT CANCELL YOUR SUBSCRIPTION AND THEY WILL CONTINUE TO BILL YOUR ACCOUNT MONTH AFTER MONTH. STAY AWAY...
Spamming and beyond
Review about CitySex.comThis site Spams you with repeated emails from the same pictures with a different name and email address every day. What a shame I naive enough to think this site had any credibility. I hope to find the correct agency to see if I can have this Scamming Spamming site shut down. I am lost as to how this review says it gets two stars. This is a NO STAR site and needs to be shut down.:((
Pros
None. Absolutely no reason a person would join this site. There are lots of legitimate Free sites that offer a whole lot more.
Cons
"Cons".... that is the correct name for this site... a bunch of Con artists.
Marital affair, no way
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukThis site is a complete rip off. You get messages from people who are inactive 10 minutes later. Lots of women trying to con you to join other sites and even women saying they would like you to pay for their services. Surely thats prostitution even on an affair site. Dont waste your money
Pros
None whatsoever
Cons
Its all a big con as the site links with other sites that have no interest in marital affairs at all
i agree
Review about SpeedDate.comi agree this is a scam nothing but false hopes first you have to pay 3.99 to read messages then they want you to upgrade before you even upgrade you get nonstop profile views by super hot chicks and you even get to talk with them for like 3 mins each but after you sign nothing happens so cancel if you sign and if you havnt welll obviously dont its just stupid republicans letting these scam artist continue scamming poor lonely innoccent people fuck this capitalist society!!!!!!!!!!
Pros
NONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cons
EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!
take care
Review about Illicit EncountersIt is possible to meet folk from this site who are what they say they are and are seeking what they say, however as said there are an awful lot of scammers & wierdos.
But do remember that folk who use this site are by nature cheaters and by the nature of there presence liers to at least someone, there is no reason to assume that the same will not apply to the interactions that you will have.
Perhaps the most honest are those that say they want a casual relationshio or friendship.
Many (perhaps greater than 50%) will indicate they are stuck in a stale relationship & seeking a 1 2 1 longterm relationship, it is in this setting that experience shows care & cold judgement must be used. Several things can be encountered
- the meat collector - does not have the honesty to admit they seek sequential new meat will make out they only recently joined the site will talk the talk but do not really make the effort for a longterm thing, then move on to the next chase.
- the pure scammer - is after money or similar - will spin a story after period of time that they need so much £ then they can change there situtation
I would suggest that any man using the site browses it for several weeks before joining so they can work out who the chatters / players and scammers are, do pay attention to the membership No, they are issued in sequence so the lower numbers mean they have been a member for longer - most successful folk will use the site to meet someone then leave it well alone so if someone has an 'old' number despite what the profile words may say they are a chatter / player / scammer. Another way is to us the 'way back when machine' (google it - but its old copies of the site).
Pros
Some women are what they say but very very few,
Cons
Its a site for cheaters so expect lots of lies & good actors. by the time you take out the scammers / chatters / players very very few are what they say they are
Anyone with a membership No starting 2 / 3/ 4/ 5 are serial players if there after casual that fits, otherwise steer clear - there is a reason they are still on there
Good value if you put the effort in
Review about Illicit EncountersWithout going into inappropriate detail, I have met and very much enjoyed the company of a number of ladies via this site! I've been a member on and off for a few years.
Any dating site attracts fools and weirdos as well as people looking for the same thing as you. Because women can join Illicit Encounters for free, some are tyre-kickers or are just looking for a friend.
I use the message system a lot and weed out women I'm not interested in, or who just want cyber-chat or a shoulder to cry on. The ones I want to meet, I set up a meeting as soon as they're comfortable and take it "off-site" and go from there.
I get good results by being polite and respectful but cheeky, not moaning or being overtly sexual. I don't bother with the whole virtual gifts thing - my aim is to meet beautiful women as soon as possible, not flirt on the internet.
I think you get what you put in, and the high price keeps out the riff raff.
Pros
Some beautiful & genuine women looking for an affair or a no-strings meet-up join this site.
High price keeps out wannabes, waverers and fools
Cons
Some women on the site are not beautiful or genuine and/or not looking for an affair or a no-strings meet up. Don't allow them to waste your time.
High price!
art of dating
Review about ConnectingSinglesAny 1 can help me? Why art of dating coming wen I try to login. Thanks
Pros
Always coming art of dating wen I try to login .how should I fix this prob ! Any 1 can tell me Plz even I didn't break the rule there. Thank
bogus messages
Review about Elite Mateelite mate is sending out bogus messages to my inbox in hoping I will sign up.
I detest this practice
illicit encouters
Review about Illicit Encounters:(( As one of your revies said "they must be off their head or testing for paying 100 pounds for a month,wait for it I paid 89 pounds for a week.My advice is dont do it,IVE HAD NOTHING BUT EMAILS WANTING MORE MONEY.And one lady telling me where I could put a virtual kiss......
Hated It
Review about Adam4AdamQuite frankly, ALL THIS IS, IS A PORN SITE! It was highly recommended by a friend. Whom right now due to steering me to this site I am not talking to right now. I mean I tried to get past all the penis' and this so called "FREE GIFT" They give you a c**k ring. It probably busts EVERY gay cliche there is.
Not to mention ANY email I got on this site was from people 39+ years of age, who wanted to have sex with me.
I got one email from a man "Hey sexy lemme kno if u wanna f**k me" And the actual email was nonetheless and for lack of a better word DISGUSTING in itself. On my page it said "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEX! I am looking for a relationship."
I am an old fashioned dater. ANd quite frankly all this site is for is "Hey lets meet up for one night stands."
This has to be the most disgusting site I have ever been on. I would rather pay for EHarmony or Match rather than go on this site ever again
Pros
There are NO Pros to this site
Cons
totally pornographic, full of jail bait chasers, disgusting people, disgusting imagery, rude people
SA eventually worked for me
Review about Seeking ArrangementI started three arrangements through SA.
The first failed after the first date due to difficulty arranging any follow-on dates with the sugar baby.
The second failed after the third date. It became obvious that she was uncomfortable with the sugar baby lifestyte. She cut off the arrangement quite poorly immediately after I had prepaid the 2nd month's installment. She kept the money.
After this second failure I became very frustrated with my results but I decided to try one more time -- and only one more time. Luckily, this third time worked like a charm. Presently I am into the fourth month of an arrangement with this third sugar baby. She is gorgeous, intelligent, and much fun to hang with. We are quite compatible and the arrangement supports both of our special needs.
As a reasonably successful 50+ year old guy, I now have a beautiful mistress. I can thank SA for bringing us together.
Pros
The number of really stunning young women on the site is remarkable. All the women I contacted (about a dozen) were real women. I have tried other dating sites (not suger daddy sites) and these other sites create fake accounts for females to entice male subscribers. This is not the case with SA.
Furthermore, if you are a legitimate sugar daddy, expect that the vast majority of women will respond to your emails.
Cons
Expect to spend significant money and time to find a compatible sugar baby.
Report to Attorney General and FBI, and BBB.
Review about SpeedDate.comSpeeddate.com is scam
Scam
Review about SpeedDate.comSpeeddate.com is scam watch it.
Avoid!!!! DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME AND MONEY!!!
Review about Muslima.comMuna: I so agree about Williams Cole- he even contacted me but did not mention anything about his life story. He was very flirty and wanted me to give him the chance to melt my heart- needless to say I didn't bother replying.
Now for my review- I thought I would join Muslima.com to find myself a spouse but boy what a waste of time. I have since de-activated the profile so glad I didn't pay for this utter trash!!
So many fake profiles- male and female. The ones that contact you are sweet talkers- say they want marriage when in fact they just play games!
Another profile to look out for is that of: Dawud Yusuf- Male / Single / ID: 3834178
An American revert who writes the following about himself:
'My name is Dawud Yusuf. Al hamdulillah I reverted to Islam while working in Doha, Qatar in 2008. I am a 27 year old Emergency Medical Technician Intermediate and I am looking forward to starting a family of my own insh'Allah. I would really like to live in an Islamic State as I believe it would be much easier to raise children with the right set of values. It is also incumbent upon me as a Muslim to marry in order to fulfil my deen.
I am looking for a beautiful young woman who is ready to share in the responsibility of raising a God fearing, family. I am looking for a woman who will love me and my children with all of her heart, mind, and soul second to none other than Allah swt. The woman I am looking for must love and fear Allah swt. She must honour what Allah swt has commanded women to do. She must observe hijab, pray 5x daily, eat halal always, observe sawm, and be willing to assist me in teaching these fundamental principles to our children. I am also preferably looking for a native Arabic speaker who can assist me in learning and mastering the language of the Glorious Quran.'
Again, what a load of trash- seen the same profile 2x on there with the same pic!!!!!!!
Another one is that of Hakeem (also known an Richard Fullan : [email protected])
Pic of an attractive white guy- he e-mailed me he said he was in Nigeria working as a self employed constructions engineer- no offence to the genuine Nigerian Muslims, but alarm bells went off... anyway he continued to e-mail me but this was on and off with him going quiet then randomly contacting me again. Eventually he says he is having issues in Nigeria and is trying to raise money- he has used all his savings / mum's money etc- I just thought yes whatever and blocked him! He was supposed to be back in the UK in May this year and surprise, surprise is still out in Nigeria.
I found this site very disheartening- ended up thinking that something was wrong with me since none of the men on there wanted to settle. I am so glad that I am off it now and have faith that I will meet someone who is genuine!
Pros
There are ONLY a hadful of people looking to settle, the rest are fake, fake and oh yes fake profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cons
Fake profiles
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